You are so right! Big difference between the too.
Simply receiving sperm is not 'breeding' - Breeding is when the female is impregnated. Ergo, she is 'bred'
Just having sex doesn't qualify as 'breeding'
However, from our perspective, when a white woman receives Black sperm, then she is 'Spaded' regardless if she has been bred or not.
We believe that 'Spaded' is a more accurate term. After all, you don't have a 'Queen of Blacks' but you do have a 'Queen of Spades' Thus the act of becoming a QoS is being Spaded.
To this day you will always remember the look on her face as she took him deeper than any one before.. and not only the length, but thicker too... and then those sounds.. the sound of his loins slapping against her buttocks as he used his full length on her .. relentless, far exceeding the number of strokes you could ever muster without quickly ejaculating inside your wifes tight pussy .. , and the sound of her moans, turning to deep scream as the sound of her orgasms and the slapping of their bodies filled the courtyard.