Where did your interest in this lifestyle begin?

mine was a simple case of going on yahoo messenger(years ago) a couple had saw my profile and had left me a message saying....i want you to fuck me bare back and cum inside me...hubby will clean up after.i replied to the message and must admit thought it was some kind of prank but turns out they were 100% genuine, they sent me up to date photos and we even video chatted on yahoo so i could see they were who they say they were...long story short met them at a hotel and spent the eve fucking his wife while he sat and watched.
Good success story. We miss yahoo IM. It was a great place to meet new people.
 
For me I can definitely say it was interracial porn...idk why but I was always drawn to it maybe I liked the contrast or just dominance of it all but I can for sure say that’s where my interest began
My husband got me to fuck his best friend, who was black, built and hung, after a year or two of fantasies and IR porn. This was 2-3 years after marriage. This was before I knew of my husband's many female lovers. So it started off like a hotwife/sharing/cuck situation.
There was no going back, it's been over 10 years and now I'm addicted to bbc.
 
Interracial porn here too. After that it became a fantasy, and I never thought it would become reality.. Until I accidentally mentioned it to my boyfriend on an evening where we had waaaaaaay too much to ******* 😂
Me either I always thought it was more so something that only happened in porn until I became old enough and a little more confident to see what else was out there
 
I have long tried to put my finger on my penchant for IR porn. I have always had a soft spot for genres that feature women indulging themselves. Some of my taste definitely comes from being a teenager in the Southeast US just a half decade or so before it was very common to see pretty white girls going steady with black boys in HS. Usually when interracial relations were happening, it was not something that made for cutesy pictures on social media, so yeah, that forbidden fruit aspect is there, even though I want to scrub out the prejudice that feeds it.

As per the cuckold lifestyle, it was something I never had any interest in until the past few years when my once formidable prowess in bed started to fade. (Also not fun to think about :cautious:)
 
I enjoyed being with black men and when I had told my husband that I had been it seemed to peek his interest. We played some bedroom games with toys and they came a chance to have it happen for real and we decided to see how it felt and we found it hugely erotic. We've been going since then.
 
We started dating in 2001 back in CA, and almost immediately started swinging when at one point I was telling a story about attending a swing club by myself, and she said "I'd go with you"... :cool: And so we immediately did! ;) And we really got into it since she was already a total slut (and loves being so) before she met me and was so excited her new BF at the time would be into sharing her ❤️

Then we started expanding our swinging in the next year or so to include MFM and couples, with all the missteps and successes starting out brings :rolleyes:, but then we met our good friends @BBC ONLY CPL 🥰

Over the years @BBC ONLY CPL got into BBC fun, and we were inspired to give it a try hearing and seeing how much they loved it.

Mrs. Elelator_cpl had already been with BBC a few times in years past on her own, but the context of sharing her as a GF/wife was a lot more erotic for her. And while we met with a few guys, the guy that really "hooked" her was @BigBlackBull76 :giggle: I can't overemphasize how great it was to have one of our first experiences with him, as he was so accommodating and respectful, with a balance of pushing the limits. He was just great.

After that we've met guys and gone to parties, and continue to enjoy seeing her with BBC :love:



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I am sure that he still loves you honey. My husband had a submissive personality when I first met him 8 years ago. While we were early in our dating, it became clear that he was really turned on when other men hit on me. He encouraged me to flirt back and eventually go to bed with these men. Like you, I initially questioned whether he really loved me. I soon learned that he loved me deeply and was thrilled to be able to share me with men of my choice. I am eternally grateful for the loving gift of total sexual freedom that he has given me. We still love each other very much 8 years later.
My wife also questions my love for her because I am not jealous at all if other men flirt with her. I would love for her to have a black lover, unfortunately she doesn't find black men attractive. Oh well.
 
For me I can definitely say it was interracial porn...idk why but I was always drawn to it maybe I liked the contrast or just dominance of it all but I can for sure say that’s where my interest began
A White couple that are long time friends they wanted to start a family but couldnt due to the husbands medical condition so I stood in
 
I’ve been sexually submissive since I can remember. The “misfortune” of being born with a small dick kind of ****** that one on me though. In a way it’s a juxtaposition to my social personality. I’m not dominant/aggressive without tact in my day to day life as I’m generally an easy going guy but I don’t allow myself to be drowned out.

in terms of how I specifically ended up being interested in cuckolding it just started with porn. I enjoyed a lot of BDSM and generally rough stuff. Soon after that it was small penis humiliation videos which opened up the door to cuckolding which lead to IR cuckolding. The idea was/is enjoyable to me because my wife is naturally very pale so the contrast of skin tones will be a sight to behold.

The wife is also submissive and was into IR porn as well as BDSM/ rough porn prior to our dating. She doesn’t watch cuckolding porn as it doesn’t do much for her but she’s a big blacked/blackedraw fan now. Since we became open about our fantasies she’s taken to working on some aspects of verbal humiliation for me and we’re working toward the full cuckolding goal.
 
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