mariagarcia38
Male
I think you should roll in their sweaty stench and sniff his seed plastered all over the sheets to remind you of your inferior cuck role.
So now what?
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I think you guys should just leave him alone and stop trying to make him into your model of what a cuckold is.
He hasn't blown it, not yet anyway. The humiliation and submission cuckold lifestyle isn't for everyone. There is not a pattern that works for all. Common sense over fantasy would be a good start.
He hasn't blown it, not yet anyway. The humiliation and submission cuckold lifestyle isn't for everyone. There is not a pattern that works for all. Common sense over fantasy would be a good start.
I agree, sleeping the night in your own bed next to your wife with the pungent smell of alpha sperm all over her and laying on those damp sheets will tell you by the morning if you're cut out for this lifestyle. Hurriedly washing the sheets and her showering is denial. Once you've had an alpha male mark his territory in the oldest, most primal way a human can with your partner, you will either embrace it or go along a very bumpy road from here on.
Well, if it is to save the marriage, correcting the PE problem is utmost important ... critically important. Learning some "foreplay" skills and some confidense will help immensely.
JOKE: Once there was this little male mouse at the Circus who suddenly got ultra-horny. He hadn't had a piece of tail in over 2 months because the circus was putting out mouse traps to exterminate the rodents and he was the "last mouse" alive. So, this little mouse was really horny. As he was sitting on some cow dung pondering his situation he saw the elephants across the way. He got to thinking, as small as he was, he could sneak into the elephant cage and get him some elephant pussy and slip out without being seen ... so away he went. The first cage he came to was this nice female elephant, so he quietly climbs up her hind leg, pulls out his cock and starts pounding away on that elephant pussy. Just about that time the elephant steps on a nail that had been left in the cage during its construction. The nail was sharp and penetrated the elephant right between her toes ... she let out a loud moan, and the little mouse slapped her behind and said "Yeahhh, suffer BITCH, just wait until tomorrow!"
Cuckme Clevlnd
Male
Who wants to quit great sex when they've just discovered what sex is supposed to be? Who does that? The thing is -- you can't put this back. She ISN'T going to forget. You have to deal with this.
She knows that his dick packs a wallop that you just can't match. And that was on their first encounter. She admits she really wants to continue. She's obviously thrilled. That guy's dick redefined her ideal sexual experience and now elicits her response. As you're seeing, this is what she needs to be fully responsive as a woman. And can you really ask her to live with what she now knows is a seriously substandard sex life just because you can't accept your OWN shortcomings?
Methinks that unless you want this to come between you, you now need to do what her friend is doing. That is to celebrate this discovery WITH her. Learn to see the beauty in the sheer power of her response and her unbridled feminine sensuality. Try to go back and you'll come off as weak and insecure. Acknowledge that you know you can't do for her what he does; but add this is why you wanted it for her. You are giving her a gift that both of you know is beyond your capacity.
I think you need to resolve this before moving into marriage. Explain that this will sometimes be hard for you. Ask her if she can commit to supporting you in those times just as you support her in very capable and virile lovers. Your wife's friend -- could you cultivate a relationship with her guy? If he's dealt with some of this, he might be good support for you. Yes, it would be a shame to lose this girl over this incident. But to proceed without such an understanding seems to me a recipe for almost certain disaster.
The reason is, my opening question.
Your thoughts?
You people are right about one thing, she now knows what real good sex can be. But if the BF knows it was a big mistake to allow it to happen, the answer is to make things worse for himself? If it was me I would encourage her to enjoy and be satisfied, but none of us are Now What, he is on the edge of quicksand and some of us can't put the sex aside and work out what is the best for this couple, not us.
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Its a tough one, in the late 1980's my first gf at 19yo cheating on me when I was 23yo (I had only lost my virginity to her a year earlier), I was devastated and she decided she wanted to end our relationship. Wrongly I guess, I begged her to stay with me, telling her i'd do anything to keep her, showered her with gifts beyond belief and started turning a blind eye on her flings just so I could keep my trophy gf. After a couple of years, I was helping her cheat by covering for her when she'd be late to work, family gatherings etc , just so I didn't have to deal with the humiliation from friends and family knowing that she was seeking sex outside of our relationship.
