Bewilderedwife
Female
Oh and I'm pretty sure my husband is a member here. I have no idea what his screen name is. I plan on having a talk with him soon and find out. I'd love to see what he has posted
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As another single black male who has been having sex with white women for 45 yrs, and raised during the 60s, this is my personal observation.Yea bro what is in the water in America making all these white guys into cucks?
This rise ("epidemic" lol) of the Cuckolding with black males/white women fetish by white males is, at least in part, born from our very deep rooted history of slavery...
It has evolved over a couple hundred years and after the sexual revolution of the 60s, things not dared to be thought of or explored began to have bigger and bigger attraction to us.
For white men, being the "controller", the holder of "power", the turn on is being stripped of it by that "black stud" who takes his sexual prize, the "quintessential sexual goddess"...his white wife.
It's animalistic in nature, this fetish. Back in the day, the black man was viewed as barely human, only good for hard labor and breeding, and subconsciously seeing this dark "stud" taking and "debasing" her purity, and leaving him impotent, is both the most disgusting and sexually arousing thought he can have.
That racism in this country has not ever really died, or really been dealt with, leaves it in those dark places of our minds, and this is just one way it comes out to be dealt with psychologically.
Just mho.
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Bewilderedwife
Female
Interesting perspective
i think in some ways the same is true for many white women. For instance i had met with a couple who were exploring this for the first time about 20yrs ago. Had been in communication with him, but she had only seen a few pics of me. She was Very conservative, never had any real contact with a black male before this, and from what he told me the thought (seeing interracial "sex scenes" in mainstream media) disgusted her...
However once we were both naked and sitting on the bed and kissed her lips, she tightened them and her body went rather stiff, but when i put her hand on my hardening dick, her mouth opened up and she grabbed it tight, and began to orgasm...just from that the ******* arousal was so high! Her second orgasm was 5minutes later right after I entered her extremely wet pussy. She came about 16 times that evening.
She later opened up and we talked about her experiences, both in the past and that evening with her admitting to previously having negative thoughts of black men, and not ever truly being able to see them as "people" from her upbringing. She apologized for that, and I actually saw them pretty regularly after that.
However once we were both naked and sitting on the bed and kissed her lips, she tightened them and her body went rather stiff, but when i put her hand on my hardening dick, her mouth opened up and she grabbed it tight, and began to orgasm...just from that the ******* arousal was so high! Her second orgasm was 5minutes later right after I entered her extremely wet pussy. She came about 16 times that evening.
She later opened up and we talked about her experiences, both in the past and that evening with her admitting to previously having negative thoughts of black men, and not ever truly being able to see them as "people" from her upbringing. She apologized for that, and I actually saw them pretty regularly after that.
I've actually been thanked for helping a married couple who was on the verge of divorce. The sex had dried up and they were not doing good in their marriage in general. They both decided at some point to bring another man into their bed to "spice things up", as they say. I guess I was that man! Anyway, afterwards, the husband fell in love with his wife all over again as he saw how sexy she looked getting taken by another, and she enjoyed having something different. The husband said he never knew how sexy his wife really was until he saw her with a black man. It rekindled their love for each other and saved their marriage. They thanked me for that.
Many things in life don't have a simple answer. I know I cannot say why the lifestyle appeals to me. I'm a single (divorced) white male, who has never actually engaged in it.
Why do some CEOs like to pay a dominatrix to humiliate them? Not sure. Often, we want things different than what we're used to, or how we live in public. I tend to be more dominant in public, and in many of my sexual relationships, I tend to be dominant.
I was married a long time, and never considered this lifestyle back then. My ex, near the end of the marriage, suggested we should sleep with other people. We never really pursued it, as that was when she hit a manic phase of her bipolar, and she went a bit sex-crazy.
My bigger point is it's hard to say why something turns someone on. Your hubby needs to find out for himself if it's an absolute must have, or something he can get past.
Bewilderedwife
Female
I kinda understand that now. But it had to start somewhere. I'm thinking he found this type of porn and he got hooked.
Or saw himself in it. It spoke to something deep inside him that he identified with..
Bewilderedwife
Female
Possibly so. But he's not a sissy type like some I've noticed on here. I think the idea is a lot more pleasing than reality would be for him.
You'd be surprised at some of those "sissy" types meeting them on the street... I've seen big burley bikers, macho in public Italian guys and truck driving rednecks take on this role as a cuck. But 80% of guys on the street wouldn't fuck with them.
Bewilderedwife
Female
I can't picture him that way. I'm hoping hes truly liking the part of being a spectator and not wanting to do weird sissy stuff
ChristyandJake
Couple
Stick to your guns. This lifestyle starts as one thing . .an progress into much..much more. More so for the wife.
But..I'm wearing a cage now..and not getting any ..tell him to think on that.
But..I'm wearing a cage now..and not getting any ..tell him to think on that.
Wow that;s a strong statement, I was born in the 50's in the deep south. i had lots of contact with black people in my youth. Sorry i just don't see it that way or shall I say as bad as you make it to be.
So true both ways, my hubby is a big teddy bear who plays Pokemon and collects swords, nicest guy you'd ever meet but if someone tried to cuck him with me I'm 100% they'd have to fight him right then
I didn't say that was absolute, nor does it apply to Everyone, whether you are from the deep South or deep North... But in a general sense, the opinion is based on historical fact and I believe that is the foundation of this fetish.
Will add to that high powered attorneys, doctors, C-Suite level executives, fighter and commercial pilots, business owners, inherited and new entrepreneurs.
No only in USA,the same happen in EU and Caribbean Islands ,like a black man grow up in South of Europe there's the same games,many Spanish women think they aren't complete in life until a black man fuck them.
Sad to said they will not love you but they will have sex with you and many times behind the back of husband knowledge just to full field the sexual desire I don't know what kind of game it is but there's a bit of sexual superiority over man,and could be a bit racial too they get torn on to think a black man they are fucking they white vaginas with out husband knowing. ( STRANGE GAMES).
Bewilderedwife
Female
Thanks everyone for the advice. Hubbys taking me out this weekend and we're going to have a heart to heart. He says he doesn't want to loose me and he's going to do whatever it takes to put this behind us. And although I'm not going to have sex with another man, you guys have helped me to see his perspective somewhat.
