This lifestyle has changed....

[Blkjmj]

I been doing this lifestyle since 2018 and I must say it has changed. I know everyone have preference and I understand that but lately I been getting hit with couples that want me to play with husband/BF
I don't judge but if I tell u I'm a straight black man that's what I am
The same way a woman tells u I'm looking for a blk bull 10in or more I don't get pushyi move on
I don't want another man suckin me
That's just me

 

[Sexlifeupgrade]

I been doing this lifestyle since 2018 and I must say it has changed. I know everyone have preference and I understand that but lately I been getting hit with couples that want me to play with husband/BF
I don't judge but if I tell u I'm a straight black man that's what I am
The same way a woman tells u I'm looking for a blk bull 10in or more I don't get pushyi move on
I don't want another man suckin me
That's just me

It appears that there is more gay men than str8

 

[SemperDominus]

I been doing this lifestyle since 2018 and I must say it has changed. I know everyone have preference and I understand that but lately I been getting hit with couples that want me to play with husband/BF
I don't judge but if I tell u I'm a straight black man that's what I am
The same way a woman tells u I'm looking for a blk bull 10in or more I don't get pushyi move on
I don't want another man suckin me
That's just me

Totally! I agree! Bro…Personally, I am not here to get people off! For me! It’s always been about hanging out with cool people… lots of unplanned stuff..I am just no one’s booty call lol

 

[JaxCougar]

Everything evolves and changes. 25-30 years ago hardly anyone did anal, you couldn’t even find porn with anal scenes. People are desensitized and lose inhibitions over time.

Try going to an event like Fetcon, which is a BDSM meet up/conference. Thirty years ago the BDSM scene was predominantly people over 40. These days you have 18-20 year olds crawling around on dog leashes.

 

[MacNfries]

It appears that there is more gay men than str8

At least on THIS WEBSITE ...
Since "gayness" has come out of the closet in the past decade, a lot of men are admitting to their bisexuality desires .. and I mean ALL MEN.
You shouldn't let it annoy you, just state to the couple that you're straight and do not interact with other males. Many will agree to not interacting as long as they can watch.
Most married women get into this fetish by their insistent husbands, and its the men's way of interacting with black men. Annoying, yes!
But, you should be flexible enough to allow the spouses to "watch" as long as they are a comfortable distance from you.

 

[Blkjmj]

I been wanting to post this discussion
I didn't wanna offend
I guess I'm old school
Love pussy can't evolve into this new age

 

[ncbbccuckcpl]

I been doing this lifestyle since 2018 and I must say it has changed. I know everyone have preference and I understand that but lately I been getting hit with couples that want me to play with husband/BF
I don't judge but if I tell u I'm a straight black man that's what I am
The same way a woman tells u I'm looking for a blk bull 10in or more I don't get pushyi move on
I don't want another man suckin me
That's just me

We have been in the lifestyle for 25 plus years and yes alot has changed but what you speak of has always been there, just has become more of a fetish.

 

[GVLBottom]

As a bi cuck, I can absolutely 100% agree and respect that point.

Of course M and I would look and prefer to find bi bulls, but if we found a guy she liked and he fit the bill for her needs, I really don’t care if he didn’t want to play with me. As long as he was okay with me watching, then that was fine. That was the only line we insisted on. The guys that wanted to be totally alone with her didn’t do it for either of us.

we even had one guy that didn’t like the idea of me being in panties, which again wasn’t a problem. I still wore my cage, but sat and watched in a jockstrap. We tried our best to accommodate if the Bull did the same for us. We do realize though that you don’t “compromise” on homosexual activity, and I don’t know why some cucks don’t see that.

I’m sorry you’ve had to go through that. Hopefully this problem will correct over time when those guys realize there isn’t a market for what they are selling.

 

[GVLBottom]

Now that said….

I will say we always at least asked if the Bull would be into it. I’ve had many an encounter with guys that say “straight” in their fetlife profile, and I can respect that because I’m as discreet as they get in real life. we even had one guy that was a hard “no fucking way” I’m his messages that got us in the room and changed his mind….and I had NO plans of that. We didn’t push, ask again, anything. He just saw me dressed and decided to take the plunge. Fine with us.

I guess I’m trying to say if they ask, don’t take it personally. Being pushy with it is a different story.

