Should I message first?

[CutieforBBC]

Like the title suggests, I feel weird messaging studs first because I’m submissive. Is it alright to start he conversation before they do?

 

[Cajun BBC]

Why not?

 

[Cajun BBC]

You can still be the submissive slut afterwards!

 

[CutieforBBC]

Well I did have a bull tell me it was a turn off so I want to make sure

 

[Cancan34]

Go on, baby!!

 

[Cajun BBC]

Well I did have a bull tell me it was a turn off so I want to make sure

I would think that the majority of black
Men here would like some sign of interest by the lady first. We do like to make the first move a lot but I find it refreshing when the lady/slut shows interest first.

 

[LargoCouple727]

You are good. The bull was just being a jerk and likely trying to discourage you from meeting others.

 

[CutieforBBC]

Well that’s good to hear!

 

[eldawg2017]

I always appreciate the first move.

 

[Checkupdoc]

Well I did have a bull tell me it was a turn off so I want to make sure

I appreciate when she lets me know what she wants

 

[Khrises4u]

Think you should get verified and post a few more pics showing what the bull wants to see.

 

[Wifelovesbbc10]

I think alot of bulls like that first move to let them know it's totally ok. Just my thoughts.

 

[bpwhiteboi]

why not have a white husband/boyfriend finding bbc for you?

 

[Garysxm]

I think alot of bulls like that first move to let them know it's totally ok. Just my thoughts.

You r right

 

[Trimaster]

If the baby don't cry, the baby don't eat!

 

[DiscreetCplFun]

Would venture to say for ever BM who says he finds it a turn-off for the woman to contact first, you'll find a dozen who are pleased you made the first move.

 

[Kai09]

I'm 100% convinced any bull that thinks getting approached by a woman is a turn off is also a sociopath, go ahead and message first.

 

[darkmanxx2000]

Would venture to say for ever BM who says he finds it a turn-off for the woman to contact first, you'll find a dozen who are pleased you made the first move.

this was exactly the comment i came on here to make. If that guy didn't like it, move on to the other dozen who do. It's sexy to have a woman take some initiative like that.

 

[Ram197340]

You may want to get verified prior to contacting anyone otherwise you will get deleted and come off as a fake. Verifying is very easy to do!

 

[wit]

Well I did have a bull tell me it was a turn off so I want to make sure

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