So now what?

Whatnow93 said:
I really don't know moving forward what the best plan is. Would it be wise for the next dates for me to just stay back? Or is this unsafe? Or a bad idea?
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Well I'm guessing if you are thinking about next dates that the act is not what bothered you, more the sight of your fiance enjoying a BBC more than you?. My opinion on that is that this is the crux of wanting to be a cuckold or stag, you Need to see her express and enjoy her sexuality to the full and being pleasured by a BBC should make you happy, it is however a very subjective thing some guys enjoy seeing their wives pleasure as a pivotal part of the experience and others enjoy the idea of not really knowing all there is to know by being there in person. The critical aspect is whether your relationship is strengthened or damaged by the act alone.
I think you need to consider letting her play solo and see how you feel, if it's still not for you then there's a tough discussion required between you and your fiance before you commit to marriage. Good luck whatever happens
 
czy naprawdę wierzysz, że będzie dobrze? jeśli nie podnieci go życie w czystości, nie będzie w porządku, ich seks zniknie na zawsze
 
Whatnow93 said:
So like many of you I have gone back and forth with the cuckold fetish for a long time. I had briefly brought it up to my fiancé with no interest awhile ago, but last month we spoke about it more after one of her friends went into an open relationship. Long story short, she ended up agreeing to trying the whole cuckold thing.

So we ended up making a tinder account together and meeting up with a guy for coffee. He was super chill about it and was interested as long as I didn't participate, which is five since I never intended to. When we met up later in the week, it all went so fast, but I can't get it out of my head, like I think I made a big mistake.

I guess when it's all fantasy, you just kinda think of a cock fucking your girl but never really put it attached to another man. Well I just sat there watching my fiancé, my future wife and mom of my children, the love of my life getting fucked harder and longer than I ever have by a guy who probably doesn't care about her aside from the sex. Like basically some random black guy is invading my fiancé, and she's loving it, and it's all my fault, and I have no idea what to do. Like it's all I can imagine and I can barely even look at her without thinking about it.

I tried talking to her about it, and she is just over the moon and so happy that we tried it. Like she apologized to me for not trying it earlier and I would give anything to just go back in time and have this never happen.
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The trouble and the problem is SHE GOT FUCKED and loved it and in doing so YOU GOT FUCKED '
You let the CAT OUT OF THE BAG and now have to FACE THE CONSEQUENCES.
 
FW wife Benefit said:
For one thing, the very first experiences with any new guy will create a kind of "honeymoon" effect. Sex with your usual partner can be satisfactory, but at some point more and more is needed for it to be exciting. In this case, the whole experience is exciting, and she will perform way better than in a normal setup.
On the other side, the fact that lubrication was lacking (and that it did went so well with the other guy) points to a different issue to be addressed. One great thing is, she for sure enjoys pleasing you too. My wife would never bother to give me a handjob if I fail to satisfy her! And seems that she is now way more open to new things. You too have now a door open to find new ways to bond and enjoy each other, and both are definitely willing to do so. You may at the same time talk with her and find ways to improve traditional intercourse, and also experiment with different kinds of play that may complement this new experience, like tease and denial, or maybe she can go on a date and you have to wait at home for a sloppy second... there is a whole variety of things to try, not just for her but also for you, and I suspect that the fact that you pursued this fantasy is indicative of your interest in making your sexual relationship with her be more exciting, so chances of success are high.
As with anything in a relationship, good communication, avoid taboos, and be creative!
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What do you mean by "a different issue to be addressed"?
 
PawgCelia223 said:
Get really good at 69ing? Rim jobs? Use a dildo? lol idk you'll have to use your imagination.

Plenty of people have offered reasonable advice, and you're entitled to nitpick it and ask further questions (obviously i'm enjoying this counseling session too lol). But honestly, I think you do, or quickly will learn to, enjoy this emotional rollercoaster more than you acknowledge at present.

Like I say, if it gets serious enough, you can or will have to make hard decisions. But for now just put them off and promise yourself to enjoy what you've started.

Just steel yourself to fulfill the promises you made Rebecca. Do your best to give her a good time, and try your best to have a good time too.

Just do that. Swallow your pride and your nagging objections. And quit fretting about it. Have a great time with these next two hot dates, and AFTERWARDS you can go back to being a worrywart if you still have worries about it.

And don't confuse butterflies with ulcers. I think you've capable of having a good time with this. We know Rebecca is. So just give up the worries and HAVE A GOOD TIME.

