This is an older photo, but it's still one of the most common ways my wife and I have sex.
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About twice a week she unlocks me and gives me a partial hand job, bringing me right to the edge and then locking me back up. About two or three times a month she'll give me a ruined orgasm to keep the plumbing in working order, the rest of the time she just puts me away completely denied. Then she'll have me go down on her or hold her while she once again gets off with her vibrator and falls asleep with me throbbing in my cage. She likes the vibrator for teasing, but gets off much harder when she has me do it. There's a lot of cunnilingus in our bedroom.
Once maybe every few weeks, she'll let me actually fuck her, but she keeps me denied so much that I'm on a short fuse. So usually after about a minute (far less if she gets me really worked up first), I'm begging for permission to cum. Sometimes she says no and we do something like what was mentioned above, but sometimes she teases me while I convulse and explode into her, them shoves my head down into her crotch to clean up my mess.
The activity in our profile pic is also increasingly common: she sexts and tells me all the things guys are saying they want to do to her while I go to work worshipping her pussy and/or ass.
Last night she had me jerk off while sharing all her dirty texts with potential new bulls, occasionally pinching/pulling my nipples or punching my balls, then pulled my hand away just as I was about to cum and giggled as I oozed and dribbled all over my belly.
A couple times a year or so, she stops stacking the odds against me, helping me work on my stamina for a few days (with excruciatingly long and intense sessions tease and denial sessions), gives me some Viagra, then has me get her very aroused and close to coming, and THEN we enjoy some beautiful, traditional love making, reminding ourselves what it's like to experience a blissful, shared mutual orgasm. The rest of the the time I'm basically her play thing who rarely gets release. She's had more partners so far in 2020 than I've had orgasms.