The "Porn Director" Husband

[Idowives0763]

I was going through a few videos and came across one that made me laugh. I'm sure many of the Bulls here have found themselves involved with a wife who has a porn director as a husband. You know the ones I'm talking about....as you're trying to concentrate on giving her pleasure, he's shouting out directions from across the room. I'm curious to hear from everyone on this topic:

Bulls....how do you deal with it?
Wives....how does it make you feel?
Husbands.....why do you do it?

As for me, what I find works best is having a good talk with the husband prior to seeing his wife so that I can find out what all of his 'hot buttons' are so that I can incorporate them into the encounter if I'm able. I'm aware of the fact that he likes to get his enjoyment out of it but that it really doesn't help the situation if he's off to the side handing out instructions. Now, I'm aware that there are some inexperienced guys out the who benefit from being told how to handle a man's wife while he's fucking her, however I am not one of these guys. So what say you?

 

[Marquis00]

This is a good question and an interesting topic. I agree with you, finding out preferences in advance of the sexcapades allows for a proper Bull to have a proper game plan. You can try to "perform" to give hubby some exciting footage that he wants to see. Speaking for Myself though, I went through the process to have primary fun with the wife, so in the moment, all final decisions stay between us. Just My two cents.

 

[Idowives0763]

This is a good question and an interesting topic. I agree with you, finding out preferences in advance of the sexcapades allows for a proper Bull to have a proper game plan. You can try to "perform" to give hubby some exciting footage that he wants to see. Speaking for Myself though, I went through the process to have primary fun with the wife, so in the moment, all final decisions stay between us. Just My two cents.

Thanks for your input bro. Much appreciated.

 

[Idowives0763]

We try to have those conversations prior to the experience, and for sure I know what my husband likes...so he doesn't feel the need to try to "direct" in any way. Besides, he gets more satisfaction from an organic passionate session that just goes where it goes. In most cases, unless we are doing a three-some or something, he does his best to try to be "invisible," not seen...and definitely not heard. Better for us all!

Besides, he gets more satisfaction from an organic passionate session that just goes where it goes.

I love this part. Exactly how it should be. Thanks for your input.

 

[James Buck]

i was recording an orgy and shouted directions at the white and black bulls it makes them fuck harder

 

[Mywifelovesthis]

I keep quiet. I'm watching intently. Only times I talk is if either my wife or the bulls direct a question or say something to me.

 

[Ann4BBC]

Good question! When we’re trying to arrange a meet, and hubby is going to be present, one of the questions we ask is is the guy ok with us filming, taking pics. So they are ok about it before hand. But even then, when I’m getting it on with the guy, hubby still waits for the guy to say it’s ok before he starts taking pics.
And hubby doesn’t say anything, just stays out of the way and tries to get best pics he can.
Me and hubby do talk about a few things before the meet though, try and keep my legs open or up, show my tattoos, other stuff.

 

[OnePunchDrunk89]

Ive been fortunate enough to not have dealt with it. Communication is key I definitely agree. Ive watched cringe worthy videos of it.

 

[Chungcheng21]

Just be quiet and film.

 

[Larry48]

I have had that to happen too and found myself having to talk to the husband also. Most of the husbands would just watch or either jack off in a corner. But, I just reminded them that ultimately you want the wife pleasured so you need to ease up. Yes, there were times when the wife said I want to do this for the husband and I was good and listened and to be honest it wasn't too bad. But, talking up front is definitely the key.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I was going through a few videos and came across one that made me laugh. I'm sure many of the Bulls here have found themselves involved with a wife who has a porn director as a husband. You know the ones I'm talking about....as you're trying to concentrate on giving her pleasure, he's shouting out directions from across the room. I'm curious to hear from everyone on this topic:

Bulls....how do you deal with it?
Wives....how does it make you feel?
Husbands.....why do you do it?

As for me, what I find works best is having a good talk with the husband prior to seeing his wife so that I can find out what all of his 'hot buttons' are so that I can incorporate them into the encounter if I'm able. I'm aware of the fact that he likes to get his enjoyment out of it but that it really doesn't help the situation if he's off to the side handing out instructions. Now, I'm aware that there are some inexperienced guys out the who benefit from being told how to handle a man's wife while he's fucking her, however I am not one of these guys. So what say you?

I'm laughing because it's true. But I had ONE ridiculous experience where i decided, 'enough of this fuckery'.

That being said, my information page addresses this very topic.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Just be quiet and film.

Exactly. I was thinking more along the lines of 'unless you're paying me? STFU' but, yes. Lol

And no, paying in pussy doesn't count.

 

[OnTheTown2]

If there are special requests by anyone involved they should be worked out beforehand. Most guys are happy to oblige...and so is Mrs. O!

 

[ErikaPeter]

Most of my encounters now are without my husband. However, when he has been present, he has always known to keep quiet and just enjoy the show. I want to enjoy my time with my bull, and let the sex go where he and I want, without having to take directions.

 

[germansheperd]

you know I don't mind the occasional question to make sure shes cool and alright with everything going on, such as 'how do you like it', 'everything ok', 'big cock'? but aside from a line or two just shut up and let her fuck. don't ruin it. you have plenty of time to discuss it later.

 

[BabiBear85]

Call me another lucky one as it has never come up. The times my husband has watched he has remained quiet and let us do what we want.

 

[germansheperd]

Call me another lucky one as it has never come up. The times my husband has watched he has remained quiet and let us do what we want.

as long as everyone is cool and comfortable it the way it should be. as I said before just fuck and don't ruin it,

 

[BabiBear85]

as long as everyone is cool and comfortable it the way it should be. as I said before just fuck and don't ruin it,

I agree. If something starts going on that someone doesn't like or is out of line someone should speak up. Also if he is being the director and you're making a film lol.

 

[J Camz]

Directing can interrupt the mood...

Husbands who are shitty with the camera irritates me more. What are y'all enjoying when you press play the next day or whenever? I'm just saying...I come across a bunch of dark vids nowadays.

 

[OnTheTown2]

Directing can interrupt the mood...

Husbands who are shitty with the camera irritates me more. What are y'all enjoying when you press play the next day or whenever? I'm just saying...I come across a bunch of dark vids nowadays.

Best to keep the lights on!