What is the #1 most frustrating thing about the Hotwife lifestyle within last couple years for singles and couples?

[Xzibit]

We've found that BIG black cocks are literally a myth at least where we are. We've had 3 who were actually above average in size.

Also the flakiness is a problem. AND these idiots who post pics of other guys cocks as if we're not gonna see they don't have what we're looking for when they drop their pants

This is true! Most BBC’s are slightly above average. I think people have unrealistic expectations about cock size and watch to much Porno. Those Porno guys are abnormal. And besides most women don’t want a 10 inch cock, they say it hurts. Flakiness is a real issue

 

[Xzibit]

I prefer having a friendly vibe with a couple. Not expecting to be best friends but when I can joke around, have a *******, and have a friendly/sexual banter it's a lot more fun for me and the couple.

I like the term “ friendly vibe”. I totally agree makes the experience so much better when you can joke around and have fun

 

[Xzibit]

If you watch alot if vids on this site, there are LOTS of "BIG" black cocks that really aren't BIG at all.....but the female acts as if it's huge. I think it must be psychological....

Definitely psychology plays apart in fetish

 

[Hungyung]

We've found that BIG black cocks are literally a myth at least where we are. We've had 3 who were actually above average in size.

Also the flakiness is a problem. AND these idiots who post pics of other guys cocks as if we're not gonna see they don't have what we're looking for when they drop their pants

Not a myth just a stereotype white men are hing as are Asian and Indian and all the other races . Only thing that makes this "lifestyle " special is the fetishizing of black skin all the way back from plantation days when im sure that's where the myth started the slaves were fucking massas wife all this ******* is is just a new way to exploit that's why they break it down and call them " bills" like all they are good for is strength and masculinity but if you have a relationship that takes a little bit of that toxic ass fetish away

 

[seeking2019]

How is that working out for you? If they don’t have a porno cock it’s a no go?

Don't need a "porno cock" but what's the point of looking for BIG black cock if it's just average or slightly above average?

 

[dirtywife4fun]

That’s fair . Good question

I think some may misunderstand the term "relationship" with a couple/wife wanting the other man to take the time to turn the wife on. I'm sure there are some people that can exchange a pic and then immediately arrange a meeting. I prefer to meet and have some chemistry with the other man. Physical sex is great, but in combination with mental stimulation it can be much hotter! That doesn't mean I want a "relationship" with the other man.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I was talking to a Hotwife couple this weekend that has been in lifestyle for 15 years. They said lifestyle overall has change drastically some good changes but mostly bad changes. They were particularly frustrated with flakiness and people not really understanding what the lifestyle is really about and coming into lifestyle thinking it’s a sexual free fall instead building real relationships.

At the core they believed that the LS is a supposed to be about sexual liberation and having good relationships with people who are non judgmental. But believe that people don’t even get know each other anymore, and it’s tuff just getting guys and couples to meet a bar or restaurant for drinks to have a conversation. They just want to go to straight to having sex. Anyways, this was their frustration and believe me they had many more I won’t get into.

Besides Covid and Technology, what has is the single most thing you think has changed in the Hotwife lifestyle over the last couple years ? I love to hear your thoughts .

Bruh its not even close. The overall quality in general has plummeted.
And all these gay/bisexual Cuckold white guys trying to get into the action

I'm trying to figure something out...when did this become Black Men and a white dude?

When I first started meeting with wives back in 2013 the Interracial Lifestyle was all about Black Men meeting with sexy WOMEN. Now lately it's become this weird "package deal" for chicks trying to ADD their nasty ass, punk-ass cuckold husband talking about 'let him suck you off' or some bullshit

Just the quality of women overall has fell off a fucking cliff, smh. A lot of the Sexier women left the site because of fakes and cuckolds.
But a lot of thirsty SIMP Kneegrows so desperate for pussy they go along with the bullshit

 

[Xzibit]

Don't need a "porno cock" but what's the point of looking for BIG black cock if it's just average or slightly above average?

