We did. My ******* would not have excepted anyone other then latins. Mentality has changed but, growing up never even associated with others..Im curious if there are any women out there whose parents raised them or influenced them to date within their race. If so, what's something that persuaded you or tempted you to take the chance and date outside of your race?
Both my parents wanted me to date and hang out with only white Christian men, so my entire young adult life that's all I dated I had one or two girlfriends that drifted and when I say drifted they dated a dark Puerto Rican my ******* was Furious he did not want me to stay with her anymore, it wasn't until years later on an all-girls trip that I had my first black experience
How was it?[/QUO it was wonderful I spoke about it many times on here
My parents are conservative and sometimes racist. i think its really dumb, but i am not allowed to bring non-european guys at home, although i am 18yo now. i often argued with my parents but they have these stupid opinion.
My dad had made it clear that he wanted my future husband to be white but didn't object when I dated black in high school. My mom was more relaxed about boyfriends as long as I stayed safe. Growing up I think both of them didn't think I would move to Kenya, marry a Kenyan man and have children with him.
more than one experience, but i am young thoughHow much experience do you have dating outside of your demographic?
more than one experience, but i am young though
I'd say acquired. I was the kind of suburban girl who had white boyband posters in my room but then started getting into hip hop. I had my first boyfriend with 14 and my first black boyfriend with 17.We're black men just your preference growing up or was it an acquired taste?
Absolutely 100% yes Im ashamed to say my mom is not as enlightened as she claims to be.Im curious if there are any women out there whose parents raised them or influenced them to date within their race. If so, what's something that persuaded you or tempted you to take the chance and date outside of your race?
I don't think you're wrong. Most ppl just know the environment they live in. Having lived in a few different countries the hardest thing to overcome wasn't my color it was being American. Living in America the hardest thing to overcome is my color. So is the standard (no black men) the same if he's affluent or rich?I don't know what it's like in other countries but here in America if you don't live in or around a city it's entirely possible that you couldn't date a black person even if you wanted to. There just weren't any around. I grew up in a small town in New Jersey where there weren't any non whites so I wasn't raised to date only white- it was my only option. I can't recall my parents ever saying anything to me about only dating whites.
I went to a small college in rural Pennsylvania and there were some black students but not in great numbers. So again, it wasn't a conscious decision to only date whites nor was I following any directive from my parents. Now that I'm married and live in an area where there are lots of black men it's now an option. I see lot's of white women with black men. I'm sure for some of them there's some push-back with their family but on a whole I think it's pretty common.
It's probably more common for people to be raised to believe that they need to stay within the same religion.
If I'm wrong I'm sure someone will let me know both here in this thread and through a personal message.![]()
Enlightenment seems to be viewed through a distant lenseAbsolutely 100% yes Im ashamed to say my mom is not as enlightened as she claims to be.