I am curious what its about for you. I personally am not into the humiliation side of Cuckolding, I am not really all that into the he has to be black side of it either. For me its purely about her pleasure. I have always thought that it was my job as a husband to please my wife in the bedroom. After a health issue a few years ago, I began to wonder if I am really pleasing her in bed. I began exploring new ways and ideas of pleasing her. I have never make her orgasm when we are having intercourse, its always has to be either me fingering her, or her favorite is me sucking her. Why I have come here is because recently we were at an adult store and I asked her about sizes and things and she said she wanted to try a bigger dildo. I told her to pick out the one she thought she would like me to use on her. It turned out to be an 8 inch long, really really fat black one. So naturally, my wheels started turning about whether or not she might want a real black one. How about you, what is it about for you?