The Spontaneous, Secret/Surprise Encounter, does it ever work?

[Skinnytalls]

The whole “I [white guy] would love to see my gf/wife try BBC but it has to be a ‘surprise’ because reasons. We’ll show up at place X and you [black dude] flirt with her and try to get in her pants.” ad that I’ve seen all too often in one form or another, has this plan ever successfully worked for anyone? It seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

When you message these guys, almost invariably the woman has no idea what the guy is planning and said plan usually involves plying the woman with alcohol and/or ******* to make more responsive and “horny” . Idk what the actual legal guidelines for Conspiracy to Commit ******* are but this sounds awful close.

My best guesses for the thinking behind posting this ad:

1) FAKE

2) I [white guy] have this fantasy but don’t have the balls to actually communicate my desires to my partner and think it would be fantastic if I could just put 100% of the work and responsibility of fulfilling MY sexual fantasy on this entirely separate person [black dude] who, if I really delved down into my psyche, I don’t view as fully human, just a tool of my sexual desires.

3) I [white guy] have this fantasy and I have communicated this to my partner but she has some reservations about it or has flat out told me NO but I don’t respect her or her opinion enough so I plan to go through with this anyway, consequences for all parties involved be dammed.

I’ve never actually gone through with meeting of these people, has anyone ever tried this? Was it successful? For the women out there, has this happened to you and we’re you thankful or resentful?

 

[thestag]

My wife is the definition of submissive, and I have done this several times before with a roughly 50/50 success rate. The times she failed to go for it were because she felt no attraction to the guy for one reason or another, even though I thought she would eagerly accept. Those guys were disappointed, but none showed and sign of being resentful when we parted. There are guys out the willing to play the game, but most don't want to waste their time.

 

[BiSubCuck]

I think you need to hear from many cuckolds how it actually goes in the relationship.
Firstly, most women do not wish to be talking about their next or first extra marital encounter all the time. Far from it infact. So once agreed that this is something on the cards then its pretty much down to the man to do the research, find the right man, ditch countless others and NOT talk with her about every detail of this endeavour. It really does put the lady off the whole idea.
Secondly...... Spontaneous occurrences are what many ladied prefer. To be chatted up in a gentlemanly fashion and then things at some point escalate to a sexual encounter. So, these guys who you think have not found the courage to communicate. They most likely have, but they know their lady far better than anyone else and they know how to work in order to avoid the plan going sour. Once it does, it is VERY hard to repair.

 

[Happy sussex]

As we have written a few times , after years of trying to get my wife to experience black with no joy. When we went to a party and she danced with an older black guy and felt his cock rubbing against her, it was the start of her becoming a slut and whore for her bbc lover . The change in her sexually is amazing. She now admits that she should have tried bbc when I first wanted her to . This happened at the right time and place totally unplanned,So ether I tried to hard or it’s a case of waiting for the right situation and nature will take its course.

 

[straff]

My wife was set up on a blind date by her best friend,who was cheating on her husband.
He asked her if she had a friend for his friend,he had fucked her within 2 hours of meeting,her first black cock.
He fucked her again that first night,and she was smitten.
She literally started immediately doing Everything he asked.

 

[Happy sussex]

My wife was set up on a blind date by her best friend,who was cheating on her husband.
He asked her if she had a friend for his friend,he had fucked her within 2 hours of meeting,her first black cock.
He fucked her again that first night,and she was smitten.
She literally started immediately doing Everything he asked.

Sound the same as my wife he has her exactly where he wants as he tells what she has to do and she does it without hesitation. Even when he included his brother to join in and fuck her which they both did twice each. We are meeting them again later today when he has told her to wear a virtually see through white dress that buttons from the neck to her thighs, both her dark nipples and pubic bush Are clearly visible so her body will be visible to anyone looking as we are meeting in a bar our first time in public with them.

 

[straff]

Sound the same as my wife he has her exactly where he wants as he tells what she has to do and she does it without hesitation. Even when he included his brother to join in and fuck her which they both did twice each. We are meeting them again later today when he has told her to wear a virtually see through white dress that buttons from the neck to her thighs, both her dark nipples and pubic bush Are clearly visible so her body will be visible to anyone looking as we are meeting in a bar our first time in public with them.

That is so exciting,He told her the first night,no more sex with your husband,you’re mine now,nobody else has your pussy unless I give permission.
She had a little bush and smooth pussy lips when she met him,just like I like it,he made her grow her pubes,then when he was able to,he razored a J(his initial) into her hairs and sent her home,it was such a turn on seeing her ‘branded ‘like that,then he told her for the next meeting she had to be fully shaven.
He insists she is always shaved when she meets him,and she can never wear panties or trousers in his presence.

