What is the #1 most frustrating thing about the Hotwife lifestyle within last couple years for singles and couples?

[Xzibit]

I was talking to a Hotwife couple this weekend that has been in lifestyle for 15 years. They said lifestyle overall has change drastically some good changes but mostly bad changes. They were particularly frustrated with flakiness and people not really understanding what the lifestyle is really about and coming into lifestyle thinking it’s a sexual free fall instead building real relationships.

At the core they believed that the LS is a supposed to be about sexual liberation and having good relationships with people who are non judgmental. But believe that people don’t even get know each other anymore, and it’s tuff just getting guys and couples to meet a bar or restaurant for drinks to have a conversation. They just want to go to straight to having sex. Anyways, this was their frustration and believe me they had many more I won’t get into.

Besides Covid and Technology, what has is the single most thing you think has changed in the Hotwife lifestyle over the last couple years ? I love to hear your thoughts .

 

[ChasingBunnies]

Personally, I dont understand the whole "real relationship" part of the lifestyle. Isnt that what your husband/boyfriend is supposed to be for?

If you are just looking for a relationship, why do you need a hung black guy to pound you?

Just seems like a complete contradiction to me.

 

[Xzibit]

Personally, I dont understand the whole "real relationship" part of the lifestyle. Isnt that what your husband/boyfriend is supposed to be for?

If you are just looking for a relationship, why do you need a hung black guy to pound you?

That’s fair . Good question

 

[YngBlk27]

Not to go off topic but I do agree somewhat with the first post. I like sex but when engaging with a couple, I do believe in building trust and getting to know them and respecting their marriage and building intimacy with the wife.

 

[Xzibit]

Not to go off topic but I do agree somewhat with the first post. I like sex but when engaging with a couple, I do believe in building trust and getting to know them and respecting their marriage and building intimacy with the wife.

Having a different viewpoint is good. There are no right or wrong answers. Good perspective

 

[YngBlk27]

Having a different viewpoint is good. There are no right or wrong answers. Good perspective

But to answer your question, I say Covid has been the most frustrating. You do not want to live in fear but you do have to be safe and meeting has become hard because of it.

 

[Black adonis]

Flakiness. Californians are flaky, but Cali people in the LS are even worse.

 

[WetNwild57]

Personally, I dont understand the whole "real relationship" part of the lifestyle. Isnt that what your husband/boyfriend is supposed to be for?

If you are just looking for a relationship, why do you need a hung black guy to pound you?

Just seems like a complete contradiction to me.

agreed

 

[Xzibit]

But to answer your question, I say Covid has been the most frustrating. You do not want to live in fear but you do have to be safe and meeting has become hard because of it.

One thing I said besides Covid. I think we all understand that situation.

 

[YngBlk27]

I like intimacy, I know at the end of the day sex is the main goal for many, but I do like to build a frienship and a relationship with the woman or couple I am involved with.

 

[Black adonis]

Personally, I dont understand the whole "real relationship" part of the lifestyle. Isnt that what your husband/boyfriend is supposed to be for?

If you are just looking for a relationship, why do you need a hung black guy to pound you?

Just seems like a complete contradiction to me.

I think those people are looking for some kind of friendship, someone they can talk to, not just fuck. They don't want someone to just hit it and quit it. Others do though ...

 

[YngBlk27]

One thing I said besides Covid. I think we all understand that situation.

Like others said I guess flakes and fakes maybe the biggest part. I sm not verified here, but I always offer the chance to video chat and prove I am real. I do not want any drama or trouble or to catfish anyone.

 

[AlphaCoupleTN]

All the lies about cock size, I like the monsters lol. Had way to many show up but wasn't what they advertised

 

[Xzibit]

All the lies about cock size, I like the monsters lol. Had way to many show up but wasn't what they advertised

So what’s your strategy now to verify cock size? Do you not care to get to know them or their personality ?

 

[Xzibit]

I think those people are looking for some kind of friendship, someone they can talk to, not just fuck. They don't want someone to just hit it and quit it. Others do though ...

I think it’s usually two types of Hotwife couples. 1. Hit and quit couple 2. They want to get to know you and trust you with the wife. Neither wrong just different strategy

 

[AlphaCoupleTN]

So what’s your strategy now to verify cock size? Do you not care to get to know them or their personality ?

Here lately I ask for size proof next to something or a video of them stroking it saying my name!

 

[seeking2019]

I think those people are looking for some kind of friendship, someone they can talk to, not just fuck. They don't want someone to just hit it and quit it. Others do though ...

We've found that BIG black cocks are literally a myth at least where we are. We've had 3 who were actually above average in size.

Also the flakiness is a problem. AND these idiots who post pics of other guys cocks as if we're not gonna see they don't have what we're looking for when they drop their pants

 

[Xzibit]

Here lately I ask for size proof next to something or a video of them stroking it saying my name!h

How is that working out for you? If they don’t have a porno cock it’s a no go?

 

[seeking2019]

We've found that BIG black cocks are literally a myth at least where we are. We've had 3 who were actually above average in size.

Also the flakiness is a problem. AND these idiots who post pics of other guys cocks as if we're not gonna see they don't have what we're looking for when they drop their pants

If you watch alot if vids on this site, there are LOTS of "BIG" black cocks that really aren't BIG at all.....but the female acts as if it's huge. I think it must be psychological....

 

[KingRex]

I think those people are looking for some kind of friendship, someone they can talk to, not just fuck. They don't want someone to just hit it and quit it. Others do though ...

I prefer having a friendly vibe with a couple. Not expecting to be best friends but when I can joke around, have a *******, and have a friendly/sexual banter it's a lot more fun for me and the couple.