And frankly, isn't what what you really WANT to hear? Don't you agree that's what you NEED to hear?

Just promise us you'll do it. Get with the program and let Rebecca have these two excellent hot blacking dates and enjoy it to the fullest :)

Let Rebecca have her fun. You promised her. So be a good boy and promise me you'll settle down and go through with it.
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Thanks for the advice, I decided that I will go through with my promise of 3 dates, but I'm hoping she doesn't feel as great about it afterwards. Maybe I can talk to her friend and ask her to help me out?
 
james1979 said:
Well I'm guessing if you are thinking about next dates that the act is not what bothered you, more the sight of your fiance enjoying a BBC more than you?. My opinion on that is that this is the crux of wanting to be a cuckold or stag, you Need to see her express and enjoy her sexuality to the full and being pleasured by a BBC should make you happy, it is however a very subjective thing some guys enjoy seeing their wives pleasure as a pivotal part of the experience and others enjoy the idea of not really knowing all there is to know by being there in person. The critical aspect is whether your relationship is strengthened or damaged by the act alone.
I think you need to consider letting her play solo and see how you feel, if it's still not for you then there's a tough discussion required between you and your fiance before you commit to marriage. Good luck whatever happens
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I'm getting conflicting information on whether I should be there or not..
 
Whatnow93 said:
I'm getting conflicting information on whether I should be there or not..
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My wife says she wants to do it with her Bull first once we actually take the plunge. She says I can watch the video. She says that way she will feel free to completely let go of her inhibitions without me being there and let her true inner BBC slut come out.
 
mariagarcia38 said:
My wife says she wants to do it with her Bull first once we actually take the plunge. She says I can watch the video. She says that way she will feel free to completely let go of her inhibitions without me being there and let her true inner BBC slut come out.
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Yeah but my fiancée is already too into it for my liking, and the last thing I want is for her to become more intense.
 
Whatnow93 said:
Yeah but my fiancée is already too into it for my liking, and the last thing I want is for her to become more intense.
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I don’t think you have a choice my man. Now that she has gotten a taste of the BBC the only thing that will satisfy her hunger is more BBC. Just enjoy it and try to help out like stroking/sucking her Bull’s cock to get it big and hard for her. I’m sure they would both enjoy that.
 
firedogg81 said:
i think she needs to have you there proving how you love her and what shes doing
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But I don't really love what she's doing, and being there is tough. Like I get that you guys all love this idea in fantasy, but when you actually have to sit there and watch a guy fuck your fiancée harder and longer than you ever have is rough. And the worst part is, she enjoyed that one time more than any of the times I've had sex with her. I've never made her orgasm from penetration, but some random guy does it the first time he fucks her. It's not easy and it has taken its toll on me.
 
Whatnow93 said:
But I don't really love what she's doing, and being there is tough. Like I get that you guys all love this idea in fantasy, but when you actually have to sit there and watch a guy fuck your fiancée harder and longer than you ever have is rough. And the worst part is, she enjoyed that one time more than any of the times I've had sex with her. I've never made her orgasm from penetration, but some random guy does it the first time he fucks her. It's not easy and it has taken its toll on me.
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Well you got me there. I may regret it after my wife has actually done it also, but I guess that’s the chance we take. I guess I can see how it might be rough to watch that, but just try and get into the mindset that you’re watching live porn and your girl is the BBC slut. Have you tried fucking her after she’s been fucked by BBC?
 
mariagarcia38 said:
Well you got me there. I may regret it after my wife has actually done it also, but I guess that’s the chance we take. I guess I can see how it might be rough to watch that, but just try and get into the mindset that you’re watching live porn and your girl is the BBC slut. Have you tried fucking her after she’s been fucked by BBC?
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Yeah we fucked later that night and she started drying up after a few minutes and then just ended up giving me a handjob
 
Whatnow93 said:
But I don't really love what she's doing, and being there is tough. Like I get that you guys all love this idea in fantasy, but when you actually have to sit there and watch a guy fuck your fiancée harder and longer than you ever have is rough. And the worst part is, she enjoyed that one time more than any of the times I've had sex with her. I've never made her orgasm from penetration, but some random guy does it the first time he fucks her. It's not easy and it has taken its toll on me.
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you may be stressing too much do what she wants for a bit and see where it leads i really dont see that you have a choice. you agreed to a few times then see. not much choice i think
 
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