Why do you get a hard on?

[Anthony0542]

Cucks, can you explain why you get a ******* hard on just thinking about your wife fucking someone else? Is it only sex with BBC that gets you a hard on?

I’m thinking about a larger BBC tucking my girlfriend and my dick is flaccid as *******

 

[Ovid]

To me it's the pleasure of seeing her fucked to orgasmic heights I am unable to bring her.
I've watched my ex take a bigger cock and it was sexy has hell seeing her body rocked by bigger harder cock that could last twice has long as me.

 

[Anthony0542]

I think seeing your wife pleasured is a big reason for this lifestyle. I was listening to a Christian program on Marriage and Sex and the pastor, Jimmy Evans, said man’s #1 need is his wife’s sexual satisfaction and woman’s #1 need is affirmation and adoration...she wants to be affirmed about her beauty and who she is before sex and during sex.

Fulfillment of these needs connects very strongly with their self esteem and how they feel about themselves.

When I heard that, I was like “that’s the Black to White community right there”

 

[Anthony0542]

Most men want the source of their wive’s pleasure and sexual satisfaction to come from them but if they can’t produce this - their need for their wive’s (or someone they care for) sexual satisfaction comes before there own. Damn

A BBC created that.

I don’t think the need is for a man to find someone else but “it is what it is”

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

(...) I was listening to a Christian program on Marriage and Sex (...)

When I heard that, I was like “that’s the Black to White community right there”

...almost made me spill my *******. *lol* But funnily it seems to be true.

Recently i read an article written by a well-known member here in which she was explaining her (sexual/libido) change throughout the years. She literally described sex in her older, more recent years as more masculine as opposed to her youth because it became wilder and more enjoyable, her sexual lust had increased and today she has a better idea of what she wants to experience. - Come on guys, woman up!
Do you believe that $hit? First you accept suppression of your natural female/feminine sexual wildness, and then, when you finally let out what was slumbering inside you all the years you give it male/masculine attributes? Nope, you err! As a woman you don't have masculine sexuality just because you enjoy a wilder type of sex or a more dominant type or whatever. It is your female sexuality that is all that!

And no, the pastor is not right. Women want sex no less/more than men and men want an emotional/romantic bond no less/more than women. There is a difference on an individual level (depending on "personality" and "age") but not necessarily between sexes.

Does that mean male and female sexuality are the same? Of course not! There are biological differences. But not in how much one likes/craves sex nor what type of sex one likes/dislikes. The bulk is taught by "society" though and either accepted or rejected by individuals.

Sorry, i was driftin'. :| Your question was "Why do you get a hardon?" - my answer: Nothing but my wild feminine sexuality. *duck'n'away*

 

[PleaseFillMyWife]

Cucks, can you explain why you get a ******* hard on just thinking about your wife fucking someone else? Is it only sex with BBC that gets you a hard on?

I’m thinking about a larger BBC tucking my girlfriend and my dick is flaccid as *******

My theory is that it comes from evolutionary pressure. Basically, there's evolutionary pressure on a man to fuck his wife quickly if she was just fucked by somebody else, so that it minimizes the chance that she could get pregnant by somebody else, which would likely diminish the husband's total progeny. This impulse would be exaggerated in proportion with the degree to which the other man's genetic makeup differs from that of the husband because the resultant offspring would share less of the husband's DNA in this case than if it were, say, one of his cousins she was with.

In normal males, this particular impulse is far outweighed by the impulse to be with a woman who is not going to fuck anybody else, such that those men would be more likely to experience rage than arousal. However, as with things like masochism, sometimes the normal inhibitors are not present and a situation most members of the population avoid strangely becomes what a minority of the population seeks out.

 

[slinky1]

For myself, even at 52yo I would easily still have an erection/s 50% of the entire day, that includes going to bed with an erection, waking up in the middle of the night with one and obviously first thing in the morning. A lot of it comes from me constantly playing with my cock, watching way too much porn, and I edge when I masturbate so that keeps me constantly hard. But I think as a cuck, your brain never stops thinking about it, wanting it, needing it, fantasising about it. For myself, its impossible for me to turn off, the thoughts go with me everywhere I go. Most times, if its not porn, its recurring thoughts of my wife/ ex's with other men. Sometimes it only has to be seeing a woman in public who may be dressed like a what I percieve to be a hotwife... heels, slutty revealing clothes, anklet etc. and i'll be rock hard. A lot of times i've had to masturbate just for my cock to go flaccid and I can get on with my day, and get some work/ chores done.

 

[Anthony0542]

My theory is that it comes from evolutionary pressure. Basically, there's evolutionary pressure on a man to fuck his wife quickly if she was just fucked by somebody else, so that it minimizes the chance that she could get pregnant by somebody else, which would likely diminish the husband's total progeny. This impulse would be exaggerated in proportion with the degree to which the other man's genetic makeup differs from that of the husband because the resultant offspring would share less of the husband's DNA in this case than if it were, say, one of his cousins she was with.

