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Cuckold25pitt

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As many of us continual on with searching for that true and worthy person to live our sexually and emotional lives to the fullest, we tend to lose track of how much of our minds want the particular kink/fetish at any given time We invest so much of our consecration on how strong the desire is that hour that we become blind to the process of how that desire diminishes almost entirely the hour to follow. We make promises, offer partnerships, and offer our time. Within that time spawn that we feel our lives are meaningless unless we fill that sexually craving we deemed a everlasting certainty. Well, until the morning comes and all we want is that extra 20 mins of sleepful euphoria.

I've been guilty many times in what some call " Drunken horniness" Its because of this feeling that i have some bad experiences playing cuck third to a number of couples. I let my dick do the feeling for me and regardless of the emotional high during the action is a bitter sweet come down. Its in these moments where you realizes that any kink/fetish isnt stability if you cant seem to come to terms with it at your most non-sexual mindsets. This is where a fetish becomes unhealthy to have and is used as a cooping device for much more serious issues.

I'm writing this because lately I have spoken to a number of women who see immense desire to pursue a relationship such as a cuck one, but very quickly just disappear to resurface again 3 weeks later. They open up talks with such lines as
" Your perfect' "Cuck forever" " Hello".

I tend to ask each woman the same questions that some really show men who actually wants this and who wants comments, likes, money, a play partner, escape a failed marriage. Each questions are:

  • Have you ever had a arrangement similar to one of a cuck one? Or have you done anything with more than 2 people in a bedroom?
  • Why do you think a cuck relationship to the level i have wrote about would be something that you could see yourself in for maybe 5,10, 25 years?
  • Do you feel as if you couldn't live without having a cuck relationship to the degree I have detailed?
-I believe the roles of cuck should entirely still the same. There is no one day cuck, one day not. I enjoy the idea that a cuck relationship has specific roles/rights for both parties both sexually/emotionally. How do you see yourself with a cuck who would be 100% abstinence from sexually penetration ?

Not surprisingly its the second question women simple just dont feel shows how submissive i am. And many just ghost after that one. But really if you cant even explain a simple idea of who you are to someone who is willing to lie to his entire family, quit a job, lose everyone he has ever known and thousands of dollars in moving expenses. Then how are you serious again about starting a partnership ?I hope every cuck searching out there isnt just willing to give up everything just because one woman showed interest. I hope each searching cuck out there can see that if she cant explain a complex desire.. simply then she isnt going to fill that hole in your heart. If she just gives 4 word replies because she knows there is 1000's of cuck on here who she can just look at instead. We as cucks give and give some more. We have value even if we don't see it in ourselves.

I ask these questions to see if a woman understands what I am searching for and also for me to understand specifically want she is searching for. To see if I'm a play partner or a life partner. I understand that like anything worth writing home about it takes time. But time has got nothing on communication. Just because a woman enjoys submissive men doesn't mean you( the cuck) will enjoy her
 
FIRST, long before you jump into the whole "relationship" and then turn that into the "cuckold lifestyle" you really need to understand how females operate, it's not some mystical bullshit, it's millions of years of evolutionary biology that drive both males and females.

A MAN: Is a scuba diver, he has to take classes, buy equipment, learn all the dangers, practice, seek out experts for different depths and types of diving from simple reef dives to deep water wreak diving. he has to schedule all of this training and devote whatever time and expense it takes to develop these skills, for him he is INVESTING in reaching his goal. The man has to become a master in this skill so he does not drown or get trapped in some deep water cave or end up as a sharks late night snack. All of this takes a lot of time and effort on his part.

A WOMAN: Is the fish in that ocean.... She isn't even aware she is in the water, so why would she have any reason to learn how to swim at differing depths. There is no investment on her part, no learning, or any expense, she is simply there when the diver shows up, and THAT is all she will ever know or see when that scuba diver shows up. She has no concept of his effort or expense, or what it took for that man to get to where she is swimming around that day.

That is why "many just ghost after that one. " because a fish can't explain to the diver how she swims in the ocean, or even comprehend the massive INVESTMENT the man made to get to that fish because she did absolutely nothing to end up in the ocean, that's just where she is.

