I have had sex with some of the male employees at Hedonism. So I'm not one to talk. However, cruise ships are notoriously rigid when it comes to rules. If the captain found out about the bartender and room mate having sex, and they would both be fired, immediately. You can't go anywhere on cruise ships where you are not on camera. Most of the employees are from poor families, and countries. This is by far the best job they will ever have. Personally I don't feel right to tempt them to doing something that will literally destroy their life. This happened on a cruise ship we were on. Two girls from Holland were flirting with a couple guys on the crew. The captain found out about it and warned them. The captain even ask the girls to stop trying to seduce them. When we were in port they got a room and had sex. They were fired immediately when they got back on ship, and left at the port!