In normal males, this particular impulse is far outweighed by the impulse to be with a woman who is not going to fuck anybody else, such that those men would be more likely to experience rage than arousal. However, as with things like masochism, sometimes the normal inhibitors are not present and a situation most members of the population avoid strangely becomes what a minority of the population seeks out.

I feel you guys on the evolutionary theories and everything but humans are way more complex than two apes trying to fuck to get as many of their ******* on the earth. There is a primal part of us but I think we can all agree that we don’t look at the zoo and look at humans and say....”damn there go my uncle right there”.

Again, I’m not as versed in the evolutionary theories of many on this website but I think we are more complex than just a woman wanting to alpha males to fuck and marry beta males and men having sperm fights. Women want fantastic orgasms and that can be from Shaq or Prince and men want that fucking explosion orgasms - the bigger the better.

Can we just admit.....Sex feels very good, powerful orgasms are like ******* - they activate the dopamine release as *******. Can we say when a woman orgasms hard she just pushed back some an addictive white substance to the brain ...... can we say that watching a women unleash her primal sexuality is like some an addictive white substance to the brain.

That’s why Blacked.com is so popular - dudes look at that abs are hooked, especially if your wife don’t look like that.

If an Alpha male fucked your wife but didn’t give her the big O, she wouldn’t be calling that Alpha again and you wouldn’t be hard as rock if your wife looked bored and uninterested - you wouldn’t be trying to compete vs his sperm.

Sex is a ******* - it releases the same chemicals as ******* do and our behavior is very similar to the addict.

 

[Anthony0542]

...almost made me spill my *******. *lol* But funnily it seems to be true.

Recently i read an article written by a well-known member here in which she was explaining her (sexual/libido) change throughout the years. She literally described sex in her older, more recent years as more masculine as opposed to her youth because it became wilder and more enjoyable, her sexual lust had increased and today she has a better idea of what she wants to experience. - Come on guys, woman up!
Do you believe that $hit? First you accept suppression of your natural female/feminine sexual wildness, and then, when you finally let out what was slumbering inside you all the years you give it male/masculine attributes? Nope, you err! As a woman you don't have masculine sexuality just because you enjoy a wilder type of sex or a more dominant type or whatever. It is your female sexuality that is all that!

And no, the pastor is not right. Women want sex no less/more than men and men want an emotional/romantic bond no less/more than women. There is a difference on an individual level (depending on "personality" and "age") but not necessarily between sexes.

Does that mean male and female sexuality are the same? Of course not! There are biological differences. But not in how much one likes/craves sex nor what type of sex one likes/dislikes. The bulk is taught by "society" though and either accepted or rejected by individuals.

Sorry, i was driftin'. :| Your question was "Why do you get a hardon?" - my answer: Nothing but my wild feminine sexuality. *duck'n'away*

I feel you my way....but the amount of dudes who are on this website saying, “I just want to see my wife get the best sex of her life.....the better the sex for her the better the mental stimulation”

I don’t see a lot of woman saying, “Damn, I want my man to get the fuck of his life - get all those hot bitches to the house and fuck my man until he runs out of cum - I get so fucking turned on seeing my man fuck 5 hot women”

I know this ain’t all men and women but cmon there are some differences.

 

[Anthony0542]

For myself, even at 52yo I would easily still have an erection/s 50% of the entire day, that includes going to bed with an erection, waking up in the middle of the night with one and obviously first thing in the morning. A lot of it comes from me constantly playing with my cock, watching way too much porn, and I edge when I masturbate so that keeps me constantly hard. But I think as a cuck, your brain never stops thinking about it, wanting it, needing it, fantasising about it. For myself, its impossible for me to turn off, the thoughts go with me everywhere I go. Most times, if its not porn, its recurring thoughts of my wife/ ex's with other men. Sometimes it only has to be seeing a woman in public who may be dressed like a what I percieve to be a hotwife... heels, slutty revealing clothes, anklet etc. and i'll be rock hard. A lot of times i've had to masturbate just for my cock to go flaccid and I can get on with my day, and get some work/ chores done.

Slink, do you think if you were packing 8” of hard dick that you would be a cuck......

Honest opinion?

If you were given it to women and they thought you were great in high school - would you be like....I want to someone to cuck me?

 

[Anthony0542]

Fellas, as an outsider to this lifestyle, I find this to be the most fascinating lifestyle I’ve ever seen and I’m just a curious dude trying to understand how this ******* just happens. I know everyone gives the evolutionary argument but that would be happening more than it has been happening because it’s something we naturally do - so I’m searching for some other theories.

I just think when a powerful orgasm gives off the same dopamine effect as an addictive white substance and everything takes about how powerful their orgasms are in this lifestyle and the addiction to it, I’m like “that’s gotta be it”

It’s don’t make you a sex fein, it just gives some rationale for why this lifestyle is hard to leave.

I think that’s gotta be at least as equal to the we are all apes trying to fill our seed and playing Alpha and beta roles just when it comes to sex nothing else.

 

[Anthony0542]

***everyone talks about how powerful their orgasms

 

[slinky1]

Slink, do you think if you were packing 8” of hard dick that you would be a cuck......

Honest opinion?

