Beautyandheat
Couple
This sounds like a good step for your marriage in that you can be open and she doesn't hold it against you. I'm thinking of what makes for a good marriage and not from what gets you to your fantasy threesome.
A part of getting honesty is to not overreact to what you get, and it sounds like your wife did that. That's more openness and trust, which is good, whatever she says. I'd thank her for her being gentle with you.
Second, upon reflection I'd talk to her about what made her cry. What was going on for her? It might point to something she's carrying you can help her let go of.
Finally, I also like the idea of asking her what her fantasies are. That sounds like a good plan, totally from the standpoint of a good marriage,.
P.S. I've had one failed marriage without good communication and am just shy of ten years in one with good communication.
A part of getting honesty is to not overreact to what you get, and it sounds like your wife did that. That's more openness and trust, which is good, whatever she says. I'd thank her for her being gentle with you.
Second, upon reflection I'd talk to her about what made her cry. What was going on for her? It might point to something she's carrying you can help her let go of.
Finally, I also like the idea of asking her what her fantasies are. That sounds like a good plan, totally from the standpoint of a good marriage,.
P.S. I've had one failed marriage without good communication and am just shy of ten years in one with good communication.