Why does there seem to be so few real people?

[Jo Roman]

How could I forget to add ..,
Thanks!

 

[CuckToBeInWV]

I know that my flaky FWB had decided she was ready to get blacked, and we posted an ad on the local craigslist. I'm pretty sure about 2/3 of the replies were fakes, catfishing, using someone else's pics. I don't get it, why do that, when it's time to meet, you'll get caught. Just wastes our time, and I wonder if they simply want to waste our time. I know it makes us cynical and not trust people.

 

[Jo Roman]

That’s exactly how we feel.

I’d like to think that they’re just lonely people who don’t realize that “faking” or “catfishing” is almost cruel for peope who are already anxious about pursuing good opportunities.

I almost feel sorry for them. Almost.

Here’s hoping the good outweighs the bad.

Thanks

 

[LeeandJen]

If you're in or near a fairly major city you will have much better luck on swinger sites. I'm in the biggest city in the US and even I have a difficult time finding real people to attend my parties on this site. However, I primarily meet people on swinger sites and I've met hundreds of people over the years who have attended my parties. Look at it like this,most people here are just kicking tires, trying to see if this lifestyle works for them or husbands still trying to get their wives on board. Swinger sites are more heavily populated with actual "buyers", meaning people who are looking to make something happen. Also, most swinger sites have some type of certification/validation system where people are able to vouch for one another. If you are serious about finding someone real, you should explore that option.

Agree, for real dates we depend on SDC most of the time. The search perameters are the easiest to use if you are looking for black gents.

 

[OwnedWife4good]

I gave up on sites like AFF and SLS. Such a time burner and so many liers. Now I watch for a sexy black man in my daily travels. Example Shopping, the Gym is a great place. Work circles with extreme care. A simple anklet goes a long way. No BBC ornament, just a classy gold chain left ankle had gotten me quite lucky.

 

[Henry Psallas]

I gave up on sites like AFF and SLS. Such a time burner and so many liers. Now I watch for a sexy black man in my daily travels. Example Shopping, the Gym is a great place. Work circles with extreme care. A simple anklet goes a long way. No BBC ornament, just a classy gold chain left ankle had gotten me quite lucky.

And what does the ankelet actuality represent, or what message is it sending, that you are available ??

 

[BlkGodX]

We are real it's just that work and the schedule kicks our ass. I have been so tired lately I can't even.make it to.my apartment door I pass out in the car.

 

[TexasPervySage]

Because it's the internet.

 

[IamYourQuinn]

Am real in my own world.

 

[MissouriBBC]

I gave up on sites like AFF and SLS. Such a time burner and so many liers. Now I watch for a sexy black man in my daily travels. Example Shopping, the Gym is a great place. Work circles with extreme care. A simple anklet goes a long way. No BBC ornament, just a classy gold chain left ankle had gotten me quite lucky.

I've never heard of this one, can you dive deep into this please? I might start paying closer attention. A picture of the anklet could be helpful as well.

 

[OwnedWife4good]

And what does the ankelet actuality represent, or what message is it sending, that you are available ??

As a standard it signifies the wife is open to male advances, and plays as she pleases. I have a couple one of which has a sweet little black Spade on it.

I've never heard of this one, can you dive deep into this please? I might start paying closer attention. A picture of the anklet could be helpful as well.

 

[OwnedWife4good]

As a standard it signifies the wife is open to male advances, and plays as she pleases. I have a couple one of which has a sweet little black Spade on it.

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I got mine at Etsy.

 

[Henry Psallas]

Am real in my own world.

Hmmm....Very interesting!!!

 

[Henry Psallas]

As a standard it signifies the wife is open to male advances, and plays as she pleases. I have a couple one of which has a sweet little black Spade on it.

And it looks very sexy as well...

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Most people are good but “exciting” sites like this can bring out the devil in them. Great sex starts with respect.
We should look out for each other while exploring fun, and that’s why I started this thread.
Attractive women (and men) make themselves more desirable when sticking up for themselves and other.

What's wrong with the devil side? That's the most excitement...when things turn dark.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

We naively thought we could meet some gifted black man or hot couple who could satisfy Jo or point us in the right direction. It going to take more work than expected.

We’re hanging in there for now, thanks to some of you who know the difference between fantasy and reality.

You're not naive, don't be so hard on yourself lol

A lot of people here (probably most) make the mistake of treating this site like an interracial porn set, as if we just a bunch of hot, naked people laying around doing nothing, waiting to get FUCKED.

Truth is, most of us have a family with *******, sitting at work, browsing this site casually, looking at each other's media lol

Real people meet Real people, it takes time to vet each other, feel each other out... match up life schedules and make proper arrangements.

I've met a few AMAZING women. It wasn't easy, but Damn it was worth it.


Enjoy your stay!
- Daddy Mike

 

[MagicMikeATX]

For a lot of people on here, it's just a fantasy and will never amount to more than that. For a select few though, they actually do more than just fantasize.

100.
Even people claiming to want this...way more talk than walk!
There are some couples on here who have spent 5 YEARS talking about they haven't found the 'right guy'
There are PLENTY of attractive, successful, hung Black men on here (I should know ha) ready and available. At some point it's just a load of BS and people haven't reconciled their own sexuality...OR, is a hubby still trying to come to grips with His role in all of this, and has trouble conceding sexual power to a Black Alpha male.
It's just easier to make excuses as to Why it doesn't work out.

On the other hand, plenty of women have found themselves an excellent BLACK BULL and are getting fucked beyond comprehension.

It's really not that complicated

- Jedi Master Mike

 

[Jo Roman]

You're not naive, don't be so hard on yourself lol

A lot of people here (probably most) make the mistake of treating this site like an interracial porn set, as if we just a bunch of hot, naked people laying around doing nothing, waiting to get FUCKED.

Truth is, most of us have a family with *******, sitting at work, browsing this site casually, looking at each other's media lol

Real people meet Real people, it takes time to vet each other, feel each other out... match up life schedules and make proper arrangements.

I've met a few AMAZING women. It wasn't easy, but Damn it was worth it.


Enjoy your stay!
- Daddy Mike

Thanks fo taking the time to respond! Still laughing about that image of lots of sexy people laying around with their phones waiting to hook up! Have an exceptional day my friend!

 

[Jo Roman]

Actually, we probably took the site too seriously in our search to spice up our life.
Appreciate your perspective, and thanks for adding some humor while explaining the challenges of fitting fun into an otherwise normal and often busy life.
Consider yourself a public servant who brings joy to others. The world needs more volunteers like you.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Actually, we probably took the site too seriously in our search to spice up our life.
Appreciate your perspective, and thanks for adding some humor while explaining the challenges of fitting fun into an otherwise normal and often busy life.
Consider yourself a public servant who brings joy to others. The world needs more volunteers like you.

I'm glad you had a laugh lol
Yes, people DO seem to take all this way too seriously, but i understand. It gets bad when emotions, time, energy, effort, excitement is all invested...only to be let down.
In the meantime, just keep on rocking and enjoying REAL Life!