Why Become a Cuckold?

Hi Dsoul

You sound like a real solid guy who knows so much about the interracial lifestyle and are as into it as I am.

I've been into interracial sex for over 20 years and when I first got into it I thought I was alone as there wasn't any of the social network sites there are now. During that period I've had vanilla relationships that have been fun but they've always missed that spark as, despite love and caring for my partners, sexually there's been something serious missing. This arises from the fact that I'd much prefer to see my partner fucking a big black bull than fucking me!

This of course also limits intimacy as well, as you can't convey your deepest desires and feelings if your true sexual identity is suppressed. So the time has come for me to find that girl!

So here are my credentials as a cuckold partner. I'm early 40s, well-educated, attractive, empathic, easy-going, very caring and have a strong social conscience. I'm open-minded sexually, politically and culturally, and definitely not a 'norm' follower having very little respect for mainstream politics and business.

I also know what I am not. I'm not a big man with a big cock! I'm not a guy who looks for rewards or recognition from a corrupted and destructive establishment, I have my own morals and are guided by those.

But I'm totally at ease and happy being the beta/cuckold male in a cuckold relationship where my partner fucks black men. Black men who are bigger, stronger and more dominant than me. I enjoy the eroticism and taboo of interracial sex and want to explore it with a partner.

Sexually I'm heterosexual but am more interested in licking my partner's white pussy than penetrating it - I would love a devout "black cock only" girl. Basically I'm interested in exploring all interracial and cuckold possibilties.

Although I'm a very easy-going guy I'm serious when it comes to finding a cuckoldress as a partner!

Just out of curiosity, have you ever been with any woman who knew about your desire for such?
 
First off, I am 41 and on my second marriage. What I am about to tell you, I never felt with my first wife, therefore I am unclear of where these feelings came from. Other than my wife, you are the first to hear of these desires, maybe you can help me make sense of it.... Up until a few months ago, I didn't even know what a Cuckold was....

I'm not a Cuckold (yet) but from time to time would like to experience the lifestyle. The primary reason I am interested in this lifestyle is out of the pure joy of seeing my wife in the throws of her orgasm(sexual satisfaction). I am not a tiny man (7") however we have experimented with much larger toys ect. I can tell you from those experiments that she has much quicker, stonger, longer lasting orgasms as size increases (she loves huge cock). This is a huge turn-on for me....Not sure why? It's almost a primal tendency, something in my DNA that makes me submissive to the dominant Male (larger cock).... Verbaly, my wife does not share the same feelings and quite frankly communicates a distaste (most often) for a dominant male. However, I know for a fact that with the right situation, during the right time, she would absolutley give herself to a large cock. We joke and chat about this quite frequently. In fact, this topic comes up in a joking manner fairly often. She makes it known that the only acceptable options would be a dark, heavily muscled young man with a monster cock.....! Anything less wouldnt be worth the experience. I don't know if she is serious or not, but it's fun to talk about. Sometimes for fun, she will send me a pic of a huge man because she knows I won't be able to get home fast enough. Like many others, we both grew up in conservative households, I broke free, she did not. She has only had a few partners in her life including myself. I have always maintained that all women lie, however I have to say, I actually believe her.

With all that said there is also and element of stress that makes me attracted to the possibility of sharing her with a large Bull. As an executive, I typically work 80+ hrs a week and I have to admit, relenquishing control to a dominant male takes some pressure off me and adds a ton of sexual excitement. I seek out and enjoy pretty much anything that doesn't involve me being in control or making a decision when I am away from my job. I have to admit, I have often times thought about a dominant male requiring me to service him before he services my wife... This confuses me, but it is in my head for some reason....?

Just a few nights ago (via text), I talked to her about one of my greatest fantasies (that she may consider). I want to take her to Vegas (yes, Im that naive) and find her a 6'4"+ 240lb+ Hardbody, packing a monster package with hands the size of plates to massage her, relax her, touch her ect...... She replies back... "I would be very scared".... My repsonse was....and in 10 minutes you would be at ease, 30 mintues relaxed, 45 minutes curious, 60 minutes aroused, 70 minutes wet, 90 minutes very full, 120 minutes very tense (for the 3rd time) followed by very loud, 130 minutes very tired, 140 minutes very messy.... Repeat!! She replies back.... "That's exactly what scares me"! "We both know I would end up liking it"!

