You seem to be thinking to hard…Does it not occur to you that folks might be disingenuous? Or reveal that information during the chatting stage? Even though I explicitly state in my bio that I’m straight? Let’s not pretend that you don’t have cucks stressing the fact they are straight as well but still wanna suck a black dick like I said the amount of of them is absurd at this point compared to a few years ago now if thats there cup of tea then there are plenty of men who will facilitate that but if I explicitly state my sexual orientation and you still make the effort to contact me that’s not only disrespectful to me but just a sheer waste of both of ours time
What is the #1 most frustrating thing about the Hotwife lifestyle within last couple years for singles and couples?
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I'm having a hell of a time understanding what you wrote. Maybe consider using some punctuation? You know periods and ******* like that! I'm a bisexual female. My husband and I are swingers. What you seem to be saying is that we should not contact any couples where the female has indicated she is straight? Who said the women were even going to play? Maybe she likes to receive? Why would you care if the husband was bi and watched you have sex with his wife?
I'm assuming your major concern is that a Cuckold husband is going to ******* you to accept a blow job from him! That happens all the time. Cuckolds are known for being Bad Asses! My advice is stop being a Whiny Bitch and grow a pair. Then again maybe it's because you think you might like it. They have done studies on homophobic men and found that some get very hard watching Gay Porn!
There really isn't anything wrong with live and left live!
Flakiness, it started for us when we began using the internet for meeting and got progressively worse over the years.
I’ve only been doing this for a couple years, and only when I can… only 3 black men total. One frustrating thing is finding someone who understands I have a family and ******* to take care of first. Second, is the men who don’t respect my rules, or tying it back to the first one, asking me to take time out of work or do things without my husband. The absolutely most frustrating thing is the white men on here pretending to be women or part of a couple and if they are part of a couple it’s obvious that their wife has no idea…. They make up stories… they are pretenders… I swear if another guy asks me if I want someone to pamper me or clean me up afterwards I’m gonna lose my mind. These are just a few things that frustrate me
I've been in and out of the LS of and on for around 15 years, too. People have always had different reasons for this thing of ours. It isn't new that some people are looking for more intimate encounters rather than one night of banging.I was talking to a Hotwife couple this weekend that has been in lifestyle for 15 years. They said lifestyle overall has change drastically some good changes but mostly bad changes. They were particularly frustrated with flakiness and people not really understanding what the lifestyle is really about and coming into lifestyle thinking it’s a sexual free fall instead building real relationships.
At the core they believed that the LS is a supposed to be about sexual liberation and having good relationships with people who are non judgmental. But believe that people don’t even get know each other anymore, and it’s tuff just getting guys and couples to meet a bar or restaurant for drinks to have a conversation. They just want to go to straight to having sex. Anyways, this was their frustration and believe me they had many more I won’t get into.
Besides Covid and Technology, what has is the single most thing you think has changed in the Hotwife lifestyle over the last couple years ? I love to hear your thoughts.
What is new, I think, is how fast couples get into the LS now. It used to take some time, even a few years, for couples to sort out exactly what they were looking for and what they wanted. These days it seems like a lot of folks just trying jump right into some sort of "porn style" lifestyle with out dealing with their own personal issues first. I put this down to social media creating a distorted sense of reality.
And there are way more bi/gay men than before. Cuckolding itself was way more of a niche interest, and bi-cuckolding was a niche of that. Now it seems that its what way more people are into.
Yes this is so true! The internet allows people to be fake and ghost people.
Lmaoo such spicy language…looks like I’ve touched a nerve today
And also to refer to this “study” there’s been plenty done in the human brain that proves that is no correlation between what the brain registers as sexual activity vs actually sexual arousal so to put that in simple terms because sense you’re comprehension skills seem to be lacking what they basically means is that the brain subconsciously registers that sex is happening (I.e. porn/ sex scene in a movie/ a photo of a vagina or a penis) and it’s subconsciously responding to that stimuli by getting aroused but that doesn’t that person is actually sexually find said stimuli attractive are you keeping up so far? So with that being said your stating that somehow homophobic men are secretly attracted to or turned on by gay porn? Which In truth is just the brain subconsciously reacting to sexual stimuli now seeing as how you’ve already proven you have the comprehension skills of a 5 year old and the IQ of a jar of pickles I highly doubt you’ve had even made it this far into the comment…at the end of th day we should all shrive to learn new things everyday and I hope this information facilitates that need for youLmaoo such spicy language…looks like I’ve touched a nerve today
Great insight
. I like what you said about “ Porno Style” lifestyle. I believe this is a huge problem with the lifestyle, and it creates an unrealistic expectations for singles and couples. Also, you see this with Hotwife/BBC lifestyle when couples or females want 10-12 inch cocks 
. The minds of people are getting warped and delusional.
Black men are really cool with being reduced to a dick for the sake of getting a piece of ass from someone that would speak about them this way. I have no dog in the fight. Just observation. These dudes wild fuckin chics coming into it talking like that. I look good af.. straight PASS out my f'n face. Real life. No harm no foul. It's meant for the biracial/black dudes reading that comment. Self respect is a mutha. I ain't even got the biggest dick. I'd f around and hurt ya feelings thinking you'd come at me like that. And I ain't got no ass in 3 years. Word.. Everyone is entitled to their own outlook on life.
Same the menopause is not great for ladies ego
Agree 100% !Personally, I dont understand the whole "real relationship" part of the lifestyle. Isnt that what your husband/boyfriend is supposed to be for?
If you are just looking for a relationship, why do you need a hung black guy to pound you?
Just seems like a complete contradiction to me.
There is still a relationship involved, however casual it may be. A girl that just goes straight to sex without getting to know a guy is few and far between so guys should still plan on putting in a little effort. The hotwife world is still absolutely full of free pussy for the bulls that are willing to be more than just a hard dick. Seduce her mind and the legs will part lolPersonally, I dont understand the whole "real relationship" part of the lifestyle. Isnt that what your husband/boyfriend is supposed to be for?
If you are just looking for a relationship, why do you need a hung black guy to pound you?
Just seems like a complete contradiction to me.
THIS IS FACT!
The hysterectomy put the final nail in our love life! She sleeps with the cat!
I agree as well, like you married right. Why do you need a boyfriend forPersonally, I dont understand the whole "real relationship" part of the lifestyle. Isnt that what your husband/boyfriend is supposed to be for?
If you are just looking for a relationship, why do you need a hung black guy to pound you?
Just seems like a complete contradiction to me.
. Just making more dramaYou definitely right, right now in the lifestyle, There are too many bi sexual couples In the lifestyle that want bi black guys or open minded black guys. No offense to anyone bi sexual. I respect your preference, but im straight and I love women.Bruh its not even close. The overall quality in general has plummeted.
And all these gay/bisexual Cuckold white guys trying to get into the action
I'm trying to figure something out...when did this become Black Men and a white dude?
When I first started meeting with wives back in 2013 the Interracial Lifestyle was all about Black Men meeting with sexy WOMEN. Now lately it's become this weird "package deal" for chicks trying to ADD their nasty ass, punk-ass cuckold husband talking about 'let him suck you off' or some bullshit
Just the quality of women overall has fell off a fucking cliff, smh. A lot of the Sexier women left the site because of fakes and cuckolds.
But a lot of thirsty SIMP Kneegrows so desperate for pussy they go along with the bullshit
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