We are ultra discreet and she dates in a city 3 hours from us usually spending 3 nights over a weekend with her BBC BF. That said, the hottest times for both of us are the rare times we have an excuse for a guy to sleep over at our place and have her in our marital bed! I absolutely love it and so does she! I usually sleep in a guest room upstairs! During Hurricane Harvey, (a great excuse), he and a buddy both stayed with us for 3 days and nights! It was the hottest time ever as they both had her in every room of our house and the 3 of them slept in our King Bed! I still dream of it! So special!