This is so stupid.
Relations are based on trust. forsing someone to do things is breaking trust and respect.
Would she like it if he ****** her to fuck a streetbum who hadn't washed himself in two years?
Hardly the same thing, are you likening a black cock to an unwashed streetbum? I did say playfully, sometimes a man needs the decision made for him, I know my hubby does. They all will thank you in the long run. It builds trust, them trusting your word!