I like to know why other white men would want to see/have their wife to have sex with a Black guy?
For me it is the idea of providing her with some extra pleasure and to maximize the benefits of it. So the ideal would be for her to get to a higher level of satisfaction than she can achieve from being with me alone. (I mean, what`s the point, if she had a worse experience than she can have with me already? There is no need for such an addition, right?)
Some examples of
her sexual benefits as compared to being monogamous:
+ a
variety of men as opposed to sex with only one and always the same man
+ if she is bisexual then additional
sex with a woman can provide her with something the male partner can not
+
sex with more than one person at a time: the real thing is always better than pretending (e.g. by making use of toys during sexual play as a couple)
+
a "better" lover (better "equipment", stamina, ... than the partner)
+ a
different experience than what she is used to
Taking a closer look at the last two points just mentioned makes it clear and obvious what the traits of the most beneficial lover would be.
As i am a "pale" skinned guy with a medium sized uncut dick and the stamina to make her happy but maybe not go a very long way or give her multiple orgasms
, the preferred lover would be a dark skinned guy, cut, with a bigger package and better stamina who is physically enabled to take her to greater heights
, and treats her differently than i do (e.g. is more dominant, prefers other positions, ...).
But most important is that there is sympathy between all of us and he is an easy-going guy who makes her feel comfortable around and warms her up easily. And such a person is not easy to find! So a big dicked white guy with good stamina who has it, or a medium sized black guy would be a good choice too, just not the optimum.
But there are direct
benefits for the hubby or bf too. Just a list of some examples:
+ the
special excitement from seeing or knowing your woman is being fucked by another person (to discuss where this comes from would be a whole different topic)
+ the opportunity to
watch a live porn with your own woman being the star
+ the opportunity of
seeing her from another point of view and different angles then you would when fucking her yourself, even when participating
(Have you ever seen her facial expression when doing doggy unless she was uncomfortably turning her head? Or seen her nipples respond to your fondling when you took her from behind?)
+ the opportunity of
having moresomes (even if you are not playing with another lady or you are not bisexual)
(Have you ever fucked your woman and made her respond the same way she does when playing with more than one dick? Did she ever feel that tight as she feels when doing DP?)
+
less pressure to perform and make her sexually happy all on your own
+ liberation of her sexuality, her increased satisfaction and awareness of her physical attractiveness leads to a more confident and happier woman and this in turn leads to less frustration, less arguments and
a better relationship (and thus a happier husband/bf too
)
Not every single of these points applies to everyone or everyone`s situation, i know, but, i guess, most of them are true for a majority of men in relationships.
Is there anything special about black men as lovers, taking these points into consideration? I would say, not necessarily. But...
if you have a white or Asian woman as a wife or gf, then, taking a closer look at the second benefit mentioned,
a black man is definitely a plus. Seeing a black man`s hand rest on a bright skinned woman`s breast or ass cheek (or his dick sliding in and out her pussy) is
more graphic and visually explicit than a guy with approximatly the same skin complexion.
The contrast provides a clear line between the two bodies and this does a lot! If i was in a relationship with a black woman, would i like to see her with a white guy because of this aspect? Perhaps. But then again, a white guy (me) is what she`d already have on a regular basis, so yet a black man would be a good choice! i think,
i`d always prefer black men as my woman`s lovers to any other guys.
i am a wifesharer at heart, and not (only) because of some "weird sexual kink", but - as explicated above - because this lifestyle actually has many benefits and very good reasons!