Two different Orgy Films, two different appeals. A study on female arousal and needs

Angelyn

Female
Just sharing with everyone my different reactions to two different movies, and what women like or dislike about them.

A lot of men don’t seem to understand this aspect of feminine arousal. Women seek male power, domination, status and approval as much as men seek to dominate women. It is a perfectly legitimate part of sexual need.

So women are in fact very turned on by scenes of female degradation and submission and sexualization. We love being made into sex objects. All of us.

Being cummed on by so many men that we are unrecognizable, being marked territory by men standing over us, being made to crawl between different men and submit to their sexual demands… all good stuff!

What men haven’t learned or accepted in all these years, however, is that women have very limited time windows in their sexual needs. We are not horny all of the time. In fact, we are horny quite rarely (at least, when compared with men). And our horniness needs a lot of environmental factors to be right in order for us to be comfortable with seeking sex.

While there is no exact correspondence to my mensuration cycle that I am aware of, I generally feel sexual only for a limited time each month. These are promoted or reduced according to other things I believe. EG stress at work. I would say that probably corresponds to the complex needs of reproduction. When there is difficulty finding food and shelter, primitive females would refuse to mate because it isn’t the right time to make babies.

Most of the time women’s desire to be dominated is no different from men’s. In other words, we don’t feel submissive at all. We don’t care to be submissive. We don’t want to kneel and suck your dick. We want to get ahead with our careers, and we want you to stfu and listen to us in class or in the corporate boardroom.

This is one of the things men simply just don’t get about women. All women. It is our need for you to respect us and treat us as equals nearly all of the time. And I mean nearly all of the time in all aspects of life! At least 95% of the time! Don’t bother us with sexual demands; we are non-penile men who don’t want sex and we don’t want you to act like dominant rooster MCPs!

Can’t you guys have some discipline and rein it in? Focus on building your alpha male career, on getting more income, whatever. Don’t think about sex! If you want sex, you can have lots of it when we are ready. Call it ‘in heat’ if you must. When the time is right you can really satisfy your aggressive fantasies on a woman without incurring her displeasure.


Yet guys, please be aware that all women are capable of multiple orgasms. When we do want sex, we want a lot of it. One guy can’t cope. 10 guys aren’t even enough. Most women can outlast 10 if she is being fucked in a female inferior position and adopting a passive, feminine stance while the guys do all the moving or carrying or thrusting. If we are just seated waiting for male attention like in a bukkake movie, we can easily outlast 500 men.

The vast majority of demands for orgy movies come from women. And most of the time, the guys aren’t confident and don’t dare participate. But all you guys need to know this: women aren’t going to pass judgment on small dicks during orgies. We just want lots of sex and lots of cum. As long as you save up, you’re a good guy. Not getting much cum after putting so much effort in is a big turn off for many women.

Most black ‘studs’ with big dicks and balls produce very, very little sperm. That is not a turn on at all.


Having said all these, now let me talk about two movies: Orgy World series vs Get Yo Orgy On 2.

Orgy World has multiple installments in the series, and they usually have lineups and parades at the front and ratings at the end. Nearly all the sex always takes place in a line because that’s how the furniture is arranged.

Get Yo Orgy On 2 is much more spontaneous and less formal throughout. There is a lot of mixed action taking place all over.

I like Orgy World’s starting a lot. It’s a good start because women need to be put into a sexual frame of mind much more than men.

I love the hot lineups where each white girl gets full attention from a bunch of horny black men who paw and fondle us and comment on us. It is quite fun for the women not currently being pawed as well, because it builds up the tension.

[Anyone can tell that my use of language here such as we and us does reflect some identification with the girls in the scene, which is generally good for porn enjoyment.]

I absolutely hate the ending of all Orgy World movies. They rate the girls. And that is very demeaning, in a non-hot way. All women hate this kind of ending. Even if you are gorgeous and good in bed, you still hate this kind of male-approval event. You will hardly ever find a woman who is not insecure about her attractiveness. An ending in which the girls get paraded in front (when the sex is over and they no longer need to be put into a sexual frame of mind) and rated by the men, is really a very unattractive and uncomfortable proposition for all women.

