Why Become a Cuckold?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Dsoul, Dec 20, 2011.

  1. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I've had this question burning inside me but always kept forgetting to post it. Its for the wives, hubbies and just about anyone/everyone here to contribute to, 'cos I feel your opinion matters a lot, though I'd appreciate your humble honesty to the question.

    Have any of you ever asked the question: 'why be a cuckold?' Its not just about the wife/GF cheating on you, or that you fancy her in the arms of another, or that you can't compete with her sexually... But I want to know why or what ever brought the thought to want to do it in the first place? What really fostered the idea in your mind?

    And how come a lot more couples out there are getting involved in the trend?
     
  2. CuckHubby415

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    This is actually something I give a lot of thought to. My wife and I are very sexually open and honest with one another. I have always enjoyed the idea of my girlfriends and my wife being fucked by another man. As you can see by my profile pic, my divk is pretty small. Erect it's about 6 inches (on a good day) but not very thick.

    I have always had a knack for getting women that I'm fucking to feel completely comfortable with telling me all about their fantasies and past exploits. When I was 18, the girl I was with told me about her ex boyfriend who was very large. The thought of her taking this large cock was a very big turn on. We would fantasize about all kinds of things, including a gangbang. I happen to have (in a phrase that always makes me laugh) a lot of black friends, and so when we would talk about which of my friends she would fuck, percentage wise alone they were black.

    That idea stuck with me, and although we broke up before we were going to follow through, I continued to think about white women with black men. I've been with my wife for close to twenty years, and it took me about two years before I had introduced the idea to her. Over the years we've done a lot of fantasy play and it's slowly evolved to where it is now.

    I'd like for us to be dominated by a black man who will use us for all of our pleasure. My wife and I love each other and will be together for the rest of our lives. That's a given. I can make her cum so hard she passes out. I can make her squirt, I have fucked her in almost every way you can imagine. I can do almost anything to her.

    Being a "cuckold" in our sex life does not permeate the rest of our relationship nor do we want it to. I am not a sissy, and I garuntee that most of you would think twice about fucking with me. But I'd love to suck a man's cock and get it hard before I guide it into my wife's pussy. I'd like to lick her clit and his balls while I laid under them. I'd like to eat his cum from her. Ad I'd like that cock to be black.

    Sorry forthe ramble. I guess the short answer is, "it's complicated". ;)
     
  3. Got2

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    It all boils down to certain men who view their wives as sex objects.
    Is there anything more veril (sexually stimulating) than seeing a Black Man (Taboo) with a large phalus, fucking your wife? Giving her more raw sexual pleasure than the hubby? Filling her with cum that is swimming with black seed, seed that, if it takes hold, will show the undeniable evidence that she has been unfaithful??

    Why to people buy fancy sports cars and go 120 miles an hour down the road?

    Cuckold with a black....same answer as the question above.
     
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  4. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    That's no rambling, CuckHubby. That's putting the word down!:)
     
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  5. arthur carey

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    I wrote some details at another web site about how I was brought into this lifestyle at an early age. My step sister went black at a very early age, and I treated her badly because of it. She turned the tables on me by getting her black boy friends to bully, intimidate, and injure me. These experiences broke me and brought me into submission, and I became my sister’s slave. I also would see my sister and her two friends totally content and sexually fulfilled because of black dick. I learned by bitter experience that black men are the alpha males and rule over beta white males, and have the power to take our white women from us. I finally came to peace with my role as a beta male and devoted myself to being a cuckhold and slave and to promoting the interracial lifestyle of black men and white women.
     
  6. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You sort of got turned full circle, arthur!
     
