white husbands cut off..

Marco3311 said:
Well, if you do have sex with your wife, then you are not cut off. Another thing is that you agree to this situation. If you agree, then there is no problem. The problem is when it is a single sided desicion.
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Well, yes and no. 6-8 times a years isn’t technically cut off I agree. But i’d like sex ideally 4-5 times a week. Plus, my cum hasn’t come into direct contact with my wife in probaly 3-4 years, which I also find frustrating, as any man will know, they want their seed to be spread/ used/ consumed, whereas mine gets thrown in the garbage bin, but I have no real say on that either, so yes, I do receive some secual gratification, but my wants and needs are secondary, so my my needs have somwhat been cut off, but as I mentioned I comply with her needs as well.
 
slinky1 said:
Well, yes and no. 6-8 times a years isn’t technically cut off I agree. But i’d like sex ideally 4-5 times a week. Plus, my cum hasn’t come into direct contact with my wife in probaly 3-4 years, which I also find frustrating, as any man will know, they want their seed to be spread/ used/ consumed, whereas mine gets thrown in the garbage bin, but I have no real say on that either, so yes, I do receive some secual gratification, but my wants and needs are secondary, so my my needs have somwhat been cut off, but as I mentioned I comply with her needs as well.
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As long as you are fine with it, then there is no problem.
What I do not understand why your doesn't have sex with you.more often when she knows you want more. To me that is not a good sign of loving someone. You already agreed to let her fuck other man, the least she can do is make you happy as well. But that is just my opinion.
 
Marco3311 said:
As long as you are fine with it, then there is no problem.
What I do not understand why your doesn't have sex with you.more often when she knows you want more. To me that is not a good sign of loving someone. You already agreed to let her fuck other man, the least she can do is make you happy as well. But that is just my opinion.
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Well, I guess its a little complicated. 12 years ago when we met, I told her on the very first date I was a cuck, I had a small penis and was turned on by my ex's constantly cheating or being with other men. She said she was fine with all of that, and had not only cheated in the past, also cheated with a few married men behind their wives backs. But she also said she wasn't certain a relationship between us would work out, she just wasn't sexually attracted to submissive men in any way, and almost put off by them, regardless of the size of their cocks.

So for the next 6 weeks, we hung out and dated but still hadn't had sex as she admitted she still wasn't sexually attracted to me, plus my size also didn't help her wanting sex with me, so we just still hung out. She had sex on a few other dates she went on as we weren't a couple as such, but they weren't her types either. To cut a long story short, about 2-3 weeks later we had sex, it was over in a minute or so, and she just got up and went on with her day. It did nothing for her, and we both knew it was because, she wasn't sexually interested in me. In the end, we became great friends, just not great lovers, she still to this day she loves me dearly and will have sex with me if I really wanted it or earned it, but I also understand, she's only doing it for me, as a bit of a pity fuck, not because she wants to be with me.

She will give me handjobs, I give her oral quite a bit, I love rimming her while she plays with her pussy or sometimes i'll just suckle on her tits while she masturbates, and I might jerk off too. So its, almost no penetration, and to be honest because of my size, she'd prefer I fuck her ass that her pussy if she had to choose.

I wish she desired my cum as well, but she just doesn't, it doesn't repluse her, she just doesn't have any love or desire for it, so we use condoms almost always. I guess, for us there is no anger/ resentemnt because, I was ever promised anything at the start and she moved the goal posts on me, so it has been this way from the day we met. Just as I explained to her, I will always be monogamous to her aside from bi sex with the occassional male, that I was happy to never fuck another woman but I have a constant need to masturbate, and needed that in my life, I also haven't moved from that either in 12 years. So what we have today, is the same as we agreed on 12 years ago. SO I think that is why we don't have issues with it.
 
As I have said in other posts my hubby has been cutoff since October 2014. I cut him off. I was dating a guy at the time that I wanted to make sure I enjoyed sex with him, without having had my husband. Hubby has not complained. He said he enjoys my pleasure and encourages me to do anything and whoever I want. I occasionally let him masturbate to me using my black dildo and sometimes I let him cum on my tits. Once in a while I let him eat my pussy if I am not dating anyone. Most of the time he pleasures himself looking at IR porn. Don't blame him because he can't have my pussy. My pussy belongs to whatever lover I submit to.
 