How do determine if it’s a Big Black Cock? By thickness? Length? Girth? What if it’s big black cock but he don’t know how to use it? What if he has a Big Black Cock and he is an asshole, do you still play with him?

 

[Xzibit]

Bruh its not even close. The overall quality in general has plummeted.
And all these gay/bisexual Cuckold white guys trying to get into the action

I'm trying to figure something out...when did this become Black Men and a white dude?

When I first started meeting with wives back in 2013 the Interracial Lifestyle was all about Black Men meeting with sexy WOMEN. Now lately it's become this weird "package deal" for chicks trying to ADD their nasty ass, punk-ass cuckold husband talking about 'let him suck you off' or some bullshit

Just the quality of women overall has fell off a fucking cliff, smh. A lot of the Sexier women left the site because of fakes and cuckolds.
But a lot of thirsty SIMP Kneegrows so desperate for pussy they go along with the bullshit

Wow, great perspective as always. Yeah the gay/bisexual Cuckold is out of control. I am transitioning to more one on one encounter with Hotwife without the significant others because of influx of gay/bi cuckold. Thanks for input

 

[Akaval903]

I prefer having a friendly vibe with a couple. Not expecting to be best friends but when I can joke around, have a *******, and have a friendly/sexual banter it's a lot more fun for me and the couple.

I agree with King Rex. Also there are so many fakes and no shows who waste our time. It gets very frustrating after a while.

 

[petco]

bi/ gay overhelming ? not only here . in the past i found some " cuckold" online groups in china . i quit them very fast - mostly guys who want to suck my white dick or guys who want to fuck my ass .

but - i ll not give up - be patient

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Wow, great perspective as always. Yeah the gay/bisexual Cuckold is out of control. I am transitioning to more one on one encounter with Hotwife without the significant others because of influx of gay/bi cuckold. Thanks for input

Same here. I'm getting out of this whole lifestyle with new couples, ******* getting ridiculous. Thankfully I stay in contact with all the great couples and sexy women I've met over the past years so I still have some fun Playmates
but as far as meeting new people my standards are so high most of them don't qualify anyways. If a woman not willing to do video chat I don't even bother

 

[petco]

the other thing - if you go to a swinger club ( in the western countries ) it happen easily to have sex without knowing each other before .

but for private meetings - for sure i would like to know the guy and for sure my wife will be same . ( except really rare situations ) .
knowing does nt mean he becomes part of our normal life , but there must be sympathy and trust .
and like a good team which becomes better whith each play it can be a plus

 

[AnnieS]

Covid

 

[VegascplXXX]

Our lives are in constant change some good some bad. In my opinion all of it is because of the internet and social media. I'm guessing that pretty much everyone in here has some inaccuracies in their profiles. Even our politicians lie constantly. Online contacts like you would make here have always been risky. We stopped meeting anyone from an online contact at any place we were not already going to, years ago. Most of the people you correspond with have one of those fantasies that they will never fulfill. Pretty much everything you do on sites like this is pure fantasy and will never happen. I saw one complaint about wasting time. What do you call this?

For me personally, it's all about sex. Sure, I want to be friends, but I'm not interested in a relationship. I already have that with my husband. I have no interest in juggling two real relationships! Obviously, I don't leave my husband home alone all weekend while I play! I'm not being critical of others, but you have to realize that you are playing with fire. What I enjoy most is events like Splash Mocha. i can play with literally as many good-looking black men as I desire. I'll waste no time complaining about flakes. There won't be any to complain about.

 

[TheTaylorBear]

If you watch alot if vids on this site, there are LOTS of "BIG" black cocks that really aren't BIG at all.....but the female acts as if it's huge. I think it must be psychological....

