Watching your wife or let her tell you about it later?

[LatinQoSCpl]

We have done it both ways.
1. It's amazing being present. Watching her facial expressions, listening to every moan and scream as well as watching how her body gets used and she gets so much pleasure from it.
2. The anticipation of knowing what happens is also awesome. She has stayed the night at a BF house and I almost lost my mind. She got home early in the morning and it drove me crazy. The smell her devilish smile and how exhausted she was was mind blowing.

 

[Report]

Well for me, as a single black guy I have always wanted Hubby present. It's a sense of security for all three involved. Besides that, I enjoy seeing the Hub stroke himself! It's beyond exciting knowing that my performance is creating his strong erection.

Love this quote. Generally not into wimp and humiliation stuff. I just love the subtle power dynamics that take place within the bedroom. The husband sitting back with his smaller manhood exposed and being a voyeur, while he lets a black stud give his wife a sexual thrill. So kinky and fun

 

[Suckmycuck]

I like to watch

 

[Gorpracing]

She wants me to be there. So watch video and take pics.

 

[Doherbutt]

I’m usually there. But I’m totally cool with waiting outside the hotel room while they enjoy themselves or dropping her off and picking her up later. We have to know the guy real well to do that though

 

[FEROSFERIO]

I travel for work; when I’m home I love to watch but I absolutely want her to see her bull while I’m away. So both are very hot.

 

[Seth1805]

The "plan" when we first talked was I had to be there to watch. But after awhile I got aroused by the idea of her being alone and talked to me wife and conceded that I really only need to watch her the first few times and afterwards if she wanted be alone I would be fine with it. My wife initially said "no way, we both have to be there" but after a few discussions she conceded that she said no too quickly and would consider it if things were "right."
By right my wife said the guy she was with had a good rapport with us and she felt I could handle it. I told her I could handle it and that initially I could watch from afar and/or then remain in another room and listen. She actually admitted it sounded exciting to have me in the house but in another room. I wonder what it would be like to only be able to listen to them?
And I will concede at this point I might be the type of husband that wants her to go out alone her first time and I never thought I would say that. She has gotten to know this customer at her casino who is this "sharp looking black man" and she says they flirt all the time with each other and I feel as though he could proposition her at work if she keeps it up and have even warned her it might happen. My thought is, what if he asks to see her after work and she asks him if I can watch and he says that is not his thing, could she be so taken in by him that she informs me and rhetorically asks if I mind if she and him go out one night. I see myself being taken aback but also being overcome by the thought of her in bed with a hung black man and saying yes even though I can sense she is being rhetorical

I thought in very concrete terms and had a set way of believing I was not "extreme" in my desire to do any of this. To say I have evolved in this is putting it mildly. I have learned this lifestyle and the way you feel about is fluid and what once was unthinkable for me i.e. my wife going out to meet a black man to have sex without me is now something I feel could happen

 

[paulj93]

One of life's big dilemmas

 

[geoffrya]

The "plan" when we first talked was I had to be there to watch. But after awhile I got aroused by the idea of her being alone and talked to me wife and conceded that I really only need to watch her the first few times and afterwards if she wanted be alone I would be fine with it. My wife initially said "no way, we both have to be there" but after a few discussions she conceded that she said no too quickly and would consider it if things were "right."
By right my wife said the guy she was with had a good rapport with us and she felt I could handle it. I told her I could handle it and that initially I could watch from afar and/or then remain in another room and listen. She actually admitted it sounded exciting to have me in the house but in another room. I wonder what it would be like to only be able to listen to them?
And I will concede at this point I might be the type of husband that wants her to go out alone her first time and I never thought I would say that. She has gotten to know this customer at her casino who is this "sharp looking black man" and she says they flirt all the time with each other and I feel as though he could proposition her at work if she keeps it up and have even warned her it might happen. My thought is, what if he asks to see her after work and she asks him if I can watch and he says that is not his thing, could she be so taken in by him that she informs me and rhetorically asks if I mind if she and him go out one night. I see myself being taken aback but also being overcome by the thought of her in bed with a hung black man and saying yes even though I can sense she is being rhetorical

I thought in very concrete terms and had a set way of believing I was not "extreme" in my desire to do any of this. To say I have evolved in this is putting it mildly. I have learned this lifestyle and the way you feel about is fluid and what once was unthinkable for me i.e. my wife going out to meet a black man to have sex without me is now something I feel could happen

l will say if you do let her go on her own it will become a regular occurrence as it did for us, I was really pissed of and gutted when she went after I agreed, the other thing was she told me she was going to go anyway, looking back all those years ago I do wonder why I made such fuss as these days she meets most on her own I have accepted this and to be quite honest I find the waiting now part of the excitement but each to his own

 

[UKCpl4Girth]

I'm just curious, do most guys want to watch their wives get fucked? Would you rather send her out for a night or weekend, and hear about her adventures later. Me, I think when my wife finds her bull, I want pictures and videos of it as it happens.

