Whose afraid of the Big White Dick

[BWCinthe313]

UPDATE: They have removed my ability to post, respond, or message people on this site. After three years I will not even be able to message my friends goodbye. If you message me please include your email address else I can not respond.

Ok the title is a little tongue and cheek and this post probably won't last long.
Hey people like what they like and who are we to judge, they aren't hurting other people.
But my verification pictures were take down and I have posts taken down all the time for even suggesting big white cock exists or something that can bring pleasure. And god forbid we show that white men are hung too, or god forbid that black women like white hung men. I guess this place is really just a place where we protect the fragile egos of some, instead of a cool fun place where people who like sex, with a bit of kink, can enjoy talking with each other.

 

[gavel]

I agree, i am white and about 8, and a white guy that regularly plays with us for her is about 10. its just sex

 

[BWCinthe313]

Have you had a problem verifying and or having posts taken down?

 

[Silo322]

Is there even a forum for white men and black women on the net? It would be nice to have a sub forum on here just for that. The beautiful swirl works both ways.

 

[avaadore]

This isn't a site for big dick or size queens. It's a site for black men and white women/couples.

There are plenty of places online that celebrate white men and big white dick. This space is for black men.

 

[ThicknEz]

This is BLACK to white. Not White to White. There are sites for you to look for hook ups elsewhere. Google may help you!

 

[BWCinthe313]

Just so I know how do you define black and white. Like how "black" does one need to be. I have a light skinned hung friend would he qualify? I'm from Detroit, 90% of us have at least one relative who is black. Happens when 1/2 million black people live in your metro area . But I guess my friend wouldn't be "black" enough. Yeah making rules based on race are hard, probably why it doesn't nor shouldn't work. Now on the other hand predilections and kink based on race aren't hard, people like what they like. And that's great. I'm not saying you have to fuck a dick, or even like one that you consider white, I'm suggesting basing a rule around it is problematic and silly. It's not 1950, the races have mixed up. You put up a sign saying only one race can only use a drinking fountain there would be a good chunk of the population that could use what half of the fountain? Embrace the kink of liking something based on race. That's awesome. You go girl. But telling other people they can't verify or post based on race seems... well... racist.

 

[avaadore]

This is BLACK to white. Not White to White. There are sites for you to look for hook ups elsewhere. Google may help you!

The office, parks and rec, you smoke weed.. Stop it right now before I fall in love with you

 

[avaadore]

Just so I know how do you define black and white. Like how "black" does one need to be. I have a light skinned hung friend would he qualify? I'm from Detroit, 90% of us have at least one relative who is black. Happens when 1/2 million black people live in your metro area . But I guess my friend wouldn't be "black" enough. Yeah making rules based on race are hard, probably why it doesn't nor shouldn't work. Now on the other hand predilections and kink based on race aren't hard, people like what they like. And that's great. I'm not saying you have to fuck a dick, or even like one that you consider white, I'm suggesting basing a rule around it is problematic and silly. It's not 1950, the races have mixed up. You put up a sign saying only one race can only use a drinking fountain there would be a good chunk of the population that could use what half of the fountain? Embrace the kink of liking something based on race. That's awesome. You go girl. But telling other people they can't verify or post based on race seems... well... racist.

Comparing verifying on a porn site and actual segregation just shows how ignorant and privileged you are.

Twisting up racism to suit your feeble argument is disingenuous and gross. Knock it off.

 

[ImHimTheBbc]

My wife is black and loves my huge white cock.

Will she still take bbc

 

[BWCinthe313]

Comparing verifying on a porn site and actual segregation just shows how ignorant and privileged you are.

Twisting up racism to suit your feeble argument is disingenuous and gross. Knock it off.