No woman can explain her biology, she doesn't understand how or why she evolved, she just feels that "must be over six feet tall" is a magical guarantee for her survival, even if it's an idiotic metric and means nothing for survival odd's. If you read a dozen bio's on Tinder or whatever dating site you look at, they all are EXACTLY THE SAME there is no deviation or anything unique because women are the fish, they don't even know there is an entire world outside of the ocean they swim around in called dry land. All they know is the water, where posting nudes gets them attention, free meals, travel, and designer purses magically appear just for shaking her ass on Tic Tok. She get's her an endless stream of "likes" and that sweet dopamine rush without doing anything for it, while the diver has spent years learning how to dive in the ocean.
 
FIRST, long before you jump into the whole "relationship" and then turn that into the "cuckold lifestyle" you really need to understand how females operate, it's not some mystical bullshit, it's millions of years of evolutionary biology that drive both males and females.

A MAN: Is a scuba diver, he has to take classes, buy equipment, learn all the dangers, practice, seek out experts for different depths and types of diving from simple reef dives to deep water wreak diving. he has to schedule all of this training and devote whatever time and expense it takes to develop these skills, for him he is INVESTING in reaching his goal. The man has to become a master in this skill so he does not drown or get trapped in some deep water cave or end up as a sharks late night snack. All of this takes a lot of time and effort on his part.

A WOMAN: Is the fish in that ocean.... She isn't even aware she is in the water, so why would she have any reason to learn how to swim at differing depths. There is no investment on her part, no learning, or any expense, she is simply there when the diver shows up, and THAT is all she will ever know or see when that scuba diver shows up. She has no concept of his effort or expense, or what it took for that man to get to where she is swimming around that day.

That is why "many just ghost after that one. " because a fish can't explain to the diver how she swims in the ocean, or even comprehend the massive INVESTMENT the man made to get to that fish because she did absolutely nothing to end up in the ocean, that's just where she is.

No woman can explain her biology, she doesn't understand how or why she evolved, she just feels that "must be over six feet tall" is a magical guarantee for her survival, even if it's an idiotic metric and means nothing for survival odd's. If you read a dozen bio's on Tinder or whatever dating site you look at, they all are EXACTLY THE SAME there is no deviation or anything unique because women are the fish, they don't even know there is an entire world outside of the ocean they swim around in called dry land. All they know is the water, where posting nudes gets them attention, free meals, travel, and designer purses magically appear just for shaking her ass on Tic Tok. She get's her an endless stream of "likes" and that sweet dopamine rush without doing anything for it, while the diver has spent years learning how to dive in the ocean.
Well said
 
I ask these questions to see if a woman understands what I am searching for and also for me to understand specifically want she is searching for. To see if I'm a play partner or a life partner. I understand that like anything worth writing home about it takes time. But time has got nothing on communication. Just because a woman enjoys submissive men doesn't mean you( the cuck) will enjoy her
Sorry, maybe its just me, its early, and I'm juggling multi-projects today, but, I'm having trouble following the intent of your post. This cuckone and cucktwo or cuckthird, whatever, thing is confusing to me.
If I have this correct, you are insinuating that you're an aid (cucktwo) in helping couples decide if they are serious in considering cuckolding arrangements? So, you're sort of inserting "the need" of yourself as an advisor in being involved in their cuckold arrangements?
Married males may pursue other men to bang their wives simply to be involved in a cuckold/hotwife type arrangement for the thrill of a more diverse marital lifestyle, OR .... the married man might be a cuckold simply because his wife pursues other men for sexual enjoyment and he isn't the least aware of the cheating ... the original origin of cuckolding. As I see it, a married woman sexually pursues other men because either (1) to add excitement to the sexual relationship with her husband, OR ... because her husband is not meeting an important sexual need that she has.
So, you're wanting to help prospective "cuckolding" couples address the important areas of the cuckold lifestyle ... and that is why you label yourself a cucktwo (specialist so to speak).
I'm not sure women necessarily pursue permissive men ... they may just wish to have a mate/relationship where SHE is the alpha of the couple. She ultimately, however, desires a strong male to guide her, provide her strong children, protect her, and make her feel secure.

However, am I even CLOSE to the intent of your original post? If you desire to be a true cuckold, yourself, how do you fit in with couples in which there already IS a cuckold?
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