You are only considering one aspect of what attracts me to black men - their physical makeup. But, as others have posted, I would rather be with a black man who might not be body-perfect, but who treats me with consideration and respect (I know that goes against the idea of controlling and owning, but so be it) and allows our feelings for one another to develop along with our physical relationship. I have encountered too many self-imagined studs who think of me and white women in general as notches to show their conquests. I don't need that kind of attitude to have to deal with.