Trying to get conservative wife to open up sexually to cuckolding

[pvak74]

My wife and I have been married almost 20 years. I'm into the cuckolding but wife is pretty conservative sexually. We don't have intercourse often and as such I have become a premature ejaculator. She wants it more and has said so but cumming quick is hampering it. Sex for us has become this more often of not We have some larger black dildos we have used at times and she clearly loves it. They are longer and thicker than me and they last as long as she likes. But because she is conservative, she is hesitant to use them although she cums hard as hell on them and clearly loves the feeling of them. I feel like in some ways we are already going into a cuckolding lifestyle without her actively knowing it. But I want her to open up more and introduce her more cuckolding? Any specific ideas on what I should do?

 

[Voltaire68]

My wife and I have been married almost 20 years. I'm into the cuckolding but wife is pretty conservative sexually. We don't have intercourse often and as such I have become a premature ejaculator. She wants it more and has said so but cumming quick is hampering it. Sex for us has become this more often of notView attachment 1088670 We have some larger black dildos we have used at times and she clearly loves it. They are longer and thicker than me and they last as long as she likes. But because she is conservative, she is hesitant to use them although she cums hard as hell on them and clearly loves the feeling of them. I feel like in some ways we are already going into a cuckolding lifestyle without her actively knowing it. But I want her to open up more and introduce her more cuckolding? Any specific ideas on what I should do?

Hi pv......for sometime now....'Penthouse Letters' has been publishing very kinky and erotic IR cuckolding stories and lately including Black pregnancy. Find a copy or get a subscription .......when your wife reads those stories she will be happy to try some BBC for real.!! v68

 

[Maleslave]

My wife and I have been married almost 20 years. I'm into the cuckolding but wife is pretty conservative sexually. We don't have intercourse often and as such I have become a premature ejaculator. She wants it more and has said so but cumming quick is hampering it. Sex for us has become this more often of notView attachment 1088670 We have some larger black dildos we have used at times and she clearly loves it. They are longer and thicker than me and they last as long as she likes. But because she is conservative, she is hesitant to use them although she cums hard as hell on them and clearly loves the feeling of them. I feel like in some ways we are already going into a cuckolding lifestyle without her actively knowing it. But I want her to open up more and introduce her more cuckolding? Any specific ideas on what I should do?

In the first place, be verry patient and talk about it with her while having sex. Support her when she's going to her orgasm and tell her you're happy and realy liked it she had one or more good orgasms. What you call conservative is the way she's brought up, you can't change that in one day. Try to watch (accidentally) with her to a soft- or female-friendly porn movie where black man give a woman the time of her life. When I do that with my wife she's horny as hell and demand me to get her dildo and fuck her brains out. Your wife just need to getting used to things.

 

[pvak74]

Penthouse letters are a good idea. I think just making her accustomed to that and soft core porn and she may open up some. She has told me a few times "bigger was better" after using the black dildos. So I know it's inside her, but with her upbringing it's hard to break that. Consistency of using the black dildos with some porn and maybe some lite role play should help that, maybe