Sorry for the rambling, but your getting the first brain dump of my self admission..... So with that said, maybe I am a virgin Cuckold? Is there such a thing....?

BTW.... My wife is 35 and hot (Yes, my opinion) which makes this even more interesting. I know for a fact she would get gobbled up quickly..... WITHOUT QUESTION!!

Whewww... Need a splash of water to the face now....!! Hey, I'm new...............

I guess that my rambling has helped me identify (discover) one important point. I really don't think I would have these feelings if it wasn't for my wife. She just has "that look", "that attitude", "that playfullness" that make this very intriguing. All this to circle back and say that "I love watching her in the throws of sexual pleassure"!!

Yep.. I'm done..... LOL..
 
First off, I am 41 and on my second marriage. What I am about to tell you, I never felt with my first wife, therefore I am unclear of where these feelings came from. Other than my wife, you are the first to hear of these desires, maybe you can help me make sense of it.... Up until a few months ago, I didn't even know what a Cuckold was....

I'm not a Cuckold (yet) but from time to time would like to experience the lifestyle. The primary reason I am interested in this lifestyle is out of the pure joy of seeing my wife in the throws of her orgasm(sexual satisfaction). I am not a tiny man (7") however we have experimented with much larger toys ect. I can tell you from those experiments that she has much quicker, stonger, longer lasting orgasms as size increases (she loves huge cock). This is a huge turn-on for me....Not sure why? It's almost a primal tendency, something in my DNA that makes me submissive to the dominant Male (larger cock).... Verbaly, my wife does not share the same feelings and quite frankly communicates a distaste (most often) for a dominant male. However, I know for a fact that with the right situation, during the right time, she would absolutley give herself to a large cock. We joke and chat about this quite frequently. In fact, this topic comes up in a joking manner fairly often. She makes it known that the only acceptable options would be a dark, heavily muscled young man with a monster cock.....! Anything less wouldnt be worth the experience. I don't know if she is serious or not, but it's fun to talk about. Sometimes for fun, she will send me a pic of a huge man because she knows I won't be able to get home fast enough. Like many others, we both grew up in conservative households, I broke free, she did not. She has only had a few partners in her life including myself. I have always maintained that all women lie, however I have to say, I actually believe her.

With all that said there is also and element of stress that makes me attracted to the possibility of sharing her with a large Bull. As an executive, I typically work 80+ hrs a week and I have to admit, relenquishing control to a dominant male takes some pressure off me and adds a ton of sexual excitement. I seek out and enjoy pretty much anything that doesn't involve me being in control or making a decision when I am away from my job. I have to admit, I have often times thought about a dominant male requiring me to service him before he services my wife... This confuses me, but it is in my head for some reason....?

Just a few nights ago (via text), I talked to her about one of my greatest fantasies (that she may consider). I want to take her to Vegas (yes, Im that naive) and find her a 6'4"+ 240lb+ Hardbody, packing a monster package with hands the size of plates to massage her, relax her, touch her ect...... She replies back... "I would be very scared".... My repsonse was....and in 10 minutes you would be at ease, 30 mintues relaxed, 45 minutes curious, 60 minutes aroused, 70 minutes wet, 90 minutes very full, 120 minutes very tense (for the 3rd time) followed by very loud, 130 minutes very tired, 140 minutes very messy.... Repeat!! She replies back.... "That's exactly what scares me"! "We both know I would end up liking it"!

Sorry for the rambling, but your getting the first brain dump of my self admission..... So with that said, maybe I am a virgin Cuckold? Is there such a thing....?

BTW.... My wife is 35 and hot (Yes, my opinion) which makes this even more interesting. I know for a fact she would get gobbled up quickly..... WITHOUT QUESTION!!

Whewww... Need a splash of water to the face now....!! Hey, I'm new...............

I guess that my rambling has helped me identify (discover) one important point. I really don't think I would have these feelings if it wasn't for my wife. She just has "that look", "that attitude", "that playfullness" that make this very intriguing. All this to circle back and say that "I love watching her in the throws of sexual pleassure"!!