I was adamant as long as no one found out it would be ok, the humiliation of it all was a bigger hurdle for me at that time. I also convinced myself if she used condoms, then technically his cock and cum hadn't actually touched the walls of her pussy, so wasn't 'proper intercourse'. Like I said I was early/ mid 20's, had been a virgin until 22yo and masturbating up to 5 times a day up until then and was just so desperate to hold on to her... and was obviously in complete denial.
This went on for 17 more years, we wre married for the last 4. The one thing that still sticks with me until this day, when she first wanted to end the relationship, she said 'the sex isn't working for me at all and i'm only 19yo, I can't have this sex life for the rest of my life with you' What could I say? She was right and I knew it. She loved large toys, and big rough types of guys... how could I say or hope she wouldn't want more, as a very attractive 19yo, who was hit on all the time, had a huge sexual appetite and loved hard, very rough sex.
I decided it would be like her having lesser vision and never allowing her to read through prescription glasses and enjoy perfect sight.
She said one in an arguement she constantly felt it was like a dog being tied to a tree with its water bowl constantly out of reach, it was driving her insane and affecting her mental health.
So her cheating/ having affairs/ cuckolding me didn't 'save' our relationship/ marriage, but it allowed it to continue for 17 years... wasn't an easy 17 years, but 17 years just the same. I loved her dearly and decided it was the only way I could hold on to her.
You need to figure out if you're preventing this woman from enjoying one of the most primal needs a human can have, by trying to settle for a life with sex she doesn't really enjoy or could have better. Its not that she can't settle, a lot/most do, but I thinks it festers later in life into resentment, cheating or divorce anyway.
I was adamant as long as no one found out it would be ok, the humiliation of it all was a bigger hurdle for me at that time. I also convinced myself if she used condoms, then technically his cock and cum hadn't actually touched the walls of her pussy, so wasn't 'proper intercourse'. Like I said I was early/ mid 20's, had been a virgin until 22yo and masturbating up to 5 times a day up until then and was just so desperate to hold on to her... and was obviously in complete denial.
This went on for 17 more years, we wre married for the last 4. The one thing that still sticks with me until this day, when she first wanted to end the relationship, she said 'the sex isn't working for me at all and i'm only 19yo, I can't have this sex life for the rest of my life with you' What could I say? She was right and I knew it. She loved large toys, and big rough types of guys... how could I say or hope she wouldn't want more, as a very attractive 19yo, who was hit on all the time, had a huge sexual appetite and loved hard, very rough sex.
I decided it would be like her having lesser vision and never allowing her to read through prescription glasses and enjoy perfect sight.
She said one in an arguement she constantly felt it was like a dog being tied to a tree with its water bowl constantly out of reach, it was driving her insane and affecting her mental health.
So her cheating/ having affairs/ cuckolding me didn't 'save' our relationship/ marriage, but it allowed it to continue for 17 years... wasn't an easy 17 years, but 17 years just the same. I loved her dearly and decided it was the only way I could hold on to her.
You need to figure out if you're preventing this woman from enjoying one of the most primal needs a human can have, by trying to settle for a life with sex she doesn't really enjoy or could have better. Its not that she can't settle, a lot/most do, but I thinks it festers later in life into resentment, cheating or divorce anyway.
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Cuckme Clevlnd
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I think this nails it. Resentment will do in a relationship like nothing else. Resentment leads to disgust, and disgust to contempt. No one deserves that. If I saw another way, I'd say 'go for it.' As things stand, it looks like accept it or part ways. It's one thing to say in younger years that 'I'll accept the sexless marriage.' But that can become progressively harder as you age and the relationship you wanted never materializes and you realize that life has 'passed by' you.
It also seems to me that the plan for several encounters also complicates this. If it was just one, you could try to sell the line that it's 'just him' being very good. But after she tries a second and then a third -- that removes any doubts she might otherwise have. Or what if she decides on the third time that she wants all three guys? Can you really pursue marriage with all this unresolved? Please think through all this carefully!