Marco3311 said:
And that is most of the time the problem, the sacrifice. If the husband likes to be cut of, then there is no problem, but if the husband wants sex (penetration) with his wife, but the wife keeps denying him, then it is a recipe for disaster. There will be a divorce at some point, or the husband goes cheating on his wife, which most of the time leads to divorce. My experience is that the wife gets worse part of the deal, she ends up alone while the husband has another partner.
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. Have seen it both ( many) ways where Husband happy with no pussy as the tradeoff and where being caged/ denied becomes an issue that takes time for adjustment. Have seen wives leave for their BBC lovers only to be dumped later as a large part of the attraction for the bull was that she was married and he was fucking some white guys wife. Wives often get passed on to other bulls leaving her to realize it was and still is just all about the I. R. Sex. Husbands usually hook up with other women if thats what they want. There are so many women hot for sex and there are still only so many available BBC. Unless hubbie is impotent or really very small and assuming he has some sexuall skills , there are plenty of women wanting sex now. But the rules have changed and often it is wiser and safer to follow her lead in the bedroom.
 
Sara1 said:
As I have said in other posts my hubby has been cutoff since October 2014. I cut him off. I was dating a guy at the time that I wanted to make sure I enjoyed sex with him, without having had my husband. Hubby has not complained. He said he enjoys my pleasure and encourages me to do anything and whoever I want. I occasionally let him masturbate to me using my black dildo and sometimes I let him cum on my tits. Once in a while I let him eat my pussy if I am not dating anyone. Most of the time he pleasures himself looking at IR porn. Don't blame him because he can't have my pussy. My pussy belongs to whatever lover I submit to.
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. A more common arrangement today amoung mature white couples where she is dating. Often husband wasnt get much sex anyway and her fucking other men is a turn on for him as she becomes the slut she never was before in their marraige.
 
slinky1 said:
Well, I guess its a little complicated. 12 years ago when we met, I told her on the very first date I was a cuck, I had a small penis and was turned on by my ex's constantly cheating or being with other men. She said she was fine with all of that, and had not only cheated in the past, also cheated with a few married men behind their wives backs. But she also said she wasn't certain a relationship between us would work out, she just wasn't sexually attracted to submissive men in any way, and almost put off by them, regardless of the size of their cocks.

So for the next 6 weeks, we hung out and dated but still hadn't had sex as she admitted she still wasn't sexually attracted to me, plus my size also didn't help her wanting sex with me, so we just still hung out. She had sex on a few other dates she went on as we weren't a couple as such, but they weren't her types either. To cut a long story short, about 2-3 weeks later we had sex, it was over in a minute or so, and she just got up and went on with her day. It did nothing for her, and we both knew it was because, she wasn't sexually interested in me. In the end, we became great friends, just not great lovers, she still to this day she loves me dearly and will have sex with me if I really wanted it or earned it, but I also understand, she's only doing it for me, as a bit of a pity fuck, not because she wants to be with me.

She will give me handjobs, I give her oral quite a bit, I love rimming her while she plays with her pussy or sometimes i'll just suckle on her tits while she masturbates, and I might jerk off too. So its, almost no penetration, and to be honest because of my size, she'd prefer I fuck her ass that her pussy if she had to choose.

I wish she desired my cum as well, but she just doesn't, it doesn't repluse her, she just doesn't have any love or desire for it, so we use condoms almost always. I guess, for us there is no anger/ resentemnt because, I was ever promised anything at the start and she moved the goal posts on me, so it has been this way from the day we met. Just as I explained to her, I will always be monogamous to her aside from bi sex with the occassional male, that I was happy to never fuck another woman but I have a constant need to masturbate, and needed that in my life, I also haven't moved from that either in 12 years. So what we have today, is the same as we agreed on 12 years ago. SO I think that is why we don't have issues with it.
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Thanks for the insight. I think I understand it much better now. This is a very special situation, because you two did not walk the "normal' path. I am very glad it works for the two of you.
 
Some of you folks aren't thinking this all the way through as usual ...... you deny white husbands SEX with their wives:

NO white babies 2424258NO more white women for Black Men OR white males to make white babies

Only WHITE MALES can supply the WHITE POPULATION, contrary to some of your Black Supremacy ways of thinking !

2424263...................2424264
 
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WillandSusn said:
. Have seen it both ( many) ways where Husband happy with no pussy as the tradeoff and where being caged/ denied becomes an issue that takes time for adjustment. Have seen wives leave for their BBC lovers only to be dumped later as a large part of the attraction for the bull was that she was married and he was fucking some white guys wife. Wives often get passed on to other bulls leaving her to realize it was and still is just all about the I. R. Sex. Husbands usually hook up with other women if thats what they want. There are so many women hot for sex and there are still only so many available BBC. Unless hubbie is impotent or really very small and assuming he has some sexuall skills , there are plenty of women wanting sex now. But the rules have changed and often it is wiser and safer to follow her lead in the bedroom.
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Both my ex-wife and my ex-fiance left me for other men that they were fucking on the side, I had met both these men. Funnily enough, both fell pregnant to these men with 6-12 months and 12 months later both men left them to raise the baby alone. Obviously, they were all driven by lust, but once the reality of life kicked in, and my ex's weren't fucking them like rabbits and doing all the dirty, slutty things for them, they dropped off. Plus, the fact, it was me with the house, paying for everything, doing all the chores also appealed to the men as well.

