My definition of gay is someone who having feelings of sexual attractiveness to the same sex, and has acted upon their feelings....
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A closet gay is someone who acted upon their feelings of attractiveness to the same sex in their past. Now currently is in denial about their attractiveness to the same sex, or/and is in hiding about feelings of attractiveness to the same sex..
Personally, l am experiencing none of the above. My thoughts are coming from a pure place of humiliation, domination for the couple, and power, control for myself...
I never once saw, met, or passed a man whom l was sexual attracted to, and never will...
For me, being gay extend far beyond the act of having same sex..
Under the way some of you all are thinking. If someone of the same sex, get forcefully sodomized, the victim is now gay... Again that's not true..
Hopefully, if you do think this way, you can now understand why your way of thinking is plainly wrong to me...