Hi all, first time posting on here. Been reading for a few months and marvelling at what everyone gets up to.
This is pretty tame but potentially part of a long journey to see what my wife is interested in. We’re both nearly 40 and married nearly ten years with ******* though together since we were 18. Sex has been fairly tame and in recent times I’ve decided we need to try and change that. We all need some excitement in our lives don’t we?!
Being on here would suggest I have an interest in my wife becoming a hotwife, and especially with BBC. I enjoy Cuckold porn though don’t think I want any humiliation. Essentially what I’m interested in is my wife having different experiences and enjoying herself, safely. And I should say, none of this is about forsing her down a path. She certainly knows her own mind and will tell me whether something is a goer or not!
So i’ve started testing the waters. First of all, shorty before having sex I told her I’d had a dream about her having sex with a bbc (I had). She laughed as obviously not expecting it! But she also didn’t stop the foreplay, which could definitely have been one scenario! A month later I told her I’d had another dream and she jokingly said she thought I might be the one who was into BBCs…
Then another month or so later I tell her about an app called Spicer which couples use to find out what fantasies they’re into with a view to discussing and potentially trying some. I’ve sent her the link but annoyingly she hasn’t set it up yet…this of course may say a lot but we’ll see what happens. Of course I’ve said yes to most things in the app so if she does sign up, will be fascinating to see what she says yes to too!
Then fast forward to last night. She’s just got back from a hen (bachelorette) do which involved being away for a few nights. 99.99% sure nothing happened (can you ever be 100%?) but during sex I decided to do some ‘naughty’ talking (not something we’ve ever really done). Basically I implied that she’d been a naughty girl, that she’d wanted to take someone else’s cock on the hen do and had taken someone back to her room for a good seeing too. Importantly she didn’t tell me to stop, she carried on using her vibrator and was clearly enjoying it and came twice. Was so hot. We finished and nothing was mentioned so that’s where we’re at! Will post updates if there are any, but as I say potentially a long journey. Even if this just becomes something that’s a fantasy during sex that we can vocalise it’s better than what was before. Not really sure why I’m posting but felt like I needed to write it down somewhere! However, if anyone does any advice on what to do from here feel free to comment
This is pretty tame but potentially part of a long journey to see what my wife is interested in. We’re both nearly 40 and married nearly ten years with ******* though together since we were 18. Sex has been fairly tame and in recent times I’ve decided we need to try and change that. We all need some excitement in our lives don’t we?!
Being on here would suggest I have an interest in my wife becoming a hotwife, and especially with BBC. I enjoy Cuckold porn though don’t think I want any humiliation. Essentially what I’m interested in is my wife having different experiences and enjoying herself, safely. And I should say, none of this is about forsing her down a path. She certainly knows her own mind and will tell me whether something is a goer or not!
So i’ve started testing the waters. First of all, shorty before having sex I told her I’d had a dream about her having sex with a bbc (I had). She laughed as obviously not expecting it! But she also didn’t stop the foreplay, which could definitely have been one scenario! A month later I told her I’d had another dream and she jokingly said she thought I might be the one who was into BBCs…
Then another month or so later I tell her about an app called Spicer which couples use to find out what fantasies they’re into with a view to discussing and potentially trying some. I’ve sent her the link but annoyingly she hasn’t set it up yet…this of course may say a lot but we’ll see what happens. Of course I’ve said yes to most things in the app so if she does sign up, will be fascinating to see what she says yes to too!
Then fast forward to last night. She’s just got back from a hen (bachelorette) do which involved being away for a few nights. 99.99% sure nothing happened (can you ever be 100%?) but during sex I decided to do some ‘naughty’ talking (not something we’ve ever really done). Basically I implied that she’d been a naughty girl, that she’d wanted to take someone else’s cock on the hen do and had taken someone back to her room for a good seeing too. Importantly she didn’t tell me to stop, she carried on using her vibrator and was clearly enjoying it and came twice. Was so hot. We finished and nothing was mentioned so that’s where we’re at! Will post updates if there are any, but as I say potentially a long journey. Even if this just becomes something that’s a fantasy during sex that we can vocalise it’s better than what was before. Not really sure why I’m posting but felt like I needed to write it down somewhere! However, if anyone does any advice on what to do from here feel free to comment