A lot of this is psychological from guys who are taking pics trying to look big and muscular but aren't even much taller than the light switch in the pic ?!? An especially on the requests for an 10 inch to 12inch especially from women who aren't even pretty in the face and slim in the waist .
I'd rather have a hard "great" dick than an gigantic limp one!
That's why I respect quiet confident women who ask intelligent questions when chatting & I lean towards more natural than not .
Not with all of the gayness (That has definitely made it more frustrating ) but to each their own & keep it pushing far away from me.
I also have advocated into getting to know someone & good rule of thumb , if you wouldn't by her a ******* at the club or take her out to dinner then why would you jump in the bed... head first with her ?!?
Also people should be themselves & women shouldn't be afraid to be feminine (It's actually a turn on ) and men should be confident on being a "real" men & not cumming on pics & jacking off with flesh-lights (Stop Simping !!!)
Honestly if it's in you then be you but if it is not then don't follow the herd .
Men use this story as a guide
Once there was an old bull and a young bull standing on a hill a looking over a herd of cows , the young bull said to the old bull :
"Let's run down there real fast & fuck one of those cows !" The old bull said :" Let's walk down there real slow & fuck them all!"

 

[Dorion Marcus]

I was talking to a Hotwife couple this weekend that has been in lifestyle for 15 years. They said lifestyle overall has change drastically some good changes but mostly bad changes. They were particularly frustrated with flakiness and people not really understanding what the lifestyle is really about and coming into lifestyle thinking it’s a sexual free fall instead building real relationships.

At the core they believed that the LS is a supposed to be about sexual liberation and having good relationships with people who are non judgmental. But believe that people don’t even get know each other anymore, and it’s tuff just getting guys and couples to meet a bar or restaurant for drinks to have a conversation. They just want to go to straight to having sex. Anyways, this was their frustration and believe me they had many more I won’t get into.

Besides Covid and Technology, what has is the single most thing you think has changed in the Hotwife lifestyle over the last couple years ? I love to hear your thoughts .

Something I find very frustrating is couples who want different situations. The husband wants to be a cuckold and the wife wants an actual partner, or she isn't into the lifestyle at all. Dealing with unsure couples is very frustrating and inconvenient.

 

[BiStag69]

No shows and misrepresentations by the male/bull. To many times even though we say no married individuals we find out they are married. Easy to tell by talking to them for a while. Also we are into having some type of connection with the individual maybe not close friends but dinner dates and going out as a threesome. We are not into cuckold so different from most people here

 

[Mikej66]

Bruh its not even close. The overall quality in general has plummeted.

And all these gay/bisexual Cuckold white guys trying to get into the action

I'm trying to figure something out...when did this become Black Men and a white dude?

When I first started meeting with wives back in 2013 the Interracial Lifestyle was all about Black Men meeting with sexy WOMEN. Now lately it's become this weird "package deal" for chicks trying to ADD their nasty ass, punk-ass cuckold husband talking about 'let him suck you off' or some bullshit

Just the quality of women overall has fell off a fucking cliff, smh. A lot of the Sexier women left the site because of fakes and cuckolds.
But a lot of thirsty SIMP Kneegrows so desperate for pussy they go along with the bullshit

I definitely agree…when I got into this lifestyle back in like 2017-2018 the quality of folks I met where great but over the past 2 years of so you can definitely see an increase in closeted gay men or even bi cuckold’s wanting to either suck you off BEFORE you meet the wife or have it be required they suck you off at some point. Overall it’s a really shitty space about now if you don’t have established partners

 

[VegascplXXX]

Bruh its not even close. The overall quality in general has plummeted.

I definitely agree…when I got into this lifestyle back in like 2017-2018 the quality of folks I met where great but over the past 2 years of so you can definitely see an increase in closeted gay men or even bi cuckold’s wanting to either suck you off BEFORE you meet the wife or have it be required they suck you off at some point. Overall it’s a really shitty space about now if you don’t have established partners

Wouldn't it be easier to just not put your cock in his mouth? As for bisexual being required, seriously didn't you know that in advance? Seems like that would be a question you might want to ask before you meet? I can't imagine anyone identifying as a cuck who would ******* you to let him suck you off. Seriously that just doesn't happen.