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  7. mywife4fcks

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    well i was 17/18 and at that time met a girl who was younger to me.she and her kid brother was coming down the stairs of our building and i was climbing up.our eyes met and she smiled,i looked at her tall,slim,tanned body,straight long hairs and her fresh face,i cupped her face with my hands n raised it towards me and kissed on her forehead.she ddnt say a word and neither did she step back or prevent me,instead her eyes was deeply searching me.i kissed her eyes one after other n then her lips,she parted them n allowed my tongue to wander inside her warm wet mouth,she let go of her brother and held the back of my head with her hands kissing passionately.i withdrew and told her to drop her brother home and come on the building terrace where i was waiting for her.she ddnt take long n there we were hugging kissing each other as if we were long lost lovers.soon we were naked and fucking her tight hot cunt deep and hard.i fucked her 4-5 times in next 2hours filling her cunt with my cum.then we dressed up and parted with promise to meet next evening again.before going she hugged n kissed me wildly said she loves me and that her name was sunita.
    we met religiously every evening at 7pm on the terrace and it was always passionate kissing,hugging,sucking and licking her cunt n hard fucking in every positions that we cud think off.
    a few months and she stated getting late for our meet sometimes by 10/15 minutes to even a hour.during the days she was late i always found her smelling different .she never let me suck her pussy and made me fuck her urgent , i found that her cunt was unusually more wet n slippery, fucking her gave even more pleasure as my cock wud slide deep into her pussy and i got a new sensation hard to describe.
    i doubted that she was fucking others too,both, before she came to me and after she parts from me,but it was only a hunch and what the fuck?i was not going to marry her and she was my first fuck so why spoil the ball game?but if she is fucking others then why not openly?
    one day my friends parents was away on a tour for few weeks and i got a opportunity to invite her to his place.he was in the study while i took her to his bedroom n fucked.we were naked in each others arms,when my friend walked in as planed.i entangled her from her embrace, exposing her naked body to him and i asked him would u like to fuck her?she said no,without much conviction, as my friend stripped naked and was already in her pussy fucking her good,the girl who was daily telling me she loved me so much has forgotten all about me and was now moaning n shamelessly getting fucked,hugging n kissing my friend.
    OMG she looked so beautiful,so vulnerable...
    she stayed in his house for more than a week and all my friends had fucked her several times a day.what amazed me was the no of times she could take.most days we were 7/8 young boys fucking her 5-6 times each and that meant a minimum 35 to 40 fucks a day before she spent the night either with me or my friend.
    (if i havent bored you then will continue...)
     
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  8. white pansy boy

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    its just nature for the most dominant men to have breeding rights with women of their choice. Cuckolds, wives and black bulls are just keeping thins the way nature intended (lol)
     
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  9. michelle sd

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    I became a Blacked Cuckold simply because I am a beta male. I didn't fully understand that until about ten years ago. My wife and I had discussed swinging but only with a Black Man. The second time we were with her first Black Lover, he ordered me to help her suck him. I didn't hesiate one second, I was on my knees right beside my wife helping her suck his cock. It has been a great journey since and one we would not turn back from.

    I should have realized that I was submissive to Blacks when I was in the service during the 60's. They were always getting the best looking white girls whenever they wanted them. There was a lot of wasted years I could have been serving. I am just glad my wife and I have found our true calling, Black Cock Sluts.
     
  10. swingcpl40

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    Occasionally we would swing with other couples and I noticed that I liked watching my wife making it with other men more then I like fucking other women. So I asked her if she would like to try a MFM and she agreed. Before we searched for another male to join us we were watching a porn movie and in one of the scenes a black guy was fucking a white woman doggie style with another woman underneath watching his dick going in and out of the other woman. My wife told me that if that was her she would be sucking his balls and licking his dick. I asked her if she would do a black guy and she said she didn't have anything against having sex with black men. It wasn't long before I found a black guy but it was going to be a few weeks before we could arrange for a meeting as he lived some distance away. During the waiting period she had told be that when she would go shopping she found herself checking out the black men in the stores and would imagine getting fucked by them. One day she came in from sunning naked by the pool and came up to me and said she's been fantasizing about meeting the guy we met online and she took my hand and put it between her legs. Her pussy was soak and wet and she told me that she wanted me to fuck her.
    The following weekend we met with her first black man and we had our first MFM sex. He didn't have a BBC as a matter of fact he was only about 5" long but he knew what he was doing. We fucked several times that night and he took her in the ass as I was fucking her pussy. From then on she has only fucked blacks which was her choice and the rest of the bulls she has been with were 7" on up to 10". I've always been in the room when she was with them and about 50% of the time I would videotape or take pictures of the action and I join in on the action the rest of the time in a straight way. Although I have eaten her out after her bull has left and I've fucked her every time they didn't leave her feeling completely used.
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  11. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Another question I'd like to ask: how come the preferred choice for most cuckold couples tends to be a Black Bull, not often a white?