I'm interested in how do you resolve how black a person needs to be to verify? Is it just done by sight? Like is there an official "yeah you look black enough" evaluator?
Well I guess that is what is going on, right. Some moderator looks at a picture and says "nope that dick is too white" and deletes the post. And please god that's not the worst thing every. LOL. Of course there are wayyyyyyyyyyyy worse things. I just find it silly and dumb. Lets not take this too seriously. Surely we can have a nice conversation and not freak out like everyone else on the net. Hell we are already freaky? OK well at least I am, not sure about everyone else

 

[avaadore]

I'm interested how do you resolve how black a person needs to be to verify? Is it just done by sight? like is there an official "yeah you look black enough" evaluator?
Well I guess that is what is going on right. Some moderator looks at a picture and says "nope that dick is too white" and deletes the post. And please god that's not the worst thing every. LOL. Of course there are wayyyyyyyyyyyy worse things. I just find it silly and dumb. Lets not take this too seriously. Surely we can have a nice conversation and not freak out like everyone else on the net. Hell we are already freak? OK well at least I am, not sure about everyone else

Plenty of light skinned men are verified and if you don't like the way they do things here you're free to leave.

Do you roll up to lesbian dating/hook up sites and then whine that you can't verify and call it sexist that they don't care about your dick? Like come on..

 

[ThicknEz]

The office, parks and rec, you smoke weed.. Stop it right now before I fall in love with you

Stop making me cheese over here! I’m waiting to go on a Canadian expedition to watch a whole season with ya

( Maybe two )

 

[BWCinthe313]

Plenty of light skinned men are verified and if you don't like the way they do things here you're free to leave.

Do you roll up to lesbian dating/hook up sites and then whine that you can't verify and call it sexist that they don't care about your dick? Like come on..

You are 100% correct. And I'm saying lets change things. And you are saying you don't. I'm fine with that, lets see if I can convince a good chunk of people, most importantly the moderators, that the evaluation of dicks based on color is silly, outdated, and little unpragmatic.

It sounds like you are saying things should stay the same, but that to me seems more like a position and not an argument that supports a position.
If I may, your position seems to be, I like things the way they are so lets keep things the way they are.
My position is "I don't like things the way they are and the policy seems unnecessarily exclusive and unworkable".

And if it means in the end I find another place to share my kink and stories and fun so be it. Your loss, I'm an interesting guy (IMHO)
I'm not saying you have to like me, read my stuff or follow me. I'm just saying let me verify and dont' take down posts just because of a BWC.

I may have oversimplified the position of people who want to keep the status quo. Maybe the belief is something about how a line has to be drawn between black and white and the moderators will make that decision on who is black enough. And so be it, it's a private site. I think my stance is. Yes you are right. And I disagree I think we shouldn't make race a qualifier for being verified and posting. And I dont' think my position is too crazy.

 

[avaadore]

You are 100% correct. And I'm saying lets change things. And you are saying you don't. I'm fine with that, lets see if I can convince a good chunk of people, most importantly the moderators, that the evaluation of dicks based on color is silly, outdated, and little unpragmatic.
You say things should stay the same. But that's to me seems more like stance and not an argument that supports a position.
Your position seems to be, I like things the way they are so lets keep things the way they are.
My position is " I don't like things the way they are become they seem unnecessarily exclusive and unworkable".

And if it means in the end I find another place to share my kink and stories and fun so be it. You're loss I'm interesting guy (IMHO)
I'm not saying you have to like me, read my stuff or follow me. I'm just saying let me verify and dont' take down posts just because they are inherently pro BWC.

I may have oversimplified the position of people who want to keep the status quo. Maybe the belief is something about how a line has to be drawn between black and white and the moderators will make that decision on who is black enough. And so be it, it's a private site. I think my stance is. Yes you are right. And I disagree I think we shouldn't make race a qualifier for being verified and posting. And I dont' think position is too crazy.

Women and couples don't come here for any old dick. They come here to connect with black men.

You're basically saying let's make the site a free for all and abandon its literal purpose and reason for existence.