In defense of my ex-wife, who admitted she could never promise to not cheat on me when the moment/s may arise, was she gave me the final choice. Somewhat accept it or end the relationship, it was my choice. I had been sexless all in my youth, so just never wanted to go back to that, but still, it was my call. She also admitted it made so much easier for her knowing I wasn't able to go and get pussy myself, knowing I was a virgin when we met and small dicked she knew I'd never find a woman who'd seek me out for sex, so she always knew no matter how bad she was, I was at home waiting for her and having sex with my hand. She loved me being trapped in a state of monogamy while she enjoyed herself.
But even in the end, with all the extramarital sex she'd had, she still held a lot of resentment towards me for not being able to satisfy her and her needing to find others to do it. So in her eyes, she fucked whoever she liked, but it was still my fault that she had to fuck others, and resented me even more for 'allowing' them to or not 'trying to stop her or them'.
Beautyandheat
Couple
Yes. Talk to her friend and have an honest conversation. I don’t know what kind of relationship you have with her or what kind of person she is, but is Rebecca is a decent human being worth marrying, I’m going to guess BFF is also. I’d listen to what she has to say first, then broach the subject that you aren’t liking this much. She might be willing to help you get your relationship on track. Remember, Rebecca chose you and she probably doesn’t want to lose you either.
Also, I’d ignore the idiots who say she’s gone or you’ll never have a sex life. I’m guessing none of them have been married. I have. The reality is no one knows how this will land and neither do you. She might enjoy the novelty value for a bit and then say “that was nice but I’m done now”. So, go for the three time experiment and see how it goes, then talk
Third, I absolutely would insist on being present. You want her to stay in contact with you, so I’d follow the advice of many cucks and keep it a shared experience at least for now. Only two more times.
Fourth, this is a bit of a wake up call for being better in bed. I’d train and learn some tricks. For endurance google the start stop method. I went from being a full on premature ejaculator to pretty near full control. I could last for hours if that was called for. It’s just about practice. Of course, I was also I. Good shape then. (Running marathons, etc) so start working out also. It’s like any other sport: you can train and practice.
Fifth, I might think about the power imbalance. I REALLY think the idea of asking for a threesome is a good idea. Maybe not the BFF, and maybe once you’ve trained a bit, but her watching you make some other woman scream might get her to see you in a different light.
Lastly, I would understand the difference between love and lust. For example, there are a lot of women I might enjoy being with and it might be exciting, but none of them are going to compare with my wife in all the ways that matter. So, understand that being sexually excited doesn’t really say much about her sense of connection to you.
In a relationship, it’s you connection that matters. Keep working on that. Take her on exciting dates (how about rock climbing?) and she’ll get a touch of excitement with you.
Good luck. I think this will work out ok for you, and perhaps even better than it was.
Beautyandheat
Couple
I’m going to guess she has had orgasmed with other guys before she met you, but she chose you, not them. Sex is important, but it’s not even a quarter of what makes a good marriage.
Beautyandheat
Couple
Oh, well that puts a different cast on it. She has a bit of oats sowing to do. She might appreciate that she gets you and to explore also. I don’t blame her for being excited about it. This might take a while to work itself out
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Cuckme Clevlnd
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A double-bind! I'm seldom at a loss for words, but I think you've done it : |
Ok, first we can’t help you till we can see a naked picture of your girlfriends body...please post it. I am assuming she is hot.
Also, if you want to be better in bed, wack off before you fuck her and then take viagra and wala, you can fuck her for an hour. Also fucking is a mindset. When you fuck her, own her, she is for your use. Think about all the comments on here when women are primal, it’s because the black dude is banging her like a piece of meat. You do the same. No mercy for that pussy!
Ok lastly, if you don’t want her fucking another black dude, tell her so NOW! Let’s think about this, hmmmm, if she gets her brains fucked out 2 more times, she want to quite after....umm yeah..
Just tell her it isn’t what you thought, and it is hurting you emotionally. Better to look like a wuss now than try to have her get her black spade ♠ tattoo removed later.
mariagarcia38
Male
He just set up another date in their apartment. He likes seeing her get her brains fucked out.
Black cock is not better, no races cock is better, and in a commited relationship both people matter bringing a 3rd in is just that, bringing someone else in. Anyone who doesn't think the other person in the relationship should have feelings about a situation is mistaken, yes he brought it up but now he is supposed to take a back seat? That's not how a healthy relationship works.
