I guess what I mean is the one thing that turns my wife off to this is the extreme cuckolding. She has no problem being someones slut in bed but, she says the black owned , slut wife contracts, and humiliation go way to far. She said if she ever did it would be for our pleasure, not to be someones slut. I even asked her what if she likes it and wants more, she said it would still be about our pleasure. I guess my question is when a couple gets into the lifestyle can they expect their rules they set at the beginning stay intact or would the bull influence their rules ? I would like to hear opinions from wives bulls and cuckolds.
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Should a Couples Cuckolding Experience be by Their Rules or the Bulls ???
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I have always argued that she who has the pussy rules the world. It is a simple law of supply and demand. Men will gladly fuck anything that moves, while she has a legal right to walk away. Therefore the boundaries will end where she says they end. If she says she will do anything, men black or white will ask her to do everything. If she says, she will let them kiss her little toe if they stay locked in chastity, then they will probably jump at the chance to lock their cocks up, black or white. Cuckolds however have no rights. They can walk away, but then they will give up their chance to kiss her little toe.
In our case it was a joint rules agreed by me and my wife..we never allowed bulls to cros tbe boundaries..having said that with time we keep changing rules and we became more acccomodating to her lovers needs, their sexual preferences and their fantasies...also my wife became more bold woman to the extent that when she liked fellow passengers in a 18 hour train journey she fucked the guy in train toilet ...similarly in tbe beginning we had decided tbat her lovers cant share my wife with their friends but we in many cases we ended up allowing guys to introduce my wife to their friends so tbat tbey can also explore every inch of my wifes body and have good fun ...humilation ...or sex denial for me was never even considered let alone trying it . ..I guess what I mean is the one thing that turns my wife off to this is the extreme cuckolding. She has no problem being someones slut in bed but, she says the black owned , slut wife contracts, and humiliation go way to far. She said if she ever did it would be for our pleasure, not to be someones slut. I even asked her what if she likes it and wants more, she said it would still be about our pleasure. I guess my question is when a couple gets into the lifestyle can they expect their rules they set at the beginning stay intact or would the bull influence their rules ? I would like to hear opinions from wives bulls and cuckolds.
I think it totally depends on your own preference, as well as distinguishing the difference between a "cuckolding" lifestyle and a "hotwife" lifestyle.
When my wife and I started a couple years ago she was definitely a hotwife; I just enjoyed her having sex with other guys and I had no desire to sleep with other girls. It's hard to distinguish exactly where we crossed the blurred line into cuckolding but there's no question we are there now. I think a definitive moment was when she reignited a fling with a guy she had slept with long before her and I met. This guy has a really big dick (I'm around average) and after they had sex, she came home and we were both shocked at how little we could feel each other compared to normal, like it was a HUGE difference. But we were both so turned on knowing that it was because his dick is so much bigger than mine. That led to a mutually agreed interest in humiliation, i.e. during sex she would say things like his dick is bigger and better than mine, say she'd rather be having sex with him or just calling out his name while I fucked her. It drove us both wild. We dabbled a little bit in sexual denial like I wasn't allowed to have sex with her for a few days before she was going to see him, and eventually added that I couldn't have sex with her for a few days after either. It wasn't much of a big deal though because they weren't seeing each other very frequently at the time.
Ok so up to this point he assumed that she was just cheating on me with him, having no clue that I was aware. But this guy found interest in cuckold porn/lifestyle on his own and asked her to try and get me interested in it (lol). Now that I "knew about it" they started seeing each other more frequently, which reduced my sexual activity to about once a month (we are still VERY intimate with each other, I just wasn't allowed to penetrate her most of the time). Recently this guy took on more of the "bull" role. Now of course we are adults and could ultimately tell him to kick rocks if we wanted to but instead we gave him the authority to call the shots...well really both of them together, like they're the power couple and I'm the obedient cuckold.
Now he's the classic bull to extreme cuckolding. I already hadn't gotten a blowjob from her in nearly a year anyway but that was his first ban: no more blowjobs, ever. She loved to tease me about it and I loved the teasing, which she told him (traitor haha) so he decided to have her tell me that I'm not allowed to have sex with her without his permission, and apparently laughed as he told her he would always say "no" but it would be fun to make me beg for it. Now we're full-on... She tells me that her vagina belongs to him, that I never get to fuck her again, that my dick is boring and useless, etc.
Like I said, to each their own. But we are three adults that decide to do things a certain way and all three of us LOVE it. That's the important part.