 

[meetgeorgejets]

I will say this, if I may...and that's that, as the husband, I don't want or feel a need to be present while my wife is with her black bull. They have a lot more fun when they are alone together and that in itself, turns me on!!!!

 

[BayernBBC]

I been wanting to post this discussion
I didn't wanna offend
I guess I'm old school
Love pussy can't evolve into this new age

To quote Dave Chappelle: what could be more Manly than having another dude suck your dick?

Seriously though, if it's not for you, don't partake. Doesn't bother me one jot or tittle if I cuck wants to eat dick along with his Lady. I've said it once, I'll say it a billion times more: define your boundaries and don't let people overstep them, and change them by your choice/decisions, not someone else pressuring you. Be vocal and communicate clealy what those boundaries arel. I've always been a pussy loving non-conformist, a man giving me a blow-job with his lady won't change that or my sexuality

 

[txwifey]

We have been doing it since 1997 and now that the closet is wide open it definitely has become more common, but still unwanted in most cases. We see it going the other way too, with the invited males wanting contact with the husband/partner. Definitely a turn off for.my husband but it wouldn't bother me too much

 

[extreme]

We have been doing it since 1997 and now that the closet is wide open it definitely has become more common, but still unwanted in most cases. We see it going the other way too, with the invited males wanting contact with the husband/partner. Definitely a turn off for.my husband but it wouldn't bother me too much

when did you marry? If you have ******* , you can train them into this lifestyle

 

[Jaxrussellbbc]

I been doing this lifestyle since 2018 and I must say it has changed. I know everyone have preference and I understand that but lately I been getting hit with couples that want me to play with husband/BF
I don't judge but if I tell u I'm a straight black man that's what I am
The same way a woman tells u I'm looking for a blk bull 10in or more I don't get pushyi move on
I don't want another man suckin me
That's just me

I started back in 1999 . This lifestyle has change a lot especially since cellphones and social media. It’s fucked up now .

 

[cucktacular]

I am bothered by the online “communities”, and how they tend to drive to the public image of the lifestyle. The Twitter, fet life, and podcast communities are the outward face and the likes drive the content it seems.

 

[Diamondjim]

Another big change is the condum went from a must to now "please take it off and cum inside me" and the hubby does not say a word.

 

[Jimmy jams]

I been doing this lifestyle since 2018 and I must say it has changed. I know everyone have preference and I understand that but lately I been getting hit with couples that want me to play with husband/BF
I don't judge but if I tell u I'm a straight black man that's what I am
The same way a woman tells u I'm looking for a blk bull 10in or more I don't get pushyi move on
I don't want another man suckin me
That's just me

steer clear of the queer...bro

 

[enjoy1980x]

At least on THIS WEBSITE ...
Since "gayness" has come out of the closet in the past decade, a lot of men are admitting to their bisexuality desires .. and I mean ALL MEN.
You shouldn't let it annoy you, just state to the couple that you're straight and do not interact with other males. Many will agree to not interacting as long as they can watch.
Most married women get into this fetish by their insistent husbands, and its the men's way of interacting with black men. Annoying, yes!
But, you should be flexible enough to allow the spouses to "watch" as long as they are a comfortable distance from you.
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I agree! I get approached by men all the time, or women wanting their husbands or bf’s to be involved with me sexually as well. I just reiterate the fact that I’m straight and don’t interact sexually with men and most are pretty cool about it. Others are looking for bi men that thy can both be with. You just have to state your position, that’s all. Don’t be disappointed.... it’s part of the ball game.

 

[Diamondjim]

One dude beged me for months to fuck his wife. He got her really high and I think she was their dog cause barked as I punted er. Out of nowhere the dude comes in the room and tries to jam his little cock in my ass. I pounded the ******* out of him and left him with his frustrated wife trying to humo his soft dick and bruised nuts. No is fucking No

 

[zigg01]

One dude beged me for months to fuck his wife. He got her really high and I think she was their dog cause barked as I punted er. Out of nowhere the dude comes in the room and tries to jam his little cock in my ass. I pounded the ******* out of him and left him with his frustrated wife trying to humo his soft dick and bruised nuts. No is fucking No

WTF … that’s ridiculous. I think boundaries are discussed way before people even contemplate playing.