We are in the same situation. Although I have been tempted to venture out and spend time with a few of my close friends who live close, my husband has insisted that I take no risks. He has bought me some toys that can be paired by Bluetooth with internet-connected devices, allowing my friends to control them remotely. Although the toys do not work perfectly, I get to play a little this way and enjoy some orgasms at the remote “hands” of my friends. Nevertheless, the toys are a poor substitute for the real thing.
Really! Are you kidding! It is easy to get tested before any interaction. Just like for any STDs. You bulls should be respectful and get tested before doing any with your wife and anybody else. I do and all my partners does also. I am having no problem being with my lovers.
You're right to a point. The test may overlook the small but growing amounts of virus in someone who has not yet developed symptoms, who could still go on to spread COVID-19 without knowing it. So you need toweigh the risks of meeting new or existing sex partners. We will have to contend with the uncertainty that a negative test result does not rule out infection.Really! Are you kidding! It is easy to get tested before any interaction. Just like for any STDs. You bulls should be respectful and get tested before doing any with your wife and anybody else. I do and all my partners does also. I am having no problem being with my lovers.
We are new to all this and the virus has definitely affected us as well as prospective partners.
I think a lot of people have this problem. I read a BuzzFeed article where one of the interviewees talked about this. I wrote an erotic story about this too
Rapid tests also have the ability to come back with false negatives and false positives with no symptoms. I have had no issues here in Destin fla
This is a link to the BuzzFeed article.
https://www-buzzfeednews-com.cdn.am...aelblackmon/sex-dating-hooking-up-coronavirus
Here is link to some of my stuff:
https://medium.com/@blackadonis30
I say, just hang in there, and just see this as time out for a while. I met my current wife 13 years ago, and part of us becoming a couple was that she would also one day become a hotwife. Life kept getting in the way for her/ us and it took 4 years before she started fucking another guy. She had a ball, loved our new lifestyle and fucked him once or twice a month for 18 months. She was feeling a million dollars and I was in cuckold heaven. Unfortunately, he had to move interstate, and we then needed to find a new gent. Took nearly 12 months to find the guy, then found a really nice guy, wonderful wife who loved eating pussy, similar age, lived locally. Thought bingo, we've hit the jackpot.
Few dinners later, we go back to their place, we had earlier told them we need to be careful as she wasn't on the pill and she was ovulating. Anyway they then get into it, and he starts fucking my wife like there was no tomorrow, I mean seriously rough, hard and fast, was like it was a totally different guy we just had dinner with, and his wife was was starting to get weird and jealous watching it/ him enjoy it so much. My wife sensed it as well, and then asked him to stop, he kept fucking for possibly 15-30 seconds begging her for just a little longer as he was close to cumming, but my wife insisted and he knew we all wanted him to stop.
We left shortly afterwards as it was still a little weird, but the next day, my wife was in the shower washing her pussy and bit/ tip of the condom was in there, and then panic set in. We figured he had tampered with the condom, because when they stopped he made no mention of the condom breaking, and we didn't think otherwise when he wrapped it in a tissue without us being able to see it.
The other problem was, we had been trying for another baby for ages, and now if she was pregnant, we wouldn't be certain who the ******* was, and if would have to abort it, as he would have leaked precum into her for at least the 30 minutes they were fucking and could have impregnated her.
So after a negative pregnancy test, this whole drama, slammed the brakes on with my wife going from loving being a hotwive, to saying, its probably not for her anymore, all because of one assholes selfish action, and years of finally getting there.
It took us 2 more years before we met another guy, and she started to get back into enjoying. But she now can take it or leave it, rather than the way she was at the beginning, and loving living out her slut alter ego in front of me.
So, just hang in there, worry about the other more important things for now, and just see it as a break thats probably necessary anyway.
