More assumptions. I've had endless conversations asking all of those questions and more. I actually tend to over-communicate if anything. I've also paid attention to and considered every response given in this thread. It has nothing to do with me thinking I know it all or I wouldn't have asked. It's still funny that you feel you are righteous in your actions and some of us just can't defeat our toxic make tendencies.
Toxic male tendencies like having sex with multiple women while your wife is at home, but convincing yourself it's ok because you have an open marriage and you're just teaching them?
Toxic like convincing yourself that it's better to sleep with other women than to want to watch your wife with other men?
Maybe you should explain to your wife that it's not that she's not good enough to be your one and only, but that you just can't control your toxic male tendencies to sleep with anything that walks.... I've had that conversation with my wife, and she still doesn't want to share me and have an open relationship, so I've sucked it up, grown up, and learned to supress my immense interest in other women and instead try to focus all of my desires towards her.
Maybe you should try growing up and not needing other women and just allowing your wife to satisfy all of your needs
OOHHHH and the truth comes out.
I listed several questions, you refused to answer them. So you have not asked them, because if you had, you would have provided the answers. I was trying to help you. I cant help you if you just argue ALL THE TIME
but we see the truth -- this has nothing to do with your wife.
I appreciate you trying to disrespect my wife. Thank you for that. Shows how much class you have. The fact that you get the impression that I sleep with every woman I talk to is an interesting perspective. The women that do not sleep with me, might feel disrespected, since they disagree with you. But you are "KING" and all knowing.
This is the crux of the problem for you.
" I've had that conversation with my wife, and she still doesn't want to share me and have an open relationship, so I've sucked it up, grown up, and learned to supress my immense interest in other women and instead try to focus all of my desires towards her."
Dude Im sorry that your wife does not want to do your fantasies. I think I touched on that in the first reply that you are "forsing" her to do this for yourself, you kept arguing that "NO SHE WANTS THIS!!" but the truth is that she doesnt. the only one being horrible to his wife is you, not me. My wife loves me and I adore my wife. I am not going to address your comments, cuz I am very secure in my marriage, unlike you, who has a lot of problems.
Oh, you cannot OVER COMMUNICATE you idiot. You can be annoying and repeat yourself when you dont listen well, which I can see you having problems with that, since that is what you have done this whole time. I have paid very close attention to what you have written, maybe you should re read what you wrote. I asked the questions because you failed to OVER communicate with us. Remember, you asked for advice, you gave us like 5% of the whole story and wanted us to comment like we know what you are talking about LOL, hilarious
then you got upset that we missed the mark, So I said, ok, and I asked for more clarification, then you got upset that we want more info, so we can give you BETTER advice
the only person QUITTING is you. I am literally wasting my time talking to you. You are a BLOCKHEAD, and you seem old enough to know that reference.
Get off your throne. You have a problem in your marriage. If you didnt realize that before, you should realize that now. The reason that couples and men and women trust me is because I am married, I do have a successful open relationship, I do have love in my heart. I am 100% honest, even when people dont want to hear that truth. Im not your friend. I dont know you. I have nothing to lose by telling you the truth.
I have 20 years of behavioral work, I have 20 years of educational background. I have 20 years working with couples in a sexual coaching capacity. Like, at some point, you need to admit that I might know more about human behavior, psychology and also how men and women view sex and relationships.
I also know what good communication is and what isn't. I can also tell what resentment looks like, and right now you resent your wife for not BEING into your desires for OTHER women. I think you might want to talk to a Dr about your sex drive. I dont have an answer for you, since you just told us this has nothing to do with your wife but all about you.