They get all the dirty sex, fuck another mans wife without any of the baggage. Was actually hard for my mom at the time, she so desperately wanted a grandchild, yet they went off and had them with other men. My ex-fiance, wanted to come back when she was about 7 months pregnant, but I couldn't deal with any more humiliation that she put me through, plus my mom totally cut her off. Luckily I had just met my current wife, and although I was still madly in love with my ex,(and may have ended up back with her raising another mans baby) fortunately, my current wife helped talk me out of the idea and focus on our relationship.
 
Sara1 said:
As I have said in other posts my hubby has been cutoff since October 2014. I cut him off. I was dating a guy at the time that I wanted to make sure I enjoyed sex with him, without having had my husband. Hubby has not complained. He said he enjoys my pleasure and encourages me to do anything and whoever I want. I occasionally let him masturbate to me using my black dildo and sometimes I let him cum on my tits. Once in a while I let him eat my pussy if I am not dating anyone. Most of the time he pleasures himself looking at IR porn. Don't blame him because he can't have my pussy. My pussy belongs to whatever lover I submit to.
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You're my kind of lady, Sara. I've been mostly cut off for about 15 years or so, and completely cut off since February 26th, 2017. My wife still gives me an occasional hand job and I eat her fairly often, which is my so-called "sex life" now, kind of like your husband. Intercourse is a thing of the past for me.
 
Marco3311 said:
And that is most of the time the problem, the sacrifice. If the husband likes to be cut of, then there is no problem, but if the husband wants sex (penetration) with his wife, but the wife keeps denying him, then it is a recipe for disaster. There will be a divorce at some point, or the husband goes cheating on his wife, which most of the time leads to divorce. My experience is that the wife gets worse part of the deal, she ends up alone while the husband has another partner.
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this is a really good part of the kink honestly. The domination aspect is all about flipping the humiliation.
 
slinky1 said:
Both my ex-wife and my ex-fiance left me for other men that they were fucking on the side, I had met both these men. Funnily enough, both fell pregnant to these men with 6-12 months and 12 months later both men left them to raise the baby alone. Obviously, they were all driven by lust, but once the reality of life kicked in, and my ex's weren't fucking them like rabbits and doing all the dirty, slutty things for them, they dropped off. Plus, the fact, it was me with the house, paying for everything, doing all the chores also appealed to the men as well.

They get all the dirty sex, fuck another mans wife without any of the baggage. Was actually hard for my mom at the time, she so desperately wanted a grandchild, yet they went off and had them with other men. My ex-fiance, wanted to come back when she was about 7 months pregnant, but I couldn't deal with any more humiliation that she put me through, plus my mom totally cut her off. Luckily I had just met my current wife, and although I was still madly in love with my ex,(and may have ended up back with her raising another mans baby) fortunately, my current wife helped talk me out of the idea and focus on our relationship.
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The humiliation is the best aspect.
 
It’s been over 5 years for us but it was a mutual decision between her and I
I simply cum too quickly for her to get anything close to satisfaction out of it so we agreed that it would be better for everyone that if I needed to cum I should masturbate
Which she has no problem helping me with
 
This topic comes up a lot. I could not be cut off forma sex life with my wife as it is a very important part of our bonding. Our sex life is totally different then what is normal I guess lol. Her sex with other men is totally different then the sex her and I enjoy together. I would say her and i are intimate daily I think that word describes it better then saying sex I do not feel denied or cut off.
 
Yes, but it was a mutual decision. I was fucking her less and licking her more. At the same time, she was getting well-fucked by Black men. I wanted her pussy to be "Black-only" but I never mentioned it. One day, she suggested it and it's been that way ever since. My sexual relief only comes in one form now -- she sits on my face while I jerk-off. I am only allowed to cum after I get her off. Her pussy is too sensitive for my tongue at that point so she spreads her ass and I jerk-off with my tongue up her ass. Heaven!
 
TexanStarlette said:
this is a really good part of the kink honestly. The domination aspect is all about flipping the humiliation.
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I believe it is for a lot of cuckold. Bottomline is that in a way you want it to happen, you get off on it. But I can assure you if a husband really doesn't want to be cut off, it will backfire.
 
Marco3311 said:
And that is most of the time the problem, the sacrifice. If the husband likes to be cut of, then there is no problem, but if the husband wants sex (penetration) with his wife, but the wife keeps denying him, then it is a recipe for disaster. There will be a divorce at some point, or the husband goes cheating on his wife, which most of the time leads to divorce. My experience is that the wife gets worse part of the deal, she ends up alone while the husband has another partner.
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Well then she shouldn't have cut him off if he don't want that. Selfish got it's just reward
 
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