I have been attracted to black guys for a long time, but unfortunately the town that I grew up in did not have many black guys. I met a very attractive black guy at a work convention and he wanted to hook up with me, but I turned him down that night as we were all drinking too much and it wouldn't have been the best experience for me. Then I joined this site in early 2018 and became even more intrigued. And now I am in a long term relationship with my guy @TopCat, We are no longer in the lifestyle as we are exclusive to one another and don't do meet-up's,