Your experience with other couples and your own personal experience with trying to have a baby or adopt a baby is similar to some of my family members that have tried to have a baby but failed so they decided to adopt. My brother in law paid $ 40,000 twice because he wanted 2 babies. It took a few years, going to meetings, evaluations and paper work. A great amount of frustration. thought he was crazy to pay so much money to adopt a baby; I still do. But it turns out he paid on the low end of the cost of adopting a baby in Calif.
"Overall, average California adoption costs typically range anywhere from $40,000 to $70,000 for domestic ******* adoption. "
I don't understand why people pay so much money and go through so much stress to have a baby when they could just have another man fuck the wife. Then his wife could have her baby. True it would not be his baby but neither is an adopted baby.