    Is that an unconscious decision, or just basically the norm?
     
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  12. J and K

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    She has had white bulls also. I think the black bull is more taboo in society and adds to it.
     
  13. rocuck

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    I do not think that you CHOOSE to be a cuckold. A "normal" person would not want to be humiliated and denied sex and so clearly put in a lesser position. I believe you ARE a cuckold. That is something you are born into and you cannot change your basic nature. It seems that there are many different ways you arrive at the cuckold state. It may be because you are small and cannot perform. You may just lack the manliness to attract a woman sexually. Being white must play a role in that it would seem most cuckolds are white and few, if any, black men are cuckolds.

    Sex, and also relationships in general, are both mental and physical. The pleasure part is what keeps the relationships healthy. The black man is the driving force in most of these relationships. I think his pleasure is two fold. It is first the pleasure of being with a white woman who has gotten beyond any prejudices and will almost certainly be committed to his pleasure. And I mean really committed. Secondly, the black man is more masculine and I suspect he enjoys the idea of taking the woman away from the white boy. The raunchier the sex and the less the white boy gets to do the more it is a turn. This is what it is to be an alpha male. To take what is yours. It has to be more than coincidence that most alpha males are black. People may not like that but it is reality. It has taken me years to accept this but I now do.

    The white woman is naturally attracted to the black man. He allows her to be soft and feminine. Her pleasure is sexual, of course, with a superior man. But I think it is also mental. It is a power trip for her to have the white boy around desiring her and for her to deny him. The taboo nature of the interracial sex may play a role but I think it is the nature of the men themselves. White girls like black men. Do all of them? Probably not but deep down that is the most natural sexual relationship. I say this because how else could you explain the growing numbers of black men and white women despite the pressures and prejudices white men have brought to this to try and stop it. You cannot stop it. Better to accept it.

    Finally the cuckolded boy. I do not understand it all but it seems like the cuckold has a deeply seated desire to have sex but an even greater desire to submit. He knows that he cannot compete. So the normal way for a cuckold to have sex is by masturbation. Nature makes it pleasurable for the cuckold to be humiliated and makes him desire to see his white wife with a black man. He is just drawn into it. He also is naturally inclined to accept defeat at the hands of the alpha man. It allows him to stop trying to be something that he is not. That is what it means to be a beta male. To accept that you are a lesser man and to appreciate the honesty that your wife shows by having sex with another man. For me, I think it helps if the alpha male is a black man. That just is easier to accept.

    These are my thoughts on this. Everybody wins in a cuckolding relationship as long as everyone accepts their role. I think it is like a tower with the black man at the top. His pleasure and needs come first. If they are met then the white woman is satisfied but it takes the chastity of the white boy and his defeat by and submission to the black man to make this work. The couple actually involved in sex and a romantic relationship both need the cuckolded boy for that extra bit of spice to make it work. (Sorry, Dsoul if the answer is too long)
     
  14. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Charles Darwin proclaimed the term: 'Survival of the fittest!'
    It seems that too applies to being a cuckold.

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  15. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You wonder how long this has been in the world, and how come it's still treated like a secret.
     
  16. mywife4fcks

    mywife4fcks Banned

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    my wife fucks other men.so i m a cuckold.too had my share of females.
    but my son is born out of my sperm.
     
  17. Got2

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    Cuckoldry has been around for a long, long, time.

    In days of old, women and young girls were given to men of stature, strength, had performed well in battle or more wealthy. It was thought of as a moral obligation to improve the gene pool.

    In the end, it's the woman's game. If she enjoys it, the game is on.

    But, there is a hidden secret: Women love to be Taken by the dominant male. They are programed for it.
     
  18. wimp hubby

    wimp hubby New Member

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    Thank u very much ROCUCK
    your comments describe our feeling so good. and as a sissy i deeply feel your description.
    but it is also so hard for me to accept it. maybe yet.
     
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  19. michelle sd

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    It is because they are dominate. When we are with a dominate Black Man, there is no doubt who is in charge and who is serving him. That is why my wife and i prefer Black Men.
     
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  20. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    And you'd want to do anything possible to make sure he stays.
     
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