When my wife and I started a couple years ago she was definitely a hotwife; I just enjoyed her having sex with other guys and I had no desire to sleep with other girls. It's hard to distinguish exactly where we crossed the blurred line into cuckolding but there's no question we are there now. I think a definitive moment was when she reignited a fling with a guy she had slept with long before her and I met. This guy has a really big dick (I'm around average) and after they had sex, she came home and we were both shocked at how little we could feel each other compared to normal, like it was a HUGE difference. But we were both so turned on knowing that it was because his dick is so much bigger than mine. That led to a mutually agreed interest in humiliation, i.e. during sex she would say things like his dick is bigger and better than mine, say she'd rather be having sex with him or just calling out his name while I fucked her. It drove us both wild. We dabbled a little bit in sexual denial like I wasn't allowed to have sex with her for a few days before she was going to see him, and eventually added that I couldn't have sex with her for a few days after either. It wasn't much of a big deal though because they weren't seeing each other very frequently at the time.
Ok so up to this point he assumed that she was just cheating on me with him, having no clue that I was aware. But this guy found interest in cuckold porn/lifestyle on his own and asked her to try and get me interested in it (lol). Now that I "knew about it" they started seeing each other more frequently, which reduced my sexual activity to about once a month (we are still VERY intimate with each other, I just wasn't allowed to penetrate her most of the time). Recently this guy took on more of the "bull" role. Now of course we are adults and could ultimately tell him to kick rocks if we wanted to but instead we gave him the authority to call the shots...well really both of them together, like they're the power couple and I'm the obedient cuckold.
Now he's the classic bull to extreme cuckolding. I already hadn't gotten a blowjob from her in nearly a year anyway but that was his first ban: no more blowjobs, ever. She loved to tease me about it and I loved the teasing, which she told him (traitor haha) so he decided to have her tell me that I'm not allowed to have sex with her without his permission, and apparently laughed as he told her he would always say "no" but it would be fun to make me beg for it. Now we're full-on... She tells me that her vagina belongs to him, that I never get to fuck her again, that my dick is boring and useless, etc.
Like I said, to each their own. But we are three adults that decide to do things a certain way and all three of us LOVE it. That's the important part.
For sure, it has to be by our rules and not the Bull's rules. There are so many guys out there who want to fuck any and all females, that they are humble and lovey-dovey while chatting with us at a Bar or dance but there are some who change completely once they get to the room and show their 'proud possession' thinking that a woman cannot possibly resist that cock and therefore would follow any demands made upon her, without even giving a thought to how the husband might feel.
What some bulls don't realize, is that by going to a room with a guy and his wife, it is for mutual pleasure and not by what he wants only. My wife's pleasure is paramount! She gets turned off very easy if the bull starts ordering this or that. At that point it becomes obvious that the bull is thinking outside the box and his pleasure (in his mind) needs to come first. Possessiveness is power. And some bulls like to have power in any situation. Sorry sonny, ..... that doesn't work with my wife, and I'm sure there are many more wives who feel the same way. Tenderness, caressing, talking, taking your time, etc. goes a lot further than barking out orders.
My wife, on 2 occasions similar to what I just wrote, got turned off by the bull's antics and demands and she told him to get dressed and leave. Needless to say, it put a damper on our night out, but there were so many other good night outs that it didn't stop us from enjoying the lifestyle.
What some bulls don't realize, is that by going to a room with a guy and his wife, it is for mutual pleasure and not by what he wants only. My wife's pleasure is paramount! She gets turned off very easy if the bull starts ordering this or that. At that point it becomes obvious that the bull is thinking outside the box and his pleasure (in his mind) needs to come first. Possessiveness is power. And some bulls like to have power in any situation. Sorry sonny, ..... that doesn't work with my wife, and I'm sure there are many more wives who feel the same way. Tenderness, caressing, talking, taking your time, etc. goes a lot further than barking out orders.
My wife, on 2 occasions similar to what I just wrote, got turned off by the bull's antics and demands and she told him to get dressed and leave. Needless to say, it put a damper on our night out, but there were so many other good night outs that it didn't stop us from enjoying the lifestyle.
On dates, we like our bull to be dominant but I'm not into pain. I have few limits other than that. We like our bull to take charge and usually let him know before hand!
Ladylovesblack
Couple
To each their own... We never had ANY major issues with this area. Good people finding good people who respect each other's boundaries. Neither us nor our guys were pushy and the pre play talk was good to touch base on each persons desires. With us, I stayed back quietly filming and enjoying the view while the wife and lovers enjoyed themselves however they wanted. There never was any unexpected humiliation except the wife's occasional finger pointing to perform my much anticipated clean up with one specific partner. We never experienced drama. Guys let us know ahead of time as to their desires to spend the night, play alone for a while, or to play grab a meal and play again. If couples communicate well (c'mon-most in the lifestyle do) and their guys are kept in the loop, no need for a bunch of rules. But, its totally understandable to establish ground rules for all involved AHEAD of the play. If someone takes the lead horse position and the others are ok with it... roll on and enjoy it as it is.
A couple who truly loves each other should make the rules together and agree on those rules (if there are any). In that sense a black man is just a cock for pleasure and fun. Probably a friend too. But if there isn't real love that is mutual, anything could happen.
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