We have been to Splash Mocha 4 times, but always in Ft. Lauderdale. We are planning to attend the other cities as well. My wife has been rather conservative at these events, and I want her to let loose. One man here stated the black men could have 4-5 women a day/night on average, and if planned, 8-10+. I have also heard of women who had 5, but 16, 18, and 24 men during the event. I have heard and read about the black men having to be ready and prepared, and I understand that fully. (I know several Goodfellazs including TJ) I am just curious of the black men who have attended SM, how many women did you have? And if women would say, how many black men did you experience? I ask mostly as my wife felt odd having so many men, which was a low count to me. That is why I booked these events, so she can let loose and have fun. 3 men in one night is not "letting loose" in my mind.