Don't be shy, comment. I want to hear your thoughts.

Depends on the plan whether I participate or watch/record, but always with her. We don't play alone.

 

[Q9500]

I'm just curious, do most guys want to watch their wives get fucked? Would you rather send her out for a night or weekend, and hear about her adventures later. Me, I think when my wife finds her bull, I want pictures and videos of it as it happens.

Don't be shy, comment. I want to hear your thoughts.

We play together. I love to watch and take pics and we can play right after she is done.

 

[UKCpl4Girth]

We play together. I love to watch and take pics and we can play right after she is done.

Yes, last thing you mention is important.

 

[hotwife4bbc14]

both are fun and pics and vid are cool too!!!

 

[Hotwifesarahc]

My husband liked to watch because he wanted to see me orgasm and be sexually satisfied but he also knew that sometimes I didn't want him there and he was ok with that too. I spent many weekends with my black lovers without him but I would usually tell him most of what happened. You know some things are best kept a secrets.

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I love it! We evolved to this point as well, although we started out with him always being there and being part of it either watching or taking photos or videos. But as I got to know a few guys better, I he asked me if I wanted to see them occasionally on my own. I had been thinking the same thing but didn’t want to hurt his feelings if he didn’t feel the same way so I’m glad he said it. When we got into this originally he had told me that he wanted me to fully explore my sexuality and that I couldn’t do that with only one man. So when he said I could see others on my own, he reminded me that I couldn’t explore fully if he was always there, and he was right. It has been wonderful to be alone with other men and be able to fully focus on them and sharing that intimacy. I tell my husband about every encounter on my own, but likewise I keep some details to myself!

And I still enjoy playing with my husband present, but now it’s mostly when I’m on the prowl for someone new or meeting up with a guy from online. It makes me feel safer having him there when I’m with a stranger, and I like putting on a show for him to enjoy.

 

[Holmer]

I always hear about it later. She has a lover who lives quite close to us and she usually goes to his place. She comes back with her pussy filled with cum and talks about it while I'm cleaning her with my tongue.

 

[KeikoandSarge]

Well for me, as a single black guy I have always wanted Hubby present. It's a sense of security for all three involved. Besides that, I enjoy seeing the Hub stroke himself! It's beyond exciting knowing that my performance is creating his strong erection. Of the couples I've met, when the wife asks the Hub to leave the room, it kinda unnerves me. I'm wondering......what's he going to do? And typically it's always the Hub who does the arranging ( at least in my experiences), so why wouldn't the Hub want to be there always?? I understand that a lady wants to be alone and live out her thrill and that's fine, but it's not like I'm going to be a part of the family, right? Anyone else follow me on this one?

Well said!

 

[BethLuvsBBConly]

My hubby has watched me throughout our marraige. However, I learned early on, that if he masturbates while watching, he will ejaculate too fast, which is not a good thing, so I have him kneel at the foot of the bed and hold the bed post with both hands, plus this fits in with his love of cuckolding.

 

[ShareMyWife]

We’ve done it all. From watching and recording, me joining in. Her meeting in there car to suck there cock off or fuck in the back seat. She’s also left for several hours and went to there place. I have to say, love seeing her come home after a night away. Hair all fucked up, showered at there place and her pussy swollen, red, and heavily seeded.

 

[Cucking4fun]

At first I had to be there to watch and take pics and still if she meets someone new, for her safe feeling and mine. Once we are all comfortable and get to know each other I let her play alone! Sometimes I drop off and pick up or sometimes she will meet alone. I like wondering, pacing, anxious feeling! I love to hear what happened while I clean her and while she gives me head. She does tell me things are a lot more passionate when she is alone and she says a lot more hot stuff usually at his behest! Both are fun and we do whatever the mood dictates.

 

[Taker48]

I have done both, watching and waiting. Really not sure which is hotter. It is exciting to not know which I am going to get to do. One of the hottest times I had was when the bull brought me into the room to eat her pussy then put in a corner with my nose holding a quarter against the wall. Told if I dropped the quarter I would be punished. I was afraid to look and have the quarter fall while they were fucking.