Hello, I see the wife has been on here from time to time. we have been talking about taking the first step into what ever u guys call it. We are looking on honest advice and examples... What rules have you guys come up with as couples? Do you have safe words? My wife told me when we were talking about it, NO ANAL, NO BLOW JOBS, NO or VERY LITTLE KISSING, CONDOMS A MUST. What rules do you all have? Please advise!