I think you're on-point.
When I joined the Army, I was able to hear firsthand the white guys who hated black guys dating white girls and hated the white girl for dating black guys.
On the other hand, I was also able to hear firsthand how black guys spoke about white girls.
It was intriguing to hear: Fascinating. I think it was the first step toward my fantasies of watching my wife with black, followed by the actual.
My first wife was a sexy, petite, 19 year old brunette and I absolutely loved seeing the black soldiers eye her ~ knowing what they were thinking, based upon what I had heard firsthand.
Thanks for the posting of your opinions, and as mentioned: I think you're right on point.