Yep.. I'm done..... LOL..

It took awhile to get my wife to go with her first Black lover, be patient. My wife had only had two lovers ubtil then, her first husband and me both white. Since she went Black she is a much happier woman. We both like the change.
 
For us, my wife first started fucking my own brother, when I found out she wasn't only doig him but she was also doing a black guy at work, he was her first black cock. We agreed a long time ago, no more white cock in her, only black. It has been that way for years now.

Hope she's still wanting BLACK.
 
WHY BECOME A CUCKOLD ? Personally I feel the man in question has no alternative,myself included.Most of us hubbies or boyfriends have probably developed a voyeuristic nature through earlier years.Like myself,i had a large collection of magazines and porn movies.Visual excitement and masturbation became an obsession,and watching some woman get a good fucking from a well hung stud was so exciting.Women wearing tarty undies and being a real slut turned us type of guys on greatly.Wanking to this and other visual erotica became the norm for us men.Added to this guys with small cocks like myself,became envious but also in admiration of these big cocked studs.Once us guys begin a relationship or get married we have somewhat of a lull for our voyeuristic nature,as we enjoy a normal sexual life.Eventually though it resurfaces,and guilty thoughts of our partner fucking one of these hot studs from the porn movies fill our minds.The rest progresses.
 
@xxxcuck: What impresses me with some of you hubbies in here is that you're open towards revealing your thoughts regarding this subject and how moving and enthralling it has been for you all, and as it continues to.

The ones that piss me off are those self-righteous ones who enjoy sneaking into interracial websites and watching or reading up stories about white wives being used by black men and continue to deny the urge when it hits them.
 
Dsoul,I suppose not all hubbies or boyfriends give in to the urges and excitement we envisage.It is indeed the first admission to a partner of our desire to see them being fucked by another guy which is the hardest.Our fear of their reaction to our confessing our particular kink is a massive step.It spelt and end to a few of my earlier relationships due to their adverse reaction.Incredibly though it was something i could never control myself from admitting during a hot sex session with any partner I've ever had.
 
For some, such might be the case. But for a lot of them whom I've met over the years, they carry the urge deep in their minds and instead of finding means of letting it loose, they keep storing it within.
 
I could never keep it in,the urge was much too strong.To me it was always my destiny in life to be a cuck and allow the alpha males to Fuck my partner.
 
Of course once we had taken the plunge and a guy fucked my wife,there was no going back.My wife soon realised she was in a win win situation,and there were no alteria motives from my part.She then knew that it was entirely alright for her to have handsome,well hung studs meet us to give her a good fucking.She soon understood my desires were for her pleasure also,and she quickly began to revel in her new found freedom of hot,rampant sex with many exciting lovers.
 
I could never keep it in,the urge was much too strong.To me it was always my destiny in life to be a cuck and allow the alpha males to Fuck my partner.

That is why you're different and more exposed than most hubbies out there. I've met a lot of them outside this forum. They stop by my blog and ask me hundreds of questions regarding the lifestyle and of how they can become part of it.
 
I've had this question burning inside me but always kept forgetting to post it. Its for the wives, hubbies and just about anyone/everyone here to contribute to, 'cos I feel your opinion matters a lot, though I'd appreciate your humble honesty to the question.

Have any of you ever asked the question: 'why be a cuckold?' Its not just about the wife/GF cheating on you, or that you fancy her in the arms of another, or that you can't compete with her sexually... But I want to know why or what ever brought the thought to want to do it in the first place? What really fostered the idea in your mind?

And how come a lot more couples out there are getting involved in the trend?

For me at least its truly about the superiority of the black race and our need to give back. Along with the fact that white women get better sex from black men which if a white man truly loves his woman why would he not want the best for her in all things. The term cuckold does not bother me due to the fact that this is something I believe in and have become commited to totally and completely.
 
i can't really explain it and im sure its different reasons for different people! but for me i think it stems from the fact that i know im no good in bed, yes i can use my tongue (very well im told) but my cock is tiny and i cant last long to save my life! i know this and readily accept it, life is all about making the best out of what you have been given! and i as a white man have been given the ability to serve well! so i guess wat im saying is it just seems to be the right thing to do!

harvey
 
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