So I started having hubby wear a condom everything we fuck about a month ago and we both enjoy it greatly. I find it hot that he will no longer be feeling my pussy and I will no longer have his cum inside me. If I could find a regular, reliable bull I may cut him off altogether. unfortunately being a slut, I need to get fucked and sometimes he's the only and easiest option.
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Hey, how's your journey goin'? (Noticing your post is from August last year.) Are there any updates? (i am not asking about your experiences with Black men but rather what's become between hubby and wife?) Do you still have penetrative sex (with condoms only)? TY
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A new twist to this I'm going to start is I will limit the condoms he gets.....if he wants more sex, he's going to have to buy extra condoms from me.
That's a very naughty idea. But i wonder about its appeal?
i can see two different approaches here...
(A) would be more subtly in the field of T&D (tease and denial) play. You limit the number of available condoms per month. Say, a ten- or twelve-pack. Then tease the $hit out of hubby early each month so he will constantly be tempted to use up the contingent.
Say, using all condoms within the first week of the month would mean a phase of hot and more frequent sex, but also that hubby will have to remain outside his wife's body for the rest of the remaining three plus weeks of that month.
(B) would be more of a FinDom/Slutwife approach. (i don't believe that i would ever do that, but for those who find it arousing, i guess it could be a hot variant of play?
) The fact that hubby had to buy condoms for having penetrative sex with his wife has yet another implication: indirectly it means he would have to pay for s3x with his own wife.
i guess this is not necessarily an appealing thought for many couples for more than one reason. i can see the appeal for a monogamous husband who gets off on the thought of being reminded of "the pecking order" when it comes to male-male competition with "the bulls" he feels "naturally submitting" to. - The idea that he has to pay for a pu$$y (and probably a$$) that other men, "the alphas", are enabled to enjoy for free may be rewarding when it comes to consumating the humiliation aspect of that arrangement. Also it may serve the FemDom aspect of the wife having sexual power expressed as financial power over her hubby and money as a means to control her hubby's sexuality (or the amount of him getting any)?
The biggest problem
in my opinion is how to actually implement that idea. How much is the wife going to charge for a condom (= for penetrative sex with her)? Neither hubby nor wife will feel too comfortable with the thought of him paying her less than the average street ****** because from his point of view she is the one he adores and respects more than he possibly could any other woman in the world! Also the wife most probably would like to see that respect transpired which a five dollar bill would obviously not be able to do. The downside would be that sex will most likely be limited to perhaps less than a handful of times per month because of financial limitations. (An arrangement with a high-end pr0stitute is not necessarily limited by the cost. Some charge thousand dollars or more a night; even on the lower side of the spectrum an hour of fun will cost at least $250. Which would ImO be reasonable for a wife to demand of her hubby in the described FinDom/Slutwife scenario.)
@Nhcuckcpl: As i have no idea of your income situation, i cannot tell if this would still be appealing to you or not because limiting sex for the hubby (which he might enjoy) also means less sex for the wife (unless she has one or more regulars who give her the pleasure she rightfully demands and deserves as the Hotwife/Vixen).
Another possible approach and alternative would be to gradually increase stakes! Even starting at as low as $1 and doubling the price each subsequent "condom" will mean a lot being summed up at the end of the month. (i know maths is not sexy. But it works!
) We're talking about exponential growth here. For the example given it means 5 condoms equal 31 bucks only, with 8 condoms you would be at 255. And ten condoms come with a price of 1023 bucks in total already. The eleventh condom alone would add another 1024, meaning a total of 2047! Of course this concept is adjustable to best suit your needs. If you feel like doubling the price is to great of an increase, you can use a different factor (1.7 for instance, or 1.5?) You could also rather have a linear increase instead (starting from $10, then increasing to twenty, then thirty, forty, a.s.o. - this example means the fifteenth condom will come at a cost of 150, totalling in 1,200, if you sum it up with the earlier condoms.)
- Just a few ideas.