So I'm just curious as to how odd/unusual it is for you other ladies to go on a vacation or outing with your lover, alone? I did it back in October and just wondered how common it is. We are very discreet and private here at home but this one weekend my hubby was going out of town to the race with his buddies. It was actually his suggestion that my bf and I go away and do something so went to a beach down South. I was a little nervous at first but the looks that we got, especially on the beach and hotel, was actually hot in some ways and funny in others. I was amazed at just how rude some people (white obviously) would openly look. Like it really repulsed them. Others it was like you could feel the envy maybe. It all just made it sexier for me. Is this an uncommon thing.