Hey Mac.. Not sure if you were entirely serious about the comments you made to this "Built in Pic" post, but in reference to my own personal experience, you are right about there being a lot of black men who are shy and reluctant to make a move on a white woman. I say that because prior to my girlfriend mentioning it, I never had any thoughts about ever dating a black guy and if my she wouldn't have set me up with this black guy, I'm not sure if either me or the black guy would have ever entered into an interracial relationship. But I might add that at the same time as you making the comment about how black men are shy, there are a LOT of white women out there that are also very shy and reluctant to show their interest in black men also. On my first date with this black guy, I found it very surprising that he was as shy about meeting me as I was about meeting him and it took a couple of hours or so before we ever loosened up and felt comfortable with each other.. So just wanted to add my thoughts about this post when I saw it..