The minute they start letting non black men verify is the minute I bounce. The biggest selling point of this site for me is that I can control who is able to contact me and view my content. There are plenty of sites (Fet, reddit, AFF, etc) that don't have that. We don't need another.

 

[JerseyBull]

Just so I know how do you define black and white. Like how "black" does one need to be. I have a light skinned hung friend would he qualify? I'm from Detroit, 90% of us have at least one relative who is black. Happens when 1/2 million black people live in your metro area . But I guess my friend wouldn't be "black" enough. Yeah making rules based on race are hard, probably why it doesn't nor shouldn't work. Now on the other hand predilections and kink based on race aren't hard, people like what they like. And that's great. I'm not saying you have to fuck a dick, or even like one that you consider white, I'm suggesting basing a rule around it is problematic and silly. It's not 1950, the races have mixed up. You put up a sign saying only one race can only use a drinking fountain there would be a good chunk of the population that could use what half of the fountain? Embrace the kink of liking something based on race. That's awesome. You go girl. But telling other people they can't verify or post based on race seems... well... racist.

Generally in the U.S. light skinned people are considered black due to history, and light skinned people tending to have a more black phenotype. Also, here's the issue. This site is for black men and white women, full stop. The women here aren't looking for or interested in white men on this site. It's nonsense comparing this to segregation. People on this site have common interests. If you want a space for "BWC" go look for it, or create it.

 

[BWCinthe313]

Women and couples don't come here for any old dick. They come here to connect with black men.

You're basically saying let's make the site a free for all and abandon its literal purpose and reason for existence.

The minute they start letting non black men verify is the minute I bounce. The biggest selling point of this site for me is that I can control who is able to contact me and view my content. There are plenty of sites (Fet, reddit, AFF, etc) that don't have that. We don't need another.

You are 100% correct that is what I am saying, let "non black" men verify. "White" guys can already post. I sincerely hope you wouldn't leave just because white men were allowed to verify. I can't see how knowing a white guy who is posting is really-real would destroy your experience on this site causing you "to bounce".

You bouncing is for you to judge and I wonder how many people agree with your sentiment. That's the point of this discussion and my hope to change the policy. I think more people will agree with me, and hopefully the moderators will see how unworkable (especially with a growing mixed population) such a policy is.

And it's not just that I can't verify, but my posts are taken down. My posts aren't mean or threatening. They are just my stories and insights. It just feels silly that because my dick is white my posts are taken down.

 

[BWCinthe313]

Generally in the U.S. light skinned people are considered black due to history, and light skinned people tending to have a more black phenotype. Also, here's the issue. This site is for black men and white women, full stop. The women here aren't looking for or interested in white men on this site. It's nonsense comparing this to segregation. People on this site have common interests. If you want a space for "BWC" go look ...

I agree and you make good points. I'm saying the policy of taking down white guys' posts and the policy of not letting them verify is unworkable and silly.

I'm not saying there shouldn't be a site for people with certain kinks I'm saying the policy of saying "that dick is too white and we are taking that post down and that white dick can't verify as real" is silly and unworkable. That's all.

 

[truebossbc]

Should definitely be a forum for WM/Asian Female dynamic.

After all, it is the most common interracial pairing. I have had incredible experiences with Asian women. I never fetishize the interracial aspect (no need on my side), but I have definitely had a couple who were fetishizing me. Putting their (tiny) forearm next to my cock for comparison; being afraid of penetration first time; squirting 20 times; choosing 100% sub roles etc etc.

I am bigger than average but not giant. There is (statistically huuuge) market for dominant alpha white dudes. There is also a real-world white dude asian female love-affair going on that is statistically larger than black male/white female.

I am sure some Asian dudes get off on it.

Should toottttallly be a white guy Asian girl forum (and their cucks).

 

[extrafun]

Is there even a forum for white men and black women on the net? It would be nice to have a sub forum on here just for that. The beautiful swirl works both ways.

Make a few, it's long over due.