Probably not a popular response but I would say probably not. I’ve seen cheating end many relationships. Granted they may have not been that sound if either party is cheating. We were in the lifestyle for years and the lasting couples are those who took the time to talk over everything. Easier than one might think from the female point. Many guys think and have fantasies that they may or may not have shared. Test the water. You might just find you’re of a single mind. I’ve always been a bit of a nympho my husband says. I think he sometimes was thankful for the help. Never into other women but if you follow my artwork you get my point. Swingers parties with plenty of single males or even all male parties. Blacks sure thing we saw them as no different from others. Some might get their bubble busted but I can assure you their not all hung. Except for one they were all polite and more than willing to please. If anything that was the biggest difference the majority wanted to make me enjoy it as much as they did. Not sure if that’s a color thing, if so I liked it. In a way I think it might be. I say this because of conversations with black women who told me the white men really worked them over.