Look, you have to be versatile in this thing OK? Some cuck couples like over the top humiliation and some don't. You have to find out what everybody likes, and if you can all get on the same page, then you go for it! All cuckolding doesn't involve humiliation.
Some cucks like to just sit there and watch. Others want to jerk off while they watch. Or take pictures and/or make videos. Others want to actively partipate in one way or another. And yes, some want to be humiliated in one way or another too. Figure out what kind of cuck couple you're dealing with, and if you're versatile enough to deliver and will enjoy too, then do it!
Now, I will be honest and say that there have been times when I've enjoyed the humiliation aspects of it, but mostly when the white wife is HOT and she's the one talking some big time, major league ******* up in the room, with her white guy being subservient to her, and her being submissive to me. Letting me treat her and fuck her in ways she won't let even her own husband do, and just having orgasm after orgasm. Extra points when a white chick butt fucks with blacks only ?
I remember one time the cuck hubby got a little upset and said, "You won't let me fuck you like that"! The wife replied, "No, I won't. I'm your wife, but I'm his whore"! And that was that LOL! And there are the more subtle, non-verbal things you can do to humiliate. Like if you're fucking and wifey has her face turned away from hubby, turn her head the other way so hubby can see her pretty white face . . . all flush red and eyeballs rolled all into the back of her head in total rapture from takin' that black dick . . . then look over at hubby and smile. Yep, yep! That's a "fuck face" that only a black man can give to your pretty white wife . . . isn't it . . . you never have . . . she won't even let you manhandle her like this will she??? Humiliation!!! At least for some white guys anyway. And I didn't even have to say a word
But remember that plenty of white cuck couples don't play like that. They don't play that *******. They don't get down like that, so you better know who and what you're dealing with first. No problem! Just sit back and watch me fuck her then! Oh, you wanna fuck her too? OK! After all, she is your wife LOL ?