Tips for getting the wife blacked?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Sluttysams hubby, Jun 9, 2014.

  1. Sluttysams hubby

    Sluttysams hubby Member

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    Looking for help to convince the wife to go black. We have talked about it for a while now. Any helpful hints?

    Thanks !
     
  2. becontree2001uk

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    One method is to begin to frequently bring home videos that exclusively have interracial content in them. If you want to be successful at this manipulation don't start showing her an aggressive group of black guys gang-fucking a white slut! You should work your way towards that though, over a period of several weeks, since it will give you a bench mark of how far she is turned on by the idea, and also depend on whether your ultimate goal is turning her into a total slut for black dicks. But what ever your boundary is, you need to start off slowly and remember to approach the situation in a jovial fashion. Joking her along about "How about having a black guy then" and seeing what her reactions are etc.
    When you first begin and you're watching an interracial scene in a video, it's very important to let her know how much it turns you on, not by telling her, but by showing her! Assuming that as you watch the videos, you'll make love to her by kissing and caressing her, slowly, make sure her pussy gets wet as you play with her. Then begin to eat her pussy more aggressively as interracial scenes are showing.

    It would be a good idea at this point or earlier if you think she's ready for it, that you introduce a large, thick black dildo/vibrator into the love making, so she gets to feel what big black dicks are like. But for Christ sake, when penetrating it first off, do it slowly and carefully, maybe lubricating it with saliva or lube jell. You don't want to put her off the size, because this could go against you in the later stage of actually suggesting she try black!
    It's important that when you use the black dildo/vibrator you do everything to see that her pleasure is increased, including bringing her to multiple orgasms with the dildo, your cock and your mouth, until she can't stand it and pushes you away!

    The next step is a little more difficult, but by this point you should have found a way to verbalize how hot it makes you feel to see the white sluts in the videos with black dicks. Then as you're making love and using the black dildo on her, you should let her know that you've fantasized of seeing her in that situation with a real black dick. Try and say it in a 'matter of fact' style. Encouraging her to use the big black dildo/vibrator when you're not around might help reinforce the fantasy.

    When out play a game, ask her to rate the attarctiveness of black guys, how good they are in bed, their cock size, etc. Let her know it's a bit of fun but it's a real turn on for you.

    Good luck and let us know how it goes
     
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  3. chris john

    chris john Active Member

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    what if you have talked about it and she is curious
     
  4. Sluttysams hubby

    Sluttysams hubby Member

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    She is somewhat interested I think
     
  5. chris john

    chris john Active Member

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    yes she is
     
  6. Not a Myth

    Not a Myth Active Member Gold Member

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  7. kissylips

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    there many liltte and subtle hints/clues u can give..and during sex might b a great time to get started..but the ultimate decision will be hers period
     
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  8. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    If the two of you have never tried any form of swinging (couple swap, 3-somes, etc), just try to understand that this is a big deal for a married woman. You're not only wanting her to have sex with another man, but you're also wanting her to have interracial sex. She's taking ALL the risks, at her expense, when you think about it.
    • She doesn't know (nor do you) exactly how this activity will impact your marriage. And if your marriage comes under any type of stress down the road (over 50% of marriages fail), the fact that she had been fucking black men could come out. How embarrassing would that make her look in the eyes of her family and friends?
    • Diseases and injuries ... all on her!
    • Her doing so would change your marriage to some degree ... trust me. You'll not view her in the same perspective ever again.
    • She could become emotionally attached to the individual she has her fling with.
    • She could be concerned that by fulfilling your wish, that you might view this as permission for you to be with other women. It's rare that a married woman would give her husband permission to be with other women.
    The marriage contract establishes a list of promises, restrictions, and parameters that women tend to take a lot more seriously than men, mainly because we're so weak when it comes to temptations of the flesh.

    If you've never done any swinging in your marriage, I'd suggest you take some baby steps off the board before jumping into the deepest end of the pool. Then, whatever you do, do it together and constantly reassure her afterwards.

    Just my opinion! GIF_GrouchoMarx.gif
     
    #8 MacNfries, Jul 6, 2014
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  9. dunacouple

    dunacouple Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    If this thread is any indication of the way your communication with her is, I think it will be a while ;)

    Talk talk talk. Once you somehow got the conversation to the point you feel comfy telling your fantasy and your wife knows it's for real the process starts. With most women it takes a pretty long while. Years rather than month's.

    And mostly because they are realistic. They think about consequences rather than jizzing. If your wife is not comfortable with setting boundaries you could face some serious trust issues. Either because you or she loses control over the situation because you did not take baby steps. Once you jump in front of a train it's over, damage has been done.
     
  10. chris john

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