 

[Wife4Black77]

I have exchanged messages with a number of black men over the years who have confirmed it can work and some talked about how it went. There have been a couple black guys who said the husband lied about what their wife knew and what their wife wanted and those went very badly.

Like with anything when it comes down to it honesty is essential. I am very open and honest with the guys I am in touch with right now. I have been open with my wife about my fantasy and how much it turns me on. There’s a whole story behind why I am working to set up a chance encounter, but bottomline it will 100% come down to if she wants to do it or if she doesn’t. If she doesn’t all she will know is that a good looking black guy flirted with her and let her know that he thought she was really sexy. If it’s the latter guarantee I will have a really fun time that night in bed. I’m cool, so if the guy I involve is cool there is nothing but upside.

 

[James Again]

I don't even reply to that kind of stuff. If she isn't already into it, I'm not going to try to convince her. It's hard enough to meet the right people as it is, this situation is a non starter.

 

[Blonde Wife PAWG]

Sound the same as my wife he has her exactly where he wants as he tells what she has to do and she does it without hesitation. Even when he included his brother to join in and fuck her which they both did twice each. We are meeting them again later today when he has told her to wear a virtually see through white dress that buttons from the neck to her thighs, both her dark nipples and pubic bush Are clearly visible so her body will be visible to anyone looking as we are meeting in a bar our first time in public with them.

Very very cool. Inspirational.

We have discussed showing/sharing her and dominating her into anonymous bbc group (semipublic) rough sex.
She asked to get taken to a club and texted commands to flirt, chat up, cocktease, grind on, flash, etc men/couples specifically then taken to the back and ordered who to fuck and suck in sequence out to the parking lot.

Showing off is hot.

She's old school and has asked to get hit on, felt up, shown, shared in person at bars, lounges, clubs.

 

[Blonde Wife PAWG]

She also get horny and very into flirting on social media with a "random" brother her type.

Gonna discuss that here shortly and heat check.

She recently begged to get bbc gang'ed, too. That of course would be anonymous.

 

[petco]

The whole “I [white guy] would love to see my gf/wife try BBC but it has to be a ‘surprise’ because reasons. We’ll show up at place X and you [black dude] flirt with her and try to get in her pants.” ad that I’ve seen all too often in one form or another, has this plan ever successfully worked for anyone? It seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

When you message these guys, almost invariably the woman has no idea what the guy is planning and said plan usually involves plying the woman with alcohol and/or ******* to make more responsive and “horny” . Idk what the actual legal guidelines for Conspiracy to Commit ******* are but this sounds awful close.

My best guesses for the thinking behind posting this ad:

1) FAKE

2) I [white guy] have this fantasy but don’t have the balls to actually communicate my desires to my partner and think it would be fantastic if I could just put 100% of the work and responsibility of fulfilling MY sexual fantasy on this entirely separate person [black dude] who, if I really delved down into my psyche, I don’t view as fully human, just a tool of my sexual desires.

3) I [white guy] have this fantasy and I have communicated this to my partner but she has some reservations about it or has flat out told me NO but I don’t respect her or her opinion enough so I plan to go through with this anyway, consequences for all parties involved be dammed.

I’ve never actually gone through with meeting of these people, has anyone ever tried this? Was it successful? For the women out there, has this happened to you and we’re you thankful or resentful?

i agree . i like to inspire my wife by taking her out _ but just to have a nice evening , relax her mind . sure i hope there are some nice guys for her to watch and if she got a compliment _ yes it would be fine to increase her selfconfidence and help her to feel sexy .
yes i hope she will be curious about black guys .
but i would not set up a meeting like you said , this is not the way .
a meeting with a guy can only be set after she agree .

 

[Diane4bbc]

Diane here... not exactly the same thing but we had a real experience similar to this.
Early on, after I discovered my husbands interest in IR porn and we started taking about IR fantasies while in bed, he tried to set something up.
On one of our out of town date nights he suggested we go to a couples friendly strip club. I went along with it and found it fun. While we were there I did notice a single black man watching the couples and even looking at us. Nothing happened, but when we got back to the hotel, Mark asked if I saw the black man checking me out. I said yes and we started some foreplay. He asked if it turned me on to have him looking. I said it did... then he said he had been chatting with the guy online and told him to be at the club and if we were interested we would approach him.
I was shocked but really turned on. I said, "So, if I had approached him, he was there to fuck me?" Then I climbed on top of Mark and as I rode him I said he should have told me since I wanted a big black cock. Mark came almost immediately. I had him eat me out so I could cum, all the time telling him how I was fantasizing about sex with the stranger.
That is the closest we have come to any real encounter. My only regret is that it was unfair to the man hubby set up.