This is exactly the kind of MCP nonsense that needs to be put in a separate section of the video. Along with behind-the-scenes takes of the pornstars doing enemas, which doubtless appeals to some people also. It IS that shitty.

Get Yo Orgy On 2 starts with interviews with the girls, which I don’t care for. We girls know that these are fake, and that we can get the same except more accurate interviews from talking to our friends, so who cares. Interviews are almost always for male audiences in mind. Real alpha males should skip past these because they are a collection of lies anyway.

The sex in Get Yo Orgy On 2 is very gonzo. It is too much for me at the start. Totally unrealistic. Most Legalporno.org stuff (where the girls prep each other for as long as half an hour beforehand) is more realistic.

Women need a while to get aroused; we don’t enjoy just jumping into sex like that. Especially anal. Most of us are not comfortable with seeing a big black dick stuffed into some other woman’s butt seemingly without prep, because we identify with the butt being violated and we figure it is going to be extremely painful. But once I start getting aroused, the movie is quite good. All girls get attention and all girls appear reasonably comfortable with each other. Squirming bodies are everywhere. No one comes across as inhibited. The guys are all fit and studly which means I am sure that if I was there, I can expect to feel some hard male toned bodies. MMM.

What is not so good however, is a bit too much professional pornstar behaviour in both movies. I think it is true of too many movies. Too much genital contact and separate body language. If the woman really wanted to surrender her body she should be totally covered by the big black man. Which real life women would prefer the sensation of – being totally mounted and covered. I suspect this is because the male pornographers and male audience likes to see breasts heaving or bouncing during sex. Whereas if you are a woman, no matter how big your breasts are and how confident you are in your cleavage, you still prefer to be in total skin contact with your male partner rather than separated. In other words, women want their breasts covered by strong, firm male chests. Soft boobs squashed against muscular firm maleness. Sex that exposes our breasts feels like distant clinical sex. You are keeping the man at a distance, which vastly reduces sexual satisfaction.

Also another point of contention between men and women is that men like to pull out and push in but women like men in and nudging, rotating, spasming, in situ. While it is more dramatic and less subtle than women’s preferred way of having sex, I really do not like too much thrusting and boinking bodies. I would rather have more full and intimate body contact with the man only using his butt muscles to move his dick rather than his leg muscles.

See here, all women like to look at men’s butts. And we like strong, toned butts. I love the sight of men’s butt muscles flexing as they stick their dicks into other women, but most porn males have lousy butts. Soft, hairy man ass which looks so pathetic. And when there are nice butts in the room, the male POV pornographer doesn’t dwell on these butts. Of course I know male viewers don’t want to see men’s asses – but can’t the pornographers film a separate female-oriented segment and put that as a selectable scene in the dvd?

Let me care to add, most women really don’t care to lick soft flabby asses. When rimming we put both our hands on your butt, and it is extremely important that you have a masculine butt for us to savour because a lot of female pleasure in sex comes from tactile sensations and environmental factors. Hard toned butts are a must! So guys, do your workouts if you want more rim jobs!!!
 
Partly written to follow up on a message I received:

Yes, it is erotic for women to see other women posing with legs wide apart. Yes, we could do with more upskirt shots, where the actress opens her legs wide and the camera zooms in on the panty flashed.

But there is always a nuance when it comes to women.

Men just want body parts. We want social context.

Pornographers should split the screen into two. Technology makes it easy to do nowadays.

One can zoom in on the woman as object of lust.

The other camera should be taken over her shoulder, and feature, in wide angled glory, all the lustful men looking at the woman.

My heart rate doesn't go up at the sight of another woman's crotch. It goes up when I am put in the place of the actress spreading her legs, and all these nasty lustful men are fixated on me. It is very tense. The anticipation is incredible. I sometimes tremble. If the scene is properly set up and the porno guys are patient and the panties are tight enough to press against the crotch, in some cases the panties can actually start getting wet on camera!
 
You have made so many foggy points clear for me. I can understand women's view on sex better amid I am a married men.

I wish my wife had a friend like you.
 
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