Few dinners later, we go back to their place, we had earlier told them we need to be careful as she wasn't on the pill and she was ovulating. Anyway they then get into it, and he starts fucking my wife like there was no tomorrow, I mean seriously rough, hard and fast, was like it was a totally different guy we just had dinner with, and his wife was was starting to get weird and jealous watching it/ him enjoy it so much. My wife sensed it as well, and then asked him to stop, he kept fucking for possibly 15-30 seconds begging her for just a little longer as he was close to cumming, but my wife insisted and he knew we all wanted him to stop.
We left shortly afterwards as it was still a little weird, but the next day, my wife was in the shower washing her pussy and bit/ tip of the condom was in there, and then panic set in. We figured he had tampered with the condom, because when they stopped he made no mention of the condom breaking, and we didn't think otherwise when he wrapped it in a tissue without us being able to see it.
The other problem was, we had been trying for another baby for ages, and now if she was pregnant, we wouldn't be certain who the ******* was, and if would have to abort it, as he would have leaked precum into her for at least the 30 minutes they were fucking and could have impregnated her.
So after a negative pregnancy test, this whole drama, slammed the brakes on with my wife going from loving being a hotwive, to saying, its probably not for her anymore, all because of one assholes selfish action, and years of finally getting there.
It took us 2 more years before we met another guy, and she started to get back into enjoying. But she now can take it or leave it, rather than the way she was at the beginning, and loving living out her slut alter ego in front of me.
So, just hang in there, worry about the other more important things for now, and just see it as a break thats probably necessary anyway.
So agree!
Take a cue from the Poly community. Build some trust, build a pod, get tested, and when everything is as clear as it can be these days have some fun.
I think a lot of us are in the same boat. My wife and I have had similar experiences--a couple of duds and another guy who was a great candidate but lives out of state. At the beginning of the year, we had decided that she would go out with a girlfriend with a sort of hall pass and see if she could pick up a guy or two. I was going to serve as their uber driver. The night out was scheduled for March 14th. We all know what happened that week and so our plans have been put on hold. We have busy lives so our normal schedule has occupied us, plus a little porn. We are also very cautious and prefer not to take a chance. Unfortunately, there is no condom that a guy can put on that gives us 99 percent safety.
We've looked at it like a risk / benefit analysis. We are older so high risk. However, we don't have diabetes. We aren't overweight, and we are Nudists, high vitiman D. We don't attend high risk events like Trump rally's, churches, or bars. We don't work on the front lines. We don't work! We are careful and wear masks indoors. We don't tend to worry about masks outside but we do keep our distance.
As far as our social / sex life, it's definitely slowed down, but we found different things to do. We live almost 4 months a year at a nude resort in California. We have a core group of 5 couples. We did outside dinners once a week this summer. Since there was no place to go dressed sexy, everyone dressed in slut wear. Since we were not spending money going out, we went all out on dinners, filet, king crab, scallops. One Saturday we had one of our female friends act as a server! She did have to be disaplined!
Those parties made our summer! Yes there was some risk, but there has to be some balance. Everyone has to make their own decisions about risks and benefits.
As far as our social / sex life, it's definitely slowed down, but we found different things to do. We live almost 4 months a year at a nude resort in California. We have a core group of 5 couples. We did outside dinners once a week this summer. Since there was no place to go dressed sexy, everyone dressed in slut wear. Since we were not spending money going out, we went all out on dinners, filet, king crab, scallops. One Saturday we had one of our female friends act as a server! She did have to be disaplined!
Those parties made our summer! Yes there was some risk, but there has to be some balance. Everyone has to make their own decisions about risks and benefits.
Sounds a lot like my routine the past half a year. I can't host events anymore and I wouldn't be caught dead at all the gangbangs that have been happening every week out here.
Covid killed alot of our fun in some places more than others. Some of us have others we dont want to risk more than issues with ourselves. My BF has relatives who are high risk groups so we dont play anymore and I am afraid it will get much worse before it gets better.
Sadly yes, but I hope not for long.
