Well, I am getting close to having my wife agree to get blacked. She's really enjoying IR vids now, and loves the way I make her feel with my new big black toy. She's even begging me to finish her with it now. BUT.......
I am into this because I want to see her have the best time ever. I can accept that he's going to make her feel things in ways I can't, and I am OK with that. But I don't want there to be any active humiliation. I am confident my wife won't, but how do I assure that he won't?? I expect that I will be the one finding the guy, at least at first. Has anyone discussed this with the guy ahead of time?? I want to be there, and would like to watch if I can. If he's not into my watching, I would probably get a suite where they can be in the bedroom while I hang out on the couch.
Any thoughts would be helpful.
I am into this because I want to see her have the best time ever. I can accept that he's going to make her feel things in ways I can't, and I am OK with that. But I don't want there to be any active humiliation. I am confident my wife won't, but how do I assure that he won't?? I expect that I will be the one finding the guy, at least at first. Has anyone discussed this with the guy ahead of time?? I want to be there, and would like to watch if I can. If he's not into my watching, I would probably get a suite where they can be in the bedroom while I hang out on the couch.
Any thoughts would be helpful.