Hi.
I just layed out my fantasy about her being a hot wife. I did not pressure her and explained in detail what the fantasy was all about and that is was something I had thought about for years before "coming out".
She said that she was only interested in me and this was nothing for her, but she liked getting the looks from other guys from time to time. She also said that there of course could be some change in the future "on never knows" as she said, and that she would discuss it then.
We are in a healthy stabile relation where we can talk about anything. Now, she was a bit surprised by my fantasy and I think that it might go "slow playing" her into enyoing being a hot wife.
I was thinking of taking this step by step, adding no pressure but introducing more and more ideas on how to play with the fantasy.
First I was thinking about asking her to send sms and/or tell me about when she is looked at and how she enjoys it.
Then wait for like a month or some thing, then during a romantic wekeend ask her if she want to sit by her self in the lobby and let other guys flirt with her, but nothing more.
Then wait another month, introduce som cuck porn and lick her afterwards.
Then wait another month and ask if she can start a page on som sex dating site and just flirt with guys and stuff.
And continue like that until she feels more comfortable with the idea. Do you think this will work? Or is it to pushy to try to get her try somethings step by step with a month apart?
I just layed out my fantasy about her being a hot wife. I did not pressure her and explained in detail what the fantasy was all about and that is was something I had thought about for years before "coming out".
She said that she was only interested in me and this was nothing for her, but she liked getting the looks from other guys from time to time. She also said that there of course could be some change in the future "on never knows" as she said, and that she would discuss it then.
We are in a healthy stabile relation where we can talk about anything. Now, she was a bit surprised by my fantasy and I think that it might go "slow playing" her into enyoing being a hot wife.
I was thinking of taking this step by step, adding no pressure but introducing more and more ideas on how to play with the fantasy.
First I was thinking about asking her to send sms and/or tell me about when she is looked at and how she enjoys it.
Then wait for like a month or some thing, then during a romantic wekeend ask her if she want to sit by her self in the lobby and let other guys flirt with her, but nothing more.
Then wait another month, introduce som cuck porn and lick her afterwards.
Then wait another month and ask if she can start a page on som sex dating site and just flirt with guys and stuff.
And continue like that until she feels more comfortable with the idea. Do you think this will work? Or is it to pushy to try to get her try somethings step by step with a month apart?
