Again BillyMac we seem to have similar experiences. Before my wife met me she had several long term relationships however non of them have understood her love for sex and certainly non of them excepted the idea of her sleeping with other men like I do. My stance is simple, we are all sexual animals and the restraints we put on ourselves are mainly man made to conform with a fabricated society norm. We as a species were never meant to have one single partner but having said that we also need to have some one to care and love us and share life with in general. We are both lucky because with each other we have the complete package, she can have fun and excitement and also I can enjoy her having fun and excitement however we also have trust and love in each other to deal with every day life together. Respect to you both. D & D.More power to you and yours. My wife and I have talked a lot about the fact that if it wasn’t this particular kink it would be something else.
The original poster of this thread went well beyond what we consider ok in our relationship and from you’ve said yours as well. If anyone has battled with a loss of respect it’s been my wife’s internal struggles with not conforming to a traditional role of a woman in a marriage. To say it’s been a struggle for her is an understatement.
I don’t choose to question why my wife is the way she is or why I’m where I’m at in life myself. I know I watched my wife have sex with a guy four times this weekend with three of those times coming in one day. She gets off to watching me play with myself as I watch her almost as much as she does from what the guy or guys are physically giving to her. If anything we’re much more affectionate and happier than we were before this.