If you were given it to women and they thought you were great in high school - would you be like....I want to someone to cuck me?

Doubt it very much, I know for a fact my issues with constant/habitual masturbation manifested from having a small cock, which lead to my issues with being fear of being rejected/ overlooked/ ignored or being humiliated if any girl found out or worse, told others. So lived a very introverted/ isolated sexual existence, with almost dreading having sex with a woman and being 'exposed' so just found solace and comfort with porn and masturbation.
I didn't lose my virginity until almost 23yo, so I was almost destined to be a cuck, well before even having a gf or sex with a female.
It thus made me quite submissive to any woman who would be happy to have sex with me. Definitely blueprinted me from my youth navigating my life with a cock I was desperately shamed, frustrated, embarrassed about.

 

[Anthony0542]

Slink, you have been so helpful with describing your journey through this lifestyle. You da effing man. You’ve made it work for you.

The only thing I was trying to say in my comments above was, the way Cucks act on here, they make it seem like the most important sexual need they have is to see their wife sexually satisfied. Like satisfying their wives sexual desires and seeing it makes them so fucking hot.

 

[Anthony0542]

I think bulls would work off that premise also. To be known as the man that gives women ultimate pleasure and allows them to be sexually satisfied and get to see how they react to that is fucking powerful.

That’s more powerful than your wife not allowing you to use your sexual gifts claiming she’s got a headache tonight, or “babe I can’t handle that baseball bat tonight” or “babe you pissed me off so you get none” or acting crazy because she knows all the woman want the big dick.

Bulls are like, “give me a sexy white wife ready to get this fuck and not give me *******”

 

[slinky1]

Slink, you have been so helpful with describing your journey through this lifestyle. You da effing man. You’ve made it work for you.

The only thing I was trying to say in my comments above was, the way Cucks act on here, they make it seem like the most important sexual need they have is to see their wife sexually satisfied. Like satisfying their wives sexual desires and seeing it makes them so fucking hot.

Well, of course I get a huge buzz watching my wife/ ex's climaxing with other men. I've watched them with some very average men, some with smaller than average cocks, not gym fit at all, balding etc. and it still gives me a huge thrill seeing men use my wife for their own needs. Watching my wife cum with a gent thats not a whole lot any more a catch than I am really works for me as well. I'm sure it comes from my youth of girls even going for guys that were less attractive than myself and so I just grew to believe, there's no hot willing pussy out there in the world for me, no one wants my cock or cum, and so my hand was what I relied on.. and still do. I think the one positive of discovering I was a cuck was, realising it didn't have to be an isolating existence like I thought it would be.
Once I found out there were a LOT of other men like myself... I finally belonged to a tribe and that helped me mentally/ emotionally and sexually quite a lot.
I know its very masochistic, but seeing my wife orgasm with any male still cuts me a little bit, but my addictively intense orgasms have always overpowered any angst/ worry or fear.

 

[Anthony0542]

Well, of course I get a huge buzz watching my wife/ ex's climaxing with other men. I've watched them with some very average men, some with smaller than average cocks, not gym fit at all, balding etc. and it still gives me a huge thrill seeing men use my wife for their own needs. Watching my wife cum with a gent thats not a whole lot any more a catch than I am really works for me as well. I'm sure it comes from my youth of girls even going for guys that were less attractive than myself and so I just grew to believe, there's no hot willing pussy out there in the world for me, no one wants my cock or cum, and so my hand was what I relied on.. and still do. I think the one positive of discovering I was a cuck was, realising it didn't have to be an isolating existence like I thought it would be.
Once I found out there were a LOT of other men like myself... I finally belonged to a tribe and that helped me mentally/ emotionally and sexually quite a lot.
I know its very masochistic, but seeing my wife orgasm with any male still cuts me a little bit, but my addictively intense orgasms have always overpowered any angst/ worry or fear.

Slink, Thanks dude for sharing your experiences.....

 

[Anthony0542]

I know its very masochistic, but seeing my wife orgasm with any male still cuts me a little bit,

I think what would piss me the fuck off is seeing her embrace this stranger like he’s her loving husband. Look at him like no one else in the world matters (that’s supposed to be for me), giggle with him like you two have known each other for years, embrace each other like I don’t fucking matter, hearing her scream how great this stranger is just because he has a big dick (she ain’t screaming out my name when I’m there for her, when I support and meet all her needs....”if you ain’t hollering out my name when I do the ******* that matters - you damn sure shouldn’t be hollering out his”. I just hate to see how wives worship strangers with big dicks and dog the dudes they should be worshipping.

I guess this might be the reason why I don’t get a hard on......hahahahaha

I love women on this website that continuously say, “My husband is great, he’s awesome, he’s my one and only, yeah I enjoy sex with my bull but nothing is better than being with my husband” That ******* gives me a hard on ......Jk.....I do love to hear it though.

Give my cuck some fucking love. If your cuck takes care of all of your needs, encourages you and shows nothing but love for you, and allows you for have sex with many well endowed men (many who are 10s) - she better be hollering your name and singing “my husband is great, great, great